You don't have to answer this question if you don't want to.

It's a good one if you think about it though.

it made me nervous to have it for a while

lol hey i know that feeling lol

yeah. it also took a little while for me to be able to look at that thing the same way.
I mean after seeing a human being come wriggling out of there in a mass of blood and fluid, it's hard to get real excited about it for a little while.

After I had the boys, I really wasn't in the mood much, so tired, and you just don't feel like the sex goddess you were before they came. Now it's easier that they're in school and doing their own thing. Not so dependent on mommy like they once were. My sex drive has also picked up, a lot :| So it all works out. :nice:

yeah. it also took a little while for me to be able to look at that thing the same way.
I mean after seeing a human being come wriggling out of there in a mass of blood and fluid, it's hard to get real excited about it for a little while.

LOL :p

I remember rejecting sex when she went into the post partum emotional roller coaster thing. She scared me just crying for no reason. She would literally bawl. If you asked her what was wrong she'd say "nothing".