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unknown 01-20-2006, 01:29 PM well i talked to u and i told u my problem in crazyinlove but noone care at me thank you loot my heart is broken and i dont think i can live thanx for ignoring me and bye bye i might kill myself because i cant live nomore:( :eek3: :doh: :bang: :( bye ppl
Good luck with that! :nice:
Dreamscapist 01-20-2006, 02:16 PM Faint heart never won fair lady....Darwinism at its best.
RightWingZealot 01-20-2006, 02:28 PM NO! NO PLEASE DONT DO IT!
You have too much to live for! You can find another internet squeeze!
No amount of bits or bytes are worth killing yourself over!
Besides.. she was from the UK.. she probably had bad teeth!
Do you really want to kill yourself over a girl with a lousy grill?
Gibson 01-20-2006, 02:50 PM Peace :hi:
boedicca 01-20-2006, 03:22 PM Oh Noes!!!!!!
Anonymous people on a frequently inaccessible message board did not respond to my one and only post.
I have no reason to live.
:rolleyes:
Oh Noes!!!!!!
Anonymous people on a frequently inaccessible message board did not respond to my one and only post.
I have no reason to live.
:rolleyes:
I hope their epitaph reads, "Oh Noes... I was ROFLPWND"
Mine will...
Feenix566 01-20-2006, 04:03 PM hey maybe after you kill yourself, you can log back on and spam us from beyond the grave.
SwiftSloth 01-20-2006, 04:13 PM http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/images/razor2.gif
Spazola 01-20-2006, 04:18 PM :( :( :(
you guys stop being such dicks.
honey, don't listen to them, pm me or email me if you wanna talk. Killing yourself won't help anything.
Myrddin 01-20-2006, 05:02 PM You need to talk to qualified professionals at a suicide prevention agency. The Samaritans are such an agency in the UK and Ireland, I don't know what the equivalent agency in the US is.
boedicca 01-20-2006, 05:03 PM you guys stop being such dicks.
honey, don't listen to them, pm me or email me if you wanna talk. Killing yourself won't help anything.
You are incredibly foolish and naive. I doubt your parents would approve of what you are doing.
kellet 01-20-2006, 05:46 PM You are incredibly foolish and naive. I doubt your parents would approve of what you are doing.
:eek7: :nonono:
You are incredibly foolish and naive. I doubt your parents would approve of what you are doing.
at least I won't be burning in hell for standing by idle. Sins of omission are sometimes worse than those we bodily commit. :|
R.Tricky 01-20-2006, 07:09 PM suicide sucks
Suicide is delicious! :nice:
Stone 01-20-2006, 07:48 PM what an asshat - why would someone post something like that... i think this belongs in the whine cellar, if it belongs on this msg board at all
Advice: You better NOT kill yourself!
ResidentRice 01-20-2006, 09:23 PM Yeah, it probably is a joke or some bored idiot, but what if its not?
Either way, why would you respond in such a manner? Then, when someone points out the fact that everyone here's acting a little immaturely, get defensive about it?
If its a bored idiot, who cares? Move on. If its a actual suicidal person, why comment in such a manner?
Yeah I agree with you RR maybe im just way too trusting of people who post things like this;but why would someone want to post these things as a joke.
I dont get it and if people do post these things as a joke they are just strange.
Your situation is NOT worth killing yourself over you need to compare your life to the lives of others then you would see what others are having to deal with-starvation,abuse etc and are not killing themselves.
loveblessing 01-20-2006, 11:50 PM http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v491/beausoleil/Untitled-112copy.jpg
I now get why people do these things.....well wtv it still may be a 'normal' person.
MichaelB21 01-21-2006, 06:44 AM I'm going to have to suggest not killing yourself.
ResidentRice 01-21-2006, 07:17 AM Yeah I agree with you RR maybe im just way too trusting of people who post things like this;but why would someone want to post these things as a joke.
I dont get it and if people do post these things as a joke they are just strange.
