Last night, my girlfriend told me she's SURE that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Sounds great, right? Well, it did, until she followed it up by saying, "and I wish you felt the same way about me."

What the ****???

This is the THIRD girlfriend I've had who said that. It's all just a goddamned guilt trip. She can't possibly be sure that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. She barely even knows me. We've only been dating for a month and a half!!

She is constantly getting defensive with me because she assumes that I'm going to get mat at her for rediculous reasons. I'm a very laid back person, and I don't get mad for stupid reasons. But she doesn't know that, so how the hell can she think that she knows me? How can she possibly think that she knows me well enough to be able to make the decision to spend the rest of her life with me??

And of course I'm not going to feel the same way. I'm not insane like she is. You cannot possibly know someone well enough after a month and a half to be able to say that. Plus, there's something that I really don't like about her. She has constant mood swings. Like three of them a day. I can't stand it. Why on Earth would I want to spend the rest of my life dealing with her mood swings???

So I think I'm gonna break it off with her because she made that comment.

She's crazy. Dump her.

And to preemptively reply to any woman who would bitch you (us?) out for this mindset, you're crazy too.

where are you finding women who say this? I've said that to someone ONCE. After I'd known him for about 9 years. Dump her. Plain and simple. That's just nuts. I'm not even gonna get into the mood swings and stuff. Sounds to me she's trying to lock you into a commitment of some sort and wayyy too fast. If I were you I'd end it.

Is she hot?

Hit it until it's unbareable and then move on. Clearly she's not stable.

If the sex is great, but you can't stand the insanity, try the truth. I did once, and it worked out great for awhile.
I had been with this woman for a couple of weeks and she started in with the eternal love crap and trying to move in with me. I finally just told her that the sex was great, but I wasn't interested in being "the one" for her.
The end result was that I got no strings attached sex for 6 months until she did find somebody who met her criteria, then she went along on her merry way. It was great...nobody got hurt and everybody was happy in the end.
Of course, another likely outcome is that she goes crazy and kills you. But, no risk no reward.

It is when one ends it with 'and by the way I am carrying your child' you need to worry.

Dump her now. Really.

Holy **** and some penguin crackers...get rid of her. Yikesamongous

I agree. she is very insecure.. and clingy.... if she is thinking this way now.. who knows what crazy thoughts would be in her head after a year? She might try to get pregnant or threaten to kill herself if you leave her or something stupid like that. It's not your fault she is insecure. She can't mean what she said- she hasn't known you long enough to see your flaws. She is only in love with her current perception of you. Personally, I would never say that to a guy until I've known him for a long time.
Maybe you are the best piece of ... she has ever had - that can really cloud up a girl's thinking!

Last night, my girlfriend told me she's SURE that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Sounds great, right? Well, it did, until she followed it up by saying, "and I wish you felt the same way about me."

What the ****???

This is the THIRD girlfriend I've had who said that. It's all just a goddamned guilt trip. She can't possibly be sure that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. She barely even knows me. We've only been dating for a month and a half!!

She is constantly getting defensive with me because she assumes that I'm going to get mat at her for rediculous reasons. I'm a very laid back person, and I don't get mad for stupid reasons. But she doesn't know that, so how the hell can she think that she knows me? How can she possibly think that she knows me well enough to be able to make the decision to spend the rest of her life with me??

And of course I'm not going to feel the same way. I'm not insane like she is. You cannot possibly know someone well enough after a month and a half to be able to say that. Plus, there's something that I really don't like about her. She has constant mood swings. Like three of them a day. I can't stand it. Why on Earth would I want to spend the rest of my life dealing with her mood swings???

So I think I'm gonna break it off with her because she made that comment.

Interesting.

A. Feenix, you are obviously irresistable......even I sort of wanna spend time with you.....if you know what I mean:hiya:

B. There are a lot of guys who have NEVER heard a woman say these words (I want you) and would give their left nut to hear them.

C. Just because she's said this means she's insane? Who do you wanna spend time with, much less the rest of your life? Someone who says, "Well, I guess I'll never be able to do any better than you, Feenix...oh well...."

D. If you're gonna be around any woman, then you'd better get used to the mood swings, bud (do you have a sister?).

Last night, my girlfriend told me she's SURE that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. My fiance' told me the same thing the other night at dinner and I said it back...it's OK if you both feel it. If it's one-sided then it's best to RUN :|

It sounds like she's just looking for someone, anyone, to settle down with her to sooth her insecurities. But you're not doing her any favors by staying with her and/or pretending you are OK with this. You will only end up hurting her. This is assuming she's serious, and it was not just something said because you are in the starry cross-eyed love part of your relationship.

