You make the call......

[Shogun]

Ok, where should I start? I'll start this little [insert what you think it's called here] by saying that I used to go to the mall almost every weekend. And everytime I ate out I would go to this Chinese fast food place. It was good so I kept on going to it. And I kept on seeying this one girl. Of course I learned tons of devious tactics from Richard, and, in this case especially, I exercised them to the full. I got perks, I guess I got the name and acted like I cared. *fastforwards*

Well that was then and this is now. She grew up and now attends CC with me here. I got her profile from talking to her and stuff. Well ends up she likes me. Almost like an obsession. How bad? I'll show you soon.

While in the library one of my homies (who's friends with her homie) told me she wanted to take me to a wedding. I don't know her that much so I was like "whaaaaaaaat?". *fastforwards again*

Well she has no clue that I know she likes me. So I play it off and play with her head to the Nth. degree. *fastforwards*

So I try to dis her and avoid but right when I get on a CPU at school, I turn only to see her*snaps fingers* So then after some chit chat, I give her my email. While talking to her, I notice that she has a bad temper. And that's when it goes downhill.

Let it begin(mind you she is philipina and doesn't speak/write good english. she's pretty though)

Well, back to you again... I just came out from my Lab. So, how do you like playing with your little nephews and cousins? Oh! your to big enough to play Just! Just kidding. Well, that's nice. I got little cousins also and they're all annoying and I'm all like," Stop bugging Me"!, that's when I'm busy on something. Actually, they're kinda cute. You'll meet them pretty soon...get shock with a bunch of kids.

Oh! I love Rock Climbing, for reals. One day I'll show you how. I'm not that good but you'll see! I tell you, it's really fun.I feel good with it.Well, I don't have a good body shape but.....satisfy with it for who I am... oooppppssss.... that's all. Yeah, i know you'll do better than me once you try it.

When I will be turning 18,anyway? Well, I was gonna tell you that one yesterday that's why I was asking you what you do every weekend and you were like, Oh! I always have something to do ...like what? Well, like that and like that..Gosh! Well, I'll talk about that later but make sure, you're free on the 27th day of this month or else I'll kick you! Anyway, my B-day is on the 28th but 27th is going to be Sunday,so..

Hey! Just... Do you like bowling? Well, I love that one also. Well, My friends and I went bowling yesterday... We went to Seaside but we had to wait till' 9 o'clock for the reservation, there were to many people in there, that's why. Then, we decided to go back here in Salinas coz' if we stayed that long we'll get home quite late. the game was not that bad, I was the 2nd place. It was Fun! We might go on the 27th.

I think that's all again for now. Save it for later... See you!!!!! Bye....

Hello there... Justin!

How are you doin' so far? I hope you're fine... I just wanna apologize about what happen yesterday. Were you mad at me? I don't know why sometimes I'm acting like that to you. It's kinda bizzare but that's all about that (nothing serious).

Okey! Can you forgive me now! watta hell!!!! Well, whether you forgive me or not.....I don't care!!! Ha!ha!ha! just kidding... Y ou told me, you don't talk with some girlz but you talk to me...What!!! so, can you meet me here later inside the library and talk to me! if that's true!, I just wanna say something important,"how important Is that anyway"!!!! Whatever! So, not mad at me now? Oh! come on! Lordge and Chris was blaming me yesterday about that but I said, that was nice... Ha! Ha! Ha! lolz...

Now, can we be frenz again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cheeseeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ihave to gooooooooo....... see you later.......

it's meeh, your fren' who's tryin' to bug you again....Karen

I know you're upset about how acted yesterday. I saw you this morning here in computer's area which means that you got my message already but you didn't response me back and you didn't show up, that's sad... but that's okey... oh hell I'm getting too mushy typing this message.... well, whatever...

The reason why I wanted to meet you today here in the library is.... I was gonna ask you if you're really coming on the 27th....what I am hoping so.... coz' if you are, Chris does...that's what he told me... Well, of course, I won't speak tagalog right your back with my friends anymore coz' I do really hate it when you're mad at me and not saying hi! As a matter of fact, I didn't mean it. I was just in a bad mood yesterday.