Your situation is NOT worth killing yourself over you need to compare your life to the lives of others then you would see what others are having to deal with-starvation,abuse etc and are not killing themselves.
haha
no, I 100% believe that this person is an idiot poster who just did this for some kind of sick joke
but then again, on the off chance that it is a real cry for help, this is not the kind of thing that person is looking for
I think its just very very negative to react in a certain manner to cries for help, that's all
haha
no, I 100% believe that this person is an idiot poster who just did this for some kind of sick joke
but then again, on the off chance that it is a real cry for help, this is not the kind of thing that person is looking for
I think its just very very negative to react in a certain manner to cries for help, that's all
Yeah, it probably is a joke or some bored idiot, but what if its not?
Either way, why would you respond in such a manner? Then, when someone points out the fact that everyone here's acting a little immaturely, get defensive about it?
If its a bored idiot, who cares? Move on. If its a actual suicidal person, why comment in such a manner?
this is why Rice rocks. :nice:
ResidentRice 01-21-2006, 05:30 PM Just trying to give you a little back-up, plus the fact that you're right.
flaming_liberal 01-21-2006, 06:07 PM I say let the fella die. Less room wasted by useless crap.
caddis 01-21-2006, 08:15 PM well i talked to u and i told u my problem in crazyinlove but noone care at me thank you loot my heart is broken and i dont think i can live thanx for ignoring me
Don't quit so soon. Maybe it was a communication problem. give it one more shot (oops..not literally) This time yous reel Englush
and bye bye i might kill myself because i cant live nomore:( :eek3: :doh: :bang: :( bye ppl
If it comes down to it you can't have mine----> http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:THrGbv1eirr-8M:www.arizona-leisure.com/gfx/hoover-dam-photo-3.gif
jwreck 01-21-2006, 09:15 PM http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v491/beausoleil/Untitled-112copy.jpg
i love that pic!
loveblessing 01-21-2006, 10:09 PM Thanks. I thought it was pretty funny, except they mis-spelled dysfunction. LOL.
Feenix566 01-23-2006, 09:37 AM If this person is playing a joke, then your compasionate reactions are exactly what he's trying to get. So by being compasionate, you're rewarding bad behavior. Some little dorky kid somewhere now thinks that he's smarter than you because you fell for his not-so-clever little ruse.
And if this person is serious, and he's really going to kill himself because his thread on a little-known and often-unavailable message board went unanswered, then he deserves to die. Some people are just predestined to kill themselves. It's not your fault, and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Your compassion is just delaying the inevitable and giving him more time to breed, something none of us wants.
This whole thing about how a "sin of ommision is just as bad as killing him yourself" is crap. That idea is based on the presumption that you have a responsibility to control everyone: a presumption that I wholeheartedly reject.
SecretSamadhi 01-23-2006, 10:03 AM suicide sucks
I agree with jojo :(
Feenix566 01-23-2006, 10:33 AM suicide sucks
how do you know? have you ever done it?
Baboon 01-23-2006, 11:14 AM I got dibs on his stapler.
fat mike 01-23-2006, 11:39 AM Suicide is making a bad scene for whoever you leave behind-even if you have no religion you should be able to see that...
RightWingZealot 01-23-2006, 12:04 PM that is why no suicide should be performed with first laying down a large plastic tarp.
also, depending on the method used, the bath-tub can make for a no-muss-no-fuss cleanup for those you didnt love enough to prevent you from killing yourself in the first place.
SwiftSloth 01-23-2006, 12:21 PM If this person is playing a joke, then your compasionate reactions are exactly what he's trying to get. So by being compasionate, you're rewarding bad behavior. Some little dorky kid somewhere now thinks that he's smarter than you because you fell for his not-so-clever little ruse.
And if this person is serious, and he's really going to kill himself because his thread on a little-known and often-unavailable message board went unanswered, then he deserves to die. Some people are just predestined to kill themselves. It's not your fault, and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Your compassion is just delaying the inevitable and giving him more time to breed, something none of us wants.
This whole thing about how a "sin of ommision is just as bad as killing him yourself" is crap. That idea is based on the presumption that you have a responsibility to control everyone: a presumption that I wholeheartedly reject.
Feenix for teh win!
Dreamscapist 01-23-2006, 05:21 PM Don't worry, I'm sure this guy will be resurrected as some other user name.
