Alright, just wondering....

[scott w]

I miss someone, i miss her as friends and unfortunately as boyfriend/girlfriend. She however refuses to miss me as friends for fear that her feelings will return. I think her feelings have returned, she hasn't accepted the fact. what do you all think?

[DngrMse]

I think she's taking it up the pooter from some other guy.

[HipHopFan]

lol.

[xepolee]

Look man, the reasons behind her refusing her feelings aren't what's important so much as the fact that SHE IS REFUSING FEELINGS FOR YOU. You shouldn't have to convince someone to feel for you; they either do or they don't. That's that.

This might not be the answer that you want to hear but move on. There are so many other women in the world it's mind blowing. Go to the supermarket or store or whatever and strike up a conversation with someone. Anyone. So long as they don't remind you of this other girl.

[scott w]

Look man, the reasons behind her refusing her feelings aren't what's important so much as the fact that SHE IS REFUSING FEELINGS FOR YOU. You shouldn't have to convince someone to feel for you; they either do or they don't. That's that.

This might not be the answer that you want to hear but move on. There are so many other women in the world it's mind blowing. Go to the supermarket or store or whatever and strike up a conversation with someone. Anyone. So long as they don't remind you of this other girl.

I have. Same area, but i can see this girl. she came to my graduation and i'm so happy about that. plus i already like her parents.

[xepolee]

The reason why I suggested finding someone who doesn't remind you of the first girl is because God forbid things get serious with this new girl, you don't want to have to hurt your and her feelings when you realize that the only reason you've held on to her is because she helped to keep the memory of the first girl alive.

You seem pretty confident about this new girl even though this original post was about the first one. What seems to be the problem? Do you still harbor feelings for the first girl?

[friskywhiskers]

When people break up, more often that not the feelings don't just *poof* into thin air.
She is logically choosing not to be with you, probably because you aren't compatible and she knows that. Whether she has feelings or not is irrelevant when her choice is to leave you. You need to move on and find someone else.

[House]

I miss someone, i miss her as friends and unfortunately as boyfriend/girlfriend. She however refuses to miss me as friends for fear that her feelings will return. I think her feelings have returned, she hasn't accepted the fact. what do you all think?

Find out what radio station she listens to. Call in and request "Every Breath You Take" by the Police.

Follow her around, keep visible. Make sure she sees you where ever she goes.

Call her often, let her know she's always on your mind.

It's that kind of dedication that women respond to.

[scott w]

Find out what radio station she listens to. Call in and request "Every Breath You Take" by the Police.

Follow her around, keep visible. Make sure she sees you where ever she goes.

Call her often, let her know she's always on your mind.

It's that kind of dedication that women respond to.

You do realize she's nonimportant now. But good choice in a getting back together song

[House]

You do realize she's nonimportant now. But good choice in a getting back together song

You already gave up? Pfft, you didn't deserve her.

[scott w]

You already gave up? Pfft, you didn't deserve her.

She's been nonimportant since your original post

[House]

She's been nonimportant since your original post

You were unworthy of her since March, if not earlier.

I can read timestamps, too.