Stick it in her butt.

:|

LOL + rosary beads

I think I was overreacting when I said I was gonna dump her. I'm gonna give her a chance to be sane.

Plus, the sex is awesome. She does things in bed that I thought only porn stars did ;) But that's a topic for another forum...

I think I was overreacting when I said I was gonna dump her. I'm gonna give her a chance to be sane.

Plus, the sex is awesome. She does things in bed that I thought only porn stars did ;) But that's a topic for another forum...

Feenix you horrid tease.

First I open up to you publically admitting my innermost feelings of attraction....then you drop this news...

damn it man, stop toying with me!!

I think I was overreacting when I said I was gonna dump her. I'm gonna give her a chance to be sane.

Plus, the sex is awesome. She does things in bed that I thought only porn stars did ;) But that's a topic for another forum...
Someone's getting their salad tossed!

Feenix you horrid tease.

First I open up to you publically admitting my innermost feelings of attraction....then you drop this news...

damn it man, stop toying with me!!

:rofl:

Someone's getting their salad tossed!

not quite....

Feenix you horrid tease.

First I open up to you publically admitting my innermost feelings of attraction....then you drop this news...

damn it man, stop toying with me!!

Sorry, Samson. It's just not gonna work out between me and you. I'm a rebel without a cause. I play by my own rules. You're just not the type of chick that can tame that kind of beast.

plus, i don't dig guys.

not quite....
I was joking, but really it's the only thing I can think of that pretty much only porn stars do. Either that or ATM which is pretty disgusting. :)

I think I was overreacting when I said I was gonna dump her. I'm gonna give her a chance to be sane.

Plus, the sex is awesome. She does things in bed that I thought only porn stars did ;) But that's a topic for another forum...


So she's crazy, has 3 mood swings a day, pisses you off beyond belief, but YOU are sane because you think you'll stay with her because the sex is great? You've done 2 things with this reply, proved you're too young for a real relationship and dis-credited your original rant.

Move along everyone, there is nothing to see here.

So she's crazy, has 3 mood swings a day, pisses you off beyond belief, but YOU are sane because you think you'll stay with her because the sex is great? You've done 2 things with this reply, proved you're too young for a real relationship and dis-credited your original rant.

Move along everyone, there is nothing to see here.

:blahblah:

STFU!

Last night, my girlfriend told me she's SURE that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Sounds great, right? Well, it did, until she followed it up by saying, "and I wish you felt the same way about me."

What the ****???

This is the THIRD girlfriend I've had who said that. It's all just a goddamned guilt trip.
Same **** happenes to me dude, 'cept not after only a month. Yea man, get rid of the broad.

I've adopted a bit of the ******* routine, but they seem to eat it up... being irresistable does have its disadvantages.

GROF200's post is worth a second look. you might be able to get a dedicated booty call out of the deal.

Stick it in her butt.


:rofl:

well she hasn't said it again since.

we had a big fight friday night about the mood swings and we almost broke up. but we decided to work it out. we'll see what happens.

Wait a minute. STFU? Why, because I'm right? Why the hell would you put up with a relationship like this just for sex? I'm sure if you apply yourself, you can find good porn sex from other girls too. I'm 41 and in the past 3 years I've found exactly that in 3 different women, and one of them asked me if I was interested in being with her and her best friend for a three way! You don't have to take such abuse for good sex, OR a good relationship. (These are your words, not mine.) Let's go over a couple details in your rant.

This is the THIRD girlfriend I've had who said that. It's all just a goddamned guilt trip. She can't possibly be sure that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. She barely even knows me. We've only been dating for a month and a half!!

There is your first sign. Even you admit to knowing it!


And of course I'm not going to feel the same way. I'm not insane like she is. You cannot possibly know someone well enough after a month and a half to be able to say that. Plus, there's something that I really don't like about her. She has constant mood swings. Like three of them a day. I can't stand it. Why on Earth would I want to spend the rest of my life dealing with her mood swings???

You said it bud, not me.

I'm not busting you on this one, just trying to make you see it in a different light. Girls (or guys for you women), are just not worth the aggrevation of crap like what you wrote about. There are millions of people out there that aren't like the 3 girlfriends you had. I guess to sum it up (and you must have come here looking for something to rant like you did), she is just too immature and insecure about herself to have a solid relationship at this point in her life. Sounds like she needs you to be there every minute to keep telling her that she is all you want. Well, if that's the relationship you are craving, then go for it. If not, look back to my original reply.

break up with her. don't fall into the power of the "P" no matter how good it is. short term excitement will bring long term grief