DONT DO THAT!!!!! we were born to live... to survive... whatever happen, we need to stay strong to survive..... this is what life lesson is... if we were a superb good person, we wont be here.... we r in heaven... life is not just about love, career n other stuff... u were in this world n becuz of a love problem u wanna end your life... not worth it... even a begger who got nothing but they still try their best to survive every single moment... if every1 think d same way as u did... how many ppl will suicide in a year... its many!!! no 1 will live in this world without a problem... our job is to face our problem, be a good human n go on with our entire life, this is our responsibility!!!
ragtopdave 02-08-2006, 11:17 PM I got dibs on his stapler.
This cracked me up.
This thread is dumb. I'm as compassionate as anyone, but if anyone TRULY was going to commit suicide, why come to some random forum and post ONE, that's "1" nonsense sounding message? Oh, because maybe they are looking on here for that one person that is going to say something that will make them change their mind? If any of the "mean" replies in this thread was the one that made this person "off" themself, then he or she wasn't going to make it anyway.
Real life situation, you would probably get all the people in here to actually care, and not have those types of replies, but the internet is full of 99 out of 100 BS artists. Don't get so caught up in someone trying to get a rise out of everyone in a public forum.
Still, good one Baboon!
Astro 02-09-2006, 02:14 AM Well, since this just got bumped, what the hey.
Sometimes people who are seriously depressed, for whatever reason, can't talk to those around them about their problems. Whether they are embarassed, or they truly feel that the people they know in "real life" won't understand or be able to help, something may be keeping them from seeking that help. So, I think suicide "threats" like this should be treated seriously. And by that, I don't mean that we personally should try and "counsel" the person ourselves; most of us are in no way qualified to do so. Encouraging and supportive remarks are fine, but I think the best way to handle such encounters is (and I think someone mentioned this) to give them suitable resources to turn to. There's Suicide Hotlines (http://www.suicidehotlines.com/), Save.org (http://www.save.org/), Suicide Prevention Services (http://www.spsfv.org/), Suicide Prevention Lifeline (http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/), etc.
If you think a threat like this isn't serious, just leave it alone. While you may not drive someone over the edge with a few tasteless comments, it's still cruel and unnecessary. =/
Anyway.
at least I won't be burning in hell for standing by idle. Sins of omission are sometimes worse than those we bodily commit. :|
thank you ema... that's the purest way of putting a lot of things... i think you have a good grasp of a lot of things.. :high five: (and you can take that to the bank)
Snouter 02-09-2006, 02:38 AM The extremely important issue that boedicca brought up and that most people seem to still not comprehend is that Ema's response was exactly the worst response possible. A child should not be asking strangers on the internet to PM or email them because of some setup like this. This type of scam is on the headlines all the time lately.
Astro 02-09-2006, 02:46 AM Thought I had kinda addressed that in the whole "not trying to counsel them ourselves" bit. But yea, I agree, I don't think that was the best idea. It came from the heart, which is good, but not the safest way to go, nor, "imo," the most beneficial. =/
The extremely important issue that boedicca brought up and that most people seem to still not comprehend is that Ema's response was exactly the worst response possible. A child should not be asking strangers on the internet to PM or email them because of some setup like this. This type of scam is on the headlines all the time lately.
i concur... unfortuneately what do we do about it?
Monster 02-09-2006, 05:20 AM Let suicidal people kill themselves. It'll reduce traffic.
Criminal 02-09-2006, 08:57 AM My advise is to not kill yourself. Your death will come eventually and it will be too soon.
Anyway, death is way over rated.
Spazola 02-09-2006, 10:00 AM Anyway, death is way over rated.
Haha. :nice:
Life is the new death.
Oh, because maybe they are looking on here for that one person that is going to say something that will make them change their mind?
Probably. A lot of people who are suicidal don't actually WANT to kill themselves; it's more like they feel they have to, for whatever reason. :shrug:
Real life situation, you would probably get all the people in here to actually care, and not have those types of replies, but the internet is full of 99 out of 100 BS artists. Don't get so caught up in someone trying to get a rise out of everyone in a public forum.
I don't know. Sometimes it's harder to mention anything so personal when you think someone will actually care--if you don't think anyones gonna give a crap, then why NOT say anything?
Sometimes thinking that you're going to do something isn't enough. But if you announce to someone, "I AM going to fix that window", then you're more inclined to do it.
