ok this is a poll for the sake of it beging a poll.

mainly to get people to look at the thread. i know everyoine loves voting
anyway it isw my fault i'm still single. it's no pone else's.

i can blame other people (see the poll) but let's face it, it's my life and it's my own fault that i'm single. i fancy lots of females but i don't have the balls to ask them out. it's my fault and no one elses.

IFF, being single is not a flaw and it's better to be single than to be with the wrong person.

Still, it wouldn't hurt for you to at least ask someone out. :) Do try.

I think you're a lovely person and I'm sure almost any girl your age would be pleased to spend some time with you.

Good Poll!

(Polls in Journals get low votes because people without Journals may not vote, I think. Just so you know.)

Ask a girl out already.

The Jews

LOL

I suspect the Jews would be wishing well for him, not against.

;)

Originally posted by SpabSFW
IFF, being single is not a flaw and it's better to be single than to be with the wrong person.

Still, it wouldn't hurt for you to at least ask someone out. :) Do try.

I think you're a lovely person and I'm sure almost any girl your age would be pleased to spend some time with you.

Good Poll!

(Polls in Journals get low votes because people without Journals may not vote, I think. Just so you know.)

yeah. i think the main flaw for me is that i'd like a girl somewhat cultured. bars aren't the best place to find such a girl.


Originally posted by Potyondi
Ask a girl out already.

will try

Originally posted by Timothy Price
The Jews

lol. i was actually considering putting "islamic fundamentalists" in as an option

if you don't get turned down atleast 4 times a day, your not really trying

Originally posted by IFF

lol. i was actually considering putting "islamic fundamentalists" in as an option

hehehe

what i need to do is instead of waiting for the girls to come to me, i should go to them.

if i want things done, i need to do them myself

wiull this bring changes to my singledom?

Tune in at a later post to find out

To Be Continued

Originally posted by IFF
what i need to do is instead of waiting for the girls to come to me, i should go to them.

if i want things done, i need to do them myself

wiull this bring changes to my singledom?

Tune in at a later post to find out

To Be Continued

Excellent plan, crossing my fingers for you! Go Phil!!!

yeah, i tried asking a few nice looking girls out last night

but i don't know why but i was rejected all the times.. i think i'm approaching it wrong

or i'm looking for them in the wrong place.

p.s. the reference i take the opening of my previous post is from a cool dance track called "four to the flour" by Pharaoh House Crash. it goes "i believe you can find what ever makes you happy"

You got your profile pic in and you're such a little doll, and very nice and intelligent and going to school for a bright future.

Are these Louth girlz blind????

Phil, I wish I had some advice, but the only thing I can think of is maybe you are trying too hard and they sense it.

I wish I knew some young ladies over there to fix you up with, but I don't. Des has two daughters, 16 and 14, but I haven't met them yet and another friend of mine has a lovely stepdaughter but she's a tad young I think, 15. Maybe they all are, I don't know the norm there.

If I get over there to visit, I'll work on it and see who all has girls in your age range. I might be coming up next month~

yeah they all would be a bit young for me.

anyway i worked out my problem might be to do with m accent and y pronunciation. it might be a pointless thing to put the blame on.

i remember in one class in secondary school, a teacher in the middle of class, asked me "what country was i from?" because of my accent

though maybe the females in louth are blind. their is a big nucleur power plant just ccross the water that has resulted in birth deficiency in co. louth particularly so maybe that's what's causing it.

well i'm still single.

i think i know what my problem is. i am asking the wrong girls out. the wrong type of girls out. it's basically that i'm looking in the wrong places for a girlfriend

though i do have many female friends. i could ask one of them to set me up but i would feel kinda awkward asking .

IFF I was told once by my friend...that "your not going to meet the person you marry in a bar.."..(my parents met in a bar , but that's besides the point)..anyway..
spab is right.you seem like a really cool guy and...it's better to be single than to be with someone who's totally wrong for you or treats you like ****..even though being single is frustrating..especially when most of your friends are taken and whatnot...
you have your whole life to date remember...
hang in there...she'll come along maybe sooner than you think...:)

Originally posted by IFF
well i'm still single.

i think i know what my problem is. i am asking the wrong girls out. the wrong type of girls out. it's basically that i'm looking in the wrong places for a girlfriend

though i do have many female friends. i could ask one of them to set me up but i would feel kinda awkward asking .

You don't think women do that? We tell a friend to find out if someone likes us and to do the pushing, a lot of the time. Why not try that?

Also, what are the wrong type of girls? :eek:

What are the wrong places? ::eek3:

Thanks Terrapin

wrong place would be a nightclub, i think.

wrong girls are harder to define as i can't. basically it's just a lame excuse of mine.

i actually think a girl from my class likes me (as in finds me attractive)

i'm also attracted to this girl

she always smiles when we pass in the corridor so either she's attracted to me or polite.

it's probably the second one but quite possibly it's the first one

:)

Confidence. That is the key to attracting women~

Have some faith in yourself. :nice:

also i'v realised anohterproblem. i don't know her name. i've narrowed it down to 3 possibilities.

also with another girl i like. i was waiting by the wall at the bus depot and i saw her looking over at me confused as she was waiting in th bus queue at the end of the queue and possibly wondering why i wasn't going to wait in thew queue at that very time. the truth be that i was looking after a friends belongings and waiting for him to come back.

i think by waiting for my friend to come back i gave her the wrong impression

Originally posted by IFF
also i'v realised anohterproblem. i don't know her name. i've narrowed it down to 3 possibilities.

also with another girl i like. i was waiting by the wall at the bus depot and i saw her looking over at me confused as she was waiting in th bus queue at the end of the queue and possibly wondering why i wasn't going to wait in thew queue at that very time. the truth be that i was looking after a friends belongings and waiting for him to come back.

i think by waiting for my friend to come back i gave her the wrong impression

You worry too much!

You remind me of me, apart from being different genders religions, countries and personalities. Hmmmm :confused: ... ok, you don't remind me of me.

But I do worry a lot sometimes. :)

i've been told that before. i think it's quite accurate.

i do worry alot about what other people think and making fool out of myself, the stupidity of the general popyulation of ireland, on what people think of me and also a tonne of other stuff.

well a wee update.

i'm still single but it's not really bothering me at the minute. i've came to the realisation that while i would like a girlfriend, i've been very busy and i/'ll get much busier soon because of college so i wouldn't have time to devote to a girlfriend afterall due to time restraints, i've not really listened to a lot of cd's of mine this week. i think sicne sunday, i've only istened to 3 cd's and usually i'd listen to 40 in that time frame

Now that you are not looking they will probably fall all over you. It generally works that way.

I remember when I got married and wanted a baby we tried for a year and I finally gave up. Then when I decided we couldn't really afford a baby, I got pregnant with JRotten.

how about an update friendo

well i have stoppe dlooking because i don't have time with the amoun t of college work i have to do. it doesn't bother me because a relationship would need time & attention and all my time and attention is dedicated to college at the moment. i need to keep up with my college work, that is my main priority at the moment

i haven't actually touched a book to read in a couple of months. i have 3 cycling magazines waiting to be read. i will have a fourth cycling magazine in a week or two's time as i get them through the post. i have still to read tuesday's, wednesday;'s and thursday's irish times from this week so i am deffinately not have alot of time

this is also the first time i've been on the DA since last weekend