Most men have such a problem expressing themselves. Why? It seems you never have a problem expressing the need for a blow job but you do have a problem expressing your emotions. love, hate, yes, no, like, dislike, blue or green ect.

Men have learned not to express themselves.
Because if we do, the woman will take everything wrong/out of context, or our bluntness will piss them off.

Fact of the matter is... we are simple creatures with no need for complex emotions that women seem to have. Express.... Express what... there is nothing there.

I like to hump. I like to eat. I like to play games. I like to sleep.
That's it... no really... that's it.

When you (girl) ask me (guy) what I'm thinking.... it's one of those simple emotions.
...boy I'm hungry...
...boy I'm horny...
...God I really would rather be playing/watching that game...
...Zzzzz...

Men have learned not to express themselves.
Because if we do, the woman will take everything wrong/out of context, or our bluntness will piss them off.

Fact of the matter is... we are simple creatures with no need for complex emotions that women seem to have. Express.... Express what... there is nothing there.

I like to hump. I like to eat. I like to play games. I like to sleep.
That's it... no really... that's it.
:stupid:

Gibson, you like to hump? I knew it!

Most men have such a problem expressing themselves. Why? It seems you never have a problem expressing the need for a blow job but you do have a problem expressing your emotions. love, hate, yes, no, like, dislike, blue or green ect.

I LOVE getting a blowjob, but HATE it when a girl continually presses for emotional reinforcement to bolster her "fragile" self-esteem or further inflate her puffed-up ego.

Shut up and suck.

Gibson, you like to hump? I knew it!
Do the humpty hump. :cooldance:
http://www.kiddlive.com/blog/Rich/HUMPTYYES.jpg

Emotions are t3h suck.

Most men have such a problem expressing themselves. Why? It seems you never have a problem expressing the need for a blow job but you do have a problem expressing your emotions. love, hate, yes, no, like, dislike, blue or green ect.

Communication, my dear, is relative. Perhaps the problem is on the receiving end?

Emotions are t3h suck.
Ehh, too MUCH emotion is t3h suck. :)

I wonder how many relationships have ended due to "the male being too insensitive." In other words.... a man being a man.

I think all these women who plead for male sensitivity should just become a dyke and get it over with. You're not going to find a sensitive man... unless he's gay... in which case it's still not going to work out. So find yourself a caring, emotional, sympathetic female partner and cry over a good lifetime-original male-bashing film.

The most sensitivity you will get from a male is a good slap on the ass, and a "bake me cookies bitch, I'm HUNGRY!" Before we give you a good deep dicking and roll over to get some sleep.

:nice:

I think all these women who plead for male sensitivity should just become a dyke and get it over with. You're not going to find a sensitive man... unless he's gay... in which case it's still not going to work out. So find yourself a caring, emotional, sympathetic female partner and cry over a good lifetime-original male-bashing film.

There are some men who are sensitive/caring. But that would work too. :)

There are some men who are sensitive/caring.

Yes, we call them sissies.

Yes, we call them sissies.

...or doormats.

I'm not a sissy. :mad:

Or a "doormat."

I'm not a sissy. :mad:

Or a "doormat."

Quiet down Emoboi.

Yes, we call them sissies.

:rolleyes:

why? Chicks dig sensitive guys. :cooldance

I'm a cowpunk boy, not "emo." :not:

Emotions are irrelevant. I only have 3 that I care to share with anyone else: mad, blah, and moderately happy.

Yeah... mine are feh, meh, and w00t.

I have 4. feh, meh, w00t, and WOOTSAUCE!!! :eek:

I'm a doormat, but I'm not overly emotional :shrug:

[QUOTE=Gibson

I'm a doormat, but I'm not overly emotional :shrug:[/QUOTE]

That's because you are a sponge.

:|

why? Chicks dig sensitive guys.

yeah, in theory maybe.
In practice, they would much rather be with a guy that treats them like dirt.

Sensitive guys are for being freinds with, and talking to when your 'dangerous in a sexy way' boyfriend treats you like crap.

Unless you play guitar - &, I might add, you do. :nice:

That's because you are a sponge.

:|
I don't think I've ever heard anyone called a sponge before :hmm:

I don't think I've ever heard anyone called a sponge before :hmm:

Asexual?

Asexual?
Eh, nah. I like girls :)
I have some sexual urges, I just have power over them :)

yeah, in theory maybe.
In practice, they would much rather be with a guy that treats them like dirt.

Sensitive guys are for being freinds with, and talking to when your 'dangerous in a sexy way' boyfriend treats you like crap.

Oh yea, getting beat is so hawt. :drool:

:rolleyes:

you don't know what you're talking about. Girls get involved with those kinds of guys because they think they can *save* them or help them or change them. They want so badley to fix them that they forget to make sure they don't get broken in the process. Not because they find getting smacked around sexy.

:P

Unless you play guitar - &, I might add, you do.

Being a musician in the only chance a sensitive guy has!
:|

Oh yea, getting beat is so hawt.

I didnt say beat, kiddo.
You can treat a girl like dirt without beating her.

Girls get involved with those kinds of guys because they think they can *save* them or help them or change them. They want so badley to fix them that they forget to make sure they don't get broken in the process.

Exactly! Thank you.

Oh yea, getting beat is so hawt. :drool:
"When a man hits a woman, one of two things happens: either she turns around & hauls ass in the opposite direction, or she becomes yours." - Richard Pryor, who would have known.