RightWingZealot 02-09-2006, 10:06 AM Did'nt he say he was from the middle east?
Do we really want him killing himself? You know how those guys ususally do it..
Samson 02-09-2006, 10:30 AM The extremely important issue that boedicca brought up and that most people seem to still not comprehend is that Ema's response was exactly the worst response possible. A child should not be asking strangers on the internet to PM or email them because of some setup like this. This type of scam is on the headlines all the time lately.
True IF Ema is a "child.................................." and not a Federal Marshall sitting in a basement in Baltimore!
boedicca 02-09-2006, 11:18 AM The extremely important issue that boedicca brought up and that most people seem to still not comprehend is that Ema's response was exactly the worst response possible. A child should not be asking strangers on the internet to PM or email them because of some setup like this. This type of scam is on the headlines all the time lately.
Thank you. I can always smell yeh, Snoutie-Poo!
Baboon 02-09-2006, 11:23 AM True IF Ema is a "child.................................." and not a Federal Marshall sitting in a basement in Baltimore!
:eek:
ragtopdave 02-09-2006, 11:32 AM Probably. A lot of people who are suicidal don't actually WANT to kill themselves; it's more like they feel they have to, for whatever reason. :shrug:
I don't know. Sometimes it's harder to mention anything so personal when you think someone will actually care--if you don't think anyones gonna give a crap, then why NOT say anything?
Sometimes thinking that you're going to do something isn't enough. But if you announce to someone, "I AM going to fix that window", then you're more inclined to do it.
That's the nice part of life, but unfortunately, life isn't nice. Also, there is a major difference in fixing a window and commiting suicide.
And as for this thread, come on everyone! You get all worked up over nothing. If someone is going to actually kill themselves, the last thing they will do is post an anonymous message to a forum, where no one knows who they are! One thing suicidal people are, are attention *****s. For those of you who get all worked up over this; get worked up over something that matters. Like people that really want to commit suicide and call hotline services. Do all of you who ragged on the funny comments in here actually do anything to help prevent suicide? If not, why jump everyones cases in here?
Spazola 02-09-2006, 11:40 AM That's the nice part of life, but unfortunately, life isn't nice.
What about my post was saying that life is nice? :scratch:
Also, there is a major difference in fixing a window and commiting suicide.
There is? :eek:
:p
If someone is going to actually kill themselves, the last thing they will do is post an anonymous message to a forum, where no one knows who they are!
Unless you've ever wanted to die, you have no way of knowing that. :shrug:
One thing suicidal people are, are attention *****s.
How in the world does that make sense? How is someone getting attention if they're DEAD?
You've never had to live with depression haunting your every day, have you?
Like people that really want to commit suicide and call hotline services.
Like I said, many people who plan on commiting suicide don't really WANT to; they usually think that it'd just be easier, and/or they think someone would benefit.
Feenix566 02-09-2006, 11:44 AM I support suicide. It's nature's way of weeding out the bad fruit. :nice:
Spazola 02-09-2006, 11:48 AM I support suicide. It's nature's way of weeding out the bad fruit. :nice:
If someone you cared about killed themself, you'd really just shrug your shoulders and say s/he was bad fruit? :hmm:
ragtopdave 02-09-2006, 12:00 PM Unless you've ever wanted to die, you have no way of knowing that. :shrug:
Touchy situation. I've felt like wanting to kill myself before, so yes, I DO in fact have a way of knowing that.
How in the world does that make sense? How is someone getting attention if they're DEAD?
I didn't say people who have committed suicide, I said people who are suicidal. It means they are still alive, which means they are begging for attention by letting everyone around them know what they plan to do.
You've never had to live with depression haunting your every day, have you?
You're what, 13 years old? Try living with it for 41 years. Then you tell me. I've lived with it longer than you've been alive. And I've beat it, for the most part. I've gone to psychiatrists, I've been on Paxil and Zoloft. I've had friends support me when I've felt like it wasn't worth going on.
Like I said, many people who plan on commiting suicide don't really WANT to; they usually think that it'd just be easier, and/or they think someone would benefit.
That's true, they don't really want to, but again, they are thinking very heavily about doing it.
