I ****ing give up. If you know I'm right for you, why the **** are you with him. You're being an idiot. Seriously, don't come to me in a couple months when he breaks your heart.

Well, you may have been right for her, but if she's that stoopid, she pretty obviously wasn't right for you.

...wow, that sounds like a chick thing to say. :|

**** it, man, bitches all crazy.

Well, you may have been right for her, but if she's that stoopid
She's not stupid, she's being stupid. That's why it's getting to me. The first girl I've been involved with in a very long time that made me think "wow."
**** it, man, bitches all crazy.
True dat.

She's not stupid, she's being stupid.

Right. That's what I meant. Oops.

Some women need the drama. Like if you're not bad for them, they'll actually feel guilty for being happy. Yeah, wellcome to the crazy world of compulsing buying, compulsing eating and compulsive... everything for that matter!

Sorry, igo, next time go for someone with a bit more sense, that's all I can say.

Yes, I know. I really thought she wasn't one of them.

Sorry, igo. Maybe you'll get luckier next time. If there's any comfort to you, know that the choice she made to go through all this pain is never ever worth it. It's just pain and hurt and suffering. For free. Nothing to learn from it. Like taking a blade and cutting yourself. So you don't have to feel bad for yourself. Maybe for her, like send her flowers, because she's making you feel pity...

See, the little mind games are very attractive and very very damaging for one's self esteem. Really, igo, next time look for someone a bit stronger :).

You're not telling me anything I don't already know. I know how these things work. I know what she's thinking, how she's feeling, and why she's doing what she's doing. I'm not naive to the ways of relationships and this girl is plenty strong, she's just doing something stupid. We've all done something stupid.

:( sowwy to read dat.

I mean well, igo. Sorry if I upset you.

No, I know you meant well, sorry if I sounded rude. The situation just has me very agrivated.

it's ok, igo, I understand. Maybe if you got to talk to one of your common friends and have another pov? Sitting around and running everything over and over through your head isn't gonna help you overcome this.

Did you talk to her about what she's doing? and why?

No, I know you meant well, sorry if I sounded rude. The situation just has me very agrivated.
Igo
have sent you a pm.

i give up!

damn waste of time, i get the message, good luck.

:(

(You know human emotion makes me edgy and I know you dont want advice, so thats all I'll say Jed - other than that)

Did you talk to her about what she's doing? and why?
A little bit. I don't very much care to have a conversation about why she's making the wrong decision when she's going to do it anyway.
i give up!

damn waste of time, i get the message, good luck.
Sent you a PM
:(

(You know human emotion makes me edgy and I know you dont want advice, so thats all I'll say Jed - other than that)
Thanks sugarmuffin.