Being a musician in the only chance a sensitive guy has!
You don't even have to play well. You just have to play.

Oh yea, getting beat is so hawt. :drool:
you don't know what you're talking about. Girls get involved with those kinds of guys because they think they can *save* them or help them or change them. They want so badley to fix them that they forget to make sure they don't get broken in the process. Not because they find getting smacked around sexy.
Not all *******s get physical with their womins, I've seen emotional damage that rivals being beat up more than a few times.

But his point still stands, chicks don't like a pushover, which most of the time nice guys are. Not all of them, but a good portion of them.

You don't even have to play well. You just have to play.

good news for me and the rest of the musically challenged!

I like to control my men. :|

And Gibby likes to be controlled! I think we have another DA match made in heaven!

And Gibby likes to be controlled! I think we have another DA match made in heaven!

He's not my type. :|

see. she wants someone to treat her like dirt!

see. she wants someone to treat her like dirt!

:mad:

no one ever WANTS to be with someone who treats them like dirt.

It just happens. :(

And that's not why he's not my type. Some people actually want to have sex in a relationship. :rolleyes:

you are too young for that!


bllllaaaag..



*leaves washing brain*

And Gibby likes to be controlled! I think we have another DA match made in heaven!
I like to be controlled? :scratch:
That's why I got out of the relationship I had with my ex.
*shudders* Thank God that's over :P
you are too young for that!

:stupid:

Yes, you've said a hundred times on here that you'll be into whatever your girlfriend/wife/whatever is into.

Most men have such a problem expressing themselves.

Just my opinion, but I think from this is bull**** from the very start. Men express themselves fine. Maybe they just choose different expressions sometimes.

Why? It seems you never have a problem expressing the need for a blow job but you do have a problem expressing your emotions. love, hate, yes, no, like, dislike, blue or green ect.

Never underestimate the difficulty in expressing the need for a blowjob. :|

It's a very hard thing to do. (no pun intended)

Yes, you've said a hundred times on here that you'll be into whatever your girlfriend/wife/whatever is into.
bingo :nice: But people keep misconstruing it :P

Most men have such a problem expressing themselves. Why? It seems you never have a problem expressing the need for a blow job but you do have a problem expressing your emotions. love, hate, yes, no, like, dislike, blue or green ect.

Need for BJ > Any emotion anyone has ever felt :|


My partner has no issues expressing himself. If he feels it, he says it - no exceptions. I write a lot of apology letters :|

I don't believe men have a hard time expressing themselves, we just do it in ways that you do not understand inherently. Women often express themselves in ways that men don't understand. For instance, many men often wonder why women want to be so close and cuddle after sex. To the logic of many men (I'm not one of them) you were already close and now you're sweaty and the fact that he just ejaculated means he essentially wants nothing to do with sexual things and wants to go to bed. On the flip side the woman doesn't understand why the man feels that way. It is just because of inherent differences. Do women really understand why men love football and how it is emotional to see your favorite team win the Super Bowl? Some do, but many roll their eyes.

Different strategies have evolved over the years. Women need to look at what they want and they need to find a man that either matches what they want or at least find one that plays up to what they want. Half the time women cannot express what they want very clearly ("to be in love" is very ambigous, ladies) so you cannot expect men who want nothing more than beer and football to comprehend.

I personally feel the best thing men and women could do for each other is lose the expectations. Losing those reptilian instincts that we've retained would be a good start, but not a feasible one. However trying to understand the other side would be a start. Many of my friends cannot stand it when their girlfriends go to dance clubs, they don't understand that many women inherently like dancing (even if it is on a pole or on a table) and are not necessarily looking to copulate with some other guy. Many of my female friends naturally have a hard time understanding why their boyfriends will trust them at the grocery store but not the club. It is all a matter of insecurity and evolutionary baggage. If we were all just a little more confident, a little more tolerant and a little more understanding of views that are not our own our relationships would prosper ten-fold over night. If you cannot find a man or a woman who is willing to come to terms then you should by all means find another partner and quit wasting everybody’s time.

propz to u michaelb21 - i agree- completely. everyones arguing about this "why dont men show their emotions" topic, and its ridiculous. its common sense, and if you havent figured it out yet, im sorry you got hit in the head with a brick when you were young. learn to live

Its not that men can't express themselves. When we do express ourselves its not the way women want to hear it. We told you what you wanted to hear just not the way you wanted to hear it. So when women reprimand us for expressing ourselves (because they didn't hear it the way they wanted to hear it) we shut down cuz we don't want to hear the griping and complaining

Men don't speak the same language as women. Sure, it sounds deceptively similar, but it's a whole different language.

Men speak straightforwardly, while women often speak in riddles.
They believe that men should know full well how they feel, what they want, etc., and so only offer clues until the man can adequately express what the woman is thinking. In addition, women strive to direct a man's own thinking...without his realizing it of course, because they would not respect him if he didn't "think for himself."

Women try to read men instead of just asking...

You just try to overcomplicate a simple thought process with analysis and overanalysis.

My boyfriend is equally at home expressing his feelings and expressing his desire for a blow job. Is that so wrong?

My boyfriend is equally at home expressing his feelings and expressing his desire for a blow job. Is that so wrong?

Nope, sounds like a well balanced guy.

My boyfriend is equally at home expressing his feelings and expressing his desire for a blow job. Is that so wrong?
Yes.

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