You're a smart kid, but there is still a LOT to learn. Even for me. I've been through college psych classes, I've listened to psychiatrists and friends and strangers telling me how valuable life is. I've lived 41 years so far. I think I'm very knowledgable about the situation. I don't however, feel that I'm capable of helping people in that situation.
This thread however, was fake from the start, and I do find it funny to see how people can get worked up over it and actually believe some of it. I've been there kiddo, I KNOW that it's fake.
Spazola 02-09-2006, 12:16 PM I didn't say people who have committed suicide, I said people who are suicidal. It means they are still alive, which means they are begging for attention by letting everyone around them know what they plan to do.
Okay, you have a point there. But there is a difference between being okay with telling random internet people that telling people IRL.
You're what, 13 years old? Try living with it for 41 years. Then you tell me. I've lived with it longer than you've been alive. And I've beat it, for the most part. I've gone to psychiatrists, I've been on Paxil and Zoloft. I've had friends support me when I've felt like it wasn't worth going on.
I give you kudos for being strong enough to get help. :)
But how you handle such a strong emotion is different for every age. This particular person seems to have been a teenager. When adults go through depression, many have more control than a kid who, on top of depression, has to handle their own hormones that rebel against them AND trying to please their parents.
Sometimes teenagers have a hard time keeping journals in their home to vent in, since parents can easily find and read it, whether it's an accident or on purpose. An online forum with people you NEVER have to speak to again is the perfect place to say whatever you want.
Not saying that it's any easier as an adult, with having to support yourself and sometimes others despite your emotions, but an adult is more likely to be able to control outbursts of emotion than a kid is.
This person imparticular may not honestly be suicidal, but it's a 50% 50% chance.
You're a smart kid, but there is still a LOT to learn. Even for me. I've been through college psych classes, I've listened to psychiatrists and friends and strangers telling me how valuable life is. I've lived 41 years so far. I think I'm very knowledgable about the situation.
No offense, but most psychiatrists don't know squat about what goes on in a teenagers head, though they may think they do. :hmm: Though I know of atleast one who has a rough idea, so there are some. Just not many.
Teenaged years and adult years are very different.
This thread however, was fake from the start, and I do find it funny to see how people can get worked up over it and actually believe some of it. I've been there kiddo, I KNOW that it's fake.
You're pretty sure that it's fake. But none of us can KNOW if it's fake or not unless we know this person personally.
Feenix566 02-09-2006, 12:31 PM If someone you cared about killed themself, you'd really just shrug your shoulders and say s/he was bad fruit? :hmm:
Yup.
You have to consider the possibility that a person is suicidal because they really aren't worth the space they're taking up. :|
ragtopdave 02-09-2006, 12:34 PM sorry, double post.
ragtopdave 02-09-2006, 12:34 PM Okay, you have a point there. But there is a difference between being okay with telling random internet people that telling people IRL.
I couldn't agree with you more.
I give you kudos for being strong enough to get help. :)
But how you handle such a strong emotion is different for every age. This particular person seems to have been a teenager. When adults go through depression, many have more control than a kid who, on top of depression, has to handle their own hormones that rebel against them AND trying to please their parents.
Again, we're in agreement. Amazingly enough, all of us adults used to be teenagers. I think. I'm pretty sure I didn't skip MY teen years. ;)
Sometimes teenagers have a hard time keeping journals in their home to vent in, since parents can easily find and read it, whether it's an accident or on purpose. An online forum with people you NEVER have to speak to again is the perfect place to say whatever you want.
Parents are responsible for their children. As much as you want to feel otherwise, anything you do, should be available for parents to go over with you. Unless your parents are complete morons, which some are.
No offense, but most psychiatrists don't know squat about what goes on in a teenagers head, though they may think they do. :hmm: Though I know of atleast one who has a rough idea, so there are some. Just not many.
It might surprise you to know, like I said before, that all adults were teenagers at one point in their life. For 6 entire years of their lives they were to be exact! Different times call for different measures. Like me growing up in the 70's and 80's as a teen was much different than what you're going through now. But it's funny how things might seem to change, they are almost always the same. Times are different, but dealing with emotions and rebellion have been around forever. So has suicide. You should give adults more credit than you seem to.
