I've only been with one girl. But, after we broke up, I wanted someone else. The new girl rejected me. But, no matter what I do, I can't get her out of my mind and I can't move forward. So, I guess my question really is, how can I move forward? How can I let go of this girl? She is the most amazing person I have ever met, and I have met a LOT of people for my age. Any sujestions would be great, thanks!

I see that you are only 17.. she may or may not like you it's really hard for you to tell. I say if you are REALLY into her that much, be persistant- but don't be annoying or a stocker or something. Tell her how you feel, maybe do something really sweet for her and look at her with puppy eyes and ask "just a cup of coffee?" (or something) and she just might say yes. I'm sure if she agrees and you have a little date then things will be good from there.

If however, she says no no no.. it will just take time. Eventually you WILL come across someone else that you find amazing. :)

You're ok, you're 17, we all take defeats pretty badly at that age. When you're 25, you'll just have a beer and spend about half a second thinking about it :). I say it's just the idea of being rejected getting to you.

You'll get over her in TIME.

Oh God! I want to get over her. I really do. But also, a part of me doesn't. I've recently found out somethings about her that I don't like. And, normally, I would turn my head and never think of her again. But, this time I can't. There have been times before when I adored someone and then they would tell me something like, "I smoke pot" or "I drink" and these things would make me turn around and never think of them again. But with her... I just can't do it. No matter how hard I try. I don't know what it means. Does it mean that I can forgive her for all her faults? Can I just accept her no matter what she does? If this is true, then does it mean that I truly care for her? Maybe I care for her so much that I can say that I love her. Could that be true? I'm so confused.

Can I just accept her no matter what she does? If this is true, then does it mean that I truly care for her?
No. Sometimes accepting a person no matter what they do can be a bad thing. Just because you care for someone doesn't mean you should put up with abuse, unfaithfulness or someone that uses you.
It sounds to me like you are infactuated with her.
Its the chase that has you so up in the air. You want her, and its exciting chasing her.
After you've had a taste you may decide to turn to greener pastures.

You're either in Love, or have a bad case of infatuation. Either way, Morning Myst is right. Take her advice.

If this is one sided, you'll juts torture yourself by trying to keep it up. I suggest you get something (or some way) to distract yourself .

I hate to play the age card....because at 17 rejection feels just as bad as it does at 37. However, being 37 gives you the advantage of not only knowing you'll live through it.....but you'll live long enough to try it again. You'll be OK Sweetie...but I am sorry you are feeling all miserable.

Club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. Then you can have your way with her and discard her, and you will have excised your fantasy. You can then move on to other women, where you will probably repeat this process.

Club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. Then you can have your way with her and discard her,
SM...you BAD BAD BOY!

Club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. Then you can have your way with her and discard her, and you will have excised your fantasy. You can then move on to other women, where you will probably repeat this process.

:eek3: XACH!

Any guy ever try and do that to me, and I'll kick their sorry ass! :mad: :mad:

:eek3: XACH!

Any guy ever try and do that to me, and I'll kick their sorry ass! :mad: :mad:
Thats okay, us women get our revenge...it's called child support! :p

Sounds to me that she's a "bad girl" and you like it :p

I agree with the others, you need to keep yourself busy and stop thinking about her. You could take up smoking, drinking, shoplifting... LOL :D

No, she's good - just likes to go a bit crazy at parties, that's all. I hate to smoke, drink or do anything along those lines, thanks anyways C-Bad. I would love to move on, "keep myself busy", but she's in my classes, gerr. It's cool though, 'cause school is almost over. But I don't like the idea of not seeing her everyday, but it also hurts to see her everyday and not have her. It will also hurt to think that I let this amazing girl pass me by and I did nothing - but I really didn't have a choice; she said no. Man, this is a predicament... C'est La Vie!

Ask her out again.

If she says no then you got the summer to get over it. You might meet someone during the summer you might not. You'll probably fall in love with another girl next year in school... you're 17 and your hormones are running wild.. lol. :)

I've only been with one girl. But, after we broke up, I wanted someone else. The new girl rejected me. But, no matter what I do, I can't get her out of my mind and I can't move forward. So, I guess my question really is, how can I move forward? How can I let go of this girl? She is the most amazing person I have ever met, and I have met a LOT of people for my age. Any sujestions would be great, thanks!
Suscribe to ESPN, watch lots of football, fill your fridge with lots of beer and link up with your old buddies. :D

Seriously though, we all been there. Breaking up hurts but look at it as a new beginning. Take up a new hobby. Read a good book. Remember that life goes on!