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@witsend
01-22-2006, 04:14 PM
i've been in a loving relationship for a year and a half and now all of the sudden my girlfriend has a deppresion tip and says the she doesn't know if she wants to be with me i love her more than anything but i don't know what to do. help me!

R.Tricky
01-22-2006, 04:37 PM
Let it go. The more you try to cling on the worse its going to get. Once a girl has made up her mind on how she feels about someone, there is no going back. MOVE ON!

Ema
01-22-2006, 05:03 PM
be there for her. Depression is something that's very hard to deal with. If she decides to break it off, just try to be her friend. It'll hurt, but she needs you right now.

Dreamscapist
01-22-2006, 05:46 PM
In its most generic sense, depression indicates a dissatisfaction with the way things are, so try to change things up for her....take her to different places, share new activities, make love a fresh way, and give her lots of surprises, be it gifts or trips or just grand expressions of your affection for her. And do not let some doctor experiment on her with antidepressants, as they can often make a person suicidal, and most always kills the libido.

Monster
01-22-2006, 06:05 PM
If this is the first time she's had a bout of depression like this, then it's probably something rooted in your relationship. Changing things up can help, but keep a firm grasp on who you are and do not change things beyond your own comfort zone. If you become someone other than who you naturally are just to stay with her, then you're and she are both with the wrong person.

If this is not her first bout of depression, she should probably see a psychiatrist to help her figure out her issues.

Kev
01-30-2006, 01:12 AM
there is nothing u can do about it.... just let go.... dun think of trying to do anything to make her change her mind... this will make her feel annoying on u... but stay by her side.... this is a best way, where she will feel happy n u too... even u cant get her but u can c your love 1 everyday u will feel happy rite... once something happen thats it, just stay by her side be her best friends maybe 1 day she will back to u... it might waste your time, n maybe it got nothing at d end... so is it worth it... u gotta think it your self... for your love 1...

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