While you do seem like a very bright person (notice I didn't say kid?), you have a lot to learn. And while you might think you have all the answers now, you will be amazed at how much more you will learn, the older you get. Still now, I might laugh at people in their 60's that think they know so much more than I do. But honestly, they do. They've been through 20 plus years more of life than I have.
But we're getting off topic.
Yes, it was in bad taste that some people made fun of this thread from the beginning. It should probably have been locked a LONG time ago, and just simply gone away.
fat mike 02-09-2006, 12:51 PM Cool post,Ragtop-I'm almost 50 and still a teenager :hmm:
Feenix566 02-09-2006, 02:52 PM Still now, I might laugh at people in their 60's that think they know so much more than I do. But honestly, they do. They've been through 20 plus years more of life than I have.
You would think that older people always have learned more about life, but some people use their time more effectively than others.
Spazola 02-09-2006, 03:34 PM Again, we're in agreement. Amazingly enough, all of us adults used to be teenagers. I think. I'm pretty sure I didn't skip MY teen years. ;)
While everyone goes through being a teenager, not everyone has to handle teenager problems along with depression, was my point. :p
You're SURE you didn't? :eek: :p
Parents are responsible for their children. As much as you want to feel otherwise, anything you do, should be available for parents to go over with you. Unless your parents are complete morons, which some are.
Despite that we're young, teenagers deserve to have their privacy as much as any other human being. We shouldn't have to tell our parents every single thought that runs through our heads. We like to write down what we can't talk about with our parents, and sometimes no one at all.
It might surprise you to know, like I said before, that all adults were teenagers at one point in their life. For 6 entire years of their lives they were to be exact! Different times call for different measures. Like me growing up in the 70's and 80's as a teen was much different than what you're going through now. But it's funny how things might seem to change, they are almost always the same. Times are different, but dealing with emotions and rebellion have been around forever. So has suicide. You should give adults more credit than you seem to.
While you do seem like a very bright person (notice I didn't say kid?), you have a lot to learn. And while you might think you have all the answers now, you will be amazed at how much more you will learn, the older you get. Still now, I might laugh at people in their 60's that think they know so much more than I do. But honestly, they do. They've been through 20 plus years more of life than I have.
Age doesn't defy how much experience a person has. Some people have experience in areas some people will NEVER go through. :shrug:
ragtopdave 02-09-2006, 03:55 PM While everyone goes through being a teenager, not everyone has to handle teenager problems along with depression, was my point. :p
You're SURE you didn't? :eek: :p
Despite that we're young, teenagers deserve to have their privacy as much as any other human being. We shouldn't have to tell our parents every single thought that runs through our heads. We like to write down what we can't talk about with our parents, and sometimes no one at all.
Age doesn't defy how much experience a person has. Some people have experience in areas some people will NEVER go through. :shrug:
Very well said, young grasshopper. And I mean that. You are wise beyond your years.
But alas, I will now bow out of this particular thread, because as all of us adults very well know, we can never win arguments with a teenager, because we don't know it all! ;)
And Fat Mike, I know how you feel. I'll be 18 'til I die!
Spazola 02-09-2006, 04:05 PM I don't think I know everything.....:hmm:
I shant argue this anymore either, I guess, since you adults know everything us teenagers think. ;)
:p
fat mike 02-09-2006, 04:52 PM Not everything but I did catch the one about the guy in your room :eek:
Stop projecting that stuff!!!!!! Sheesh,my head hurts...
voluptuous_red 02-09-2006, 05:13 PM 1800SUICIDE
but i think that if youre going to threaten to do it you better damn well follow through. maybe no one cares about you because you make idle threats to ppl who dont even know you over the internet.. and other immature things like that. dont get me wrong i dont want you to kill yourself but seriously grow the **** up. this thread is lame.
Midnight 02-09-2006, 05:36 PM but i think that if youre going to threaten to do it you better damn well follow through. maybe no one cares about you because you make idle threats to ppl who dont even know you over the internet.. and other immature things like that. dont get me wrong i dont want you to kill yourself but seriously grow the **** up. this thread is lame.
:nice:
Monster 02-09-2006, 05:47 PM Judging from the number of posts that the OP has made (that being none), either they did it or they're not going to.
Either way, I think we can be done with this thread.
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