Mine did. He had a wonderful marketing phase where he said how he was such a family man, and was so eager to have me and my girls in his life.
He stressed the importance of family over all else.
He loved the fact that I was independent and could take care of myself.
Then we got married and I had our son, and everything changed.
My girls became less than the dirt under his fingernails.
He tried to control every aspect of my life.
If I exercised my independence by daring to disagree with him, I was without morals.
He became verbally and physically abusive to me and eventually my second daughter.
He is suing his family and has destroyed his relationship with his only sibling and his extended family.
He did do a 180.
I'm no saint, mind you, but I didn't see any of this coming.