Anyway, the party is going to be simple! which is going to be in my place and we will go bowling after, right there in South Main. Well, why won't you call me... here is my number: ***-9024, let me know okey! I think that's all! Bye... Have a fun weekend....

So why is she apologizing? Well yesterday I was chillin and eating and I heard someone call me. I turn around and look to see "her" and her friend. She is so young and inexperienced that she has her friend call me. I go over acting suave(jk). Well instead of talking to me, she talks "her language" to her friend. Not even talking to me. I wasn't going to have any of that! Especially if I still had food to eat. I split. She got mad and then, sternly, told me to sit back down. I was like "what the?". Then she went on to ask.......
"Are you gay?"

I'm not of course. Ask Mr. Dark A what happened 10/11/02(friday). But I was totally shocked. So I haven't spoken, looked, or even replied to the latter two emails.

My Q is........

What do you think? Should I? How so if I should? And in person or on the net?

Mr. Dark A has given me one but I can take others.

[RedLine99]

Hahha...been there....

I don't know why asian chicks can be so moody...maybe they dream too much?? You keep saying she's young an that seems to be a problem for you..hey, I've been to the bowling alley in Seaside (lived there once)..I don't blame you. Bowling Alley? Like someplace to have someone buy you smokes.....

The "guy" in you obviously finds something about her...ahem....interesting. Trick is...is there more?

That's sorta how I usually handle these situations. That and the fact that if she can't make a beer run what good is she goin to be after 10pM?

Worse thing is she has your attention in a major way. You don't wanna be smackin yourself later for denying that

[Redfield]

You suck, Mr. Celebate.

Whatever you do, don't lead her on anymore.

[TryckPony]

Just quit "playing" her...You say she is young--but you are the one acting like the juvenile by doing this..If you aren't interested just say so and leave it at that.

[Wedge]

i know it's fun to mess with people's mind, but don't let it go too far.. you never know how bad you will hurt her

[Monster]

yeah. Don't dish out more than you need to. Just make your point and diappear from her life, that'll be a nice finishing touch.

[AdamJ]

Hey man Ill be honest, I don't have any advice. But that was pretty damn funny reading. LOL

[Rayney]

You ****ed with her head dude...your are reaping what you sow.....youre lucky she isnt stalking you...well she kind of is I guess. Just disappear from her if you can, or just tell her flat out you arent interested. Youve pointed out all the reasons shes too insane for you (and they are GOOD ones)...just run as fast as you can in the other direction whenever you see her.

[PissyPrincess]

ok, bascially tell her, no I am not gay, I was quite offended by that question. However that is not the only reason as to why i think we should not talk any longer, I think you want more than i can offer to you. I am only looking for a friendship from you and if you can hang with that great, but if you cant then maybe we should not talk anymore ... or something along those lines, make it clear to her that you are not interested in her

[Shogun]

Originally posted by PissyPrincess
ok, bascially tell her, no I am not gay, I was quite offended by that question. However that is not the only reason as to why i think we should not talk any longer, I think you want more than i can offer to you. I am only looking for a friendship from you and if you can hang with that great, but if you cant then maybe we should not talk anymore ... or something along those lines, make it clear to her that you are not interested in her

Just did. Bad thing is I forgot to tell her I wasn't gay. Dang!

But I dropped her like a rock. Had too. But I left the option to talk via email and or phone. Of course I won't do either but just so I didn't seem like the bad guy! After all she offended me.


and I felt obliged to do it that way since I was accused of "leading her on" or "playing" her.. Don't see how. Didn't even want to.

But thank you for your input everyone.

[Redfield]

Originally posted by AdamJ
Hey man Ill be honest, I don't have any advice. But that was pretty damn funny reading. LOL

Yeah it was!

It's good you took the right avenue and talked to her, Shogun. About the not being gay part, I think it was more her spiteful jab at you rather than a legit question.