Just some of my observations. Most are incomplete b/c I'm working with a time limit all the time, and b/c I've got soooo much to say I a) don't explain it the way I know I can b) forget something crucial or c) do not go into it that deeply.

This is for myself really, but if you enjoy reading, continue to do so. :nice:

Eh, where do I start. I suppose I'll start with us guys. And right off the bat one begs the question.....

Why do we continually think about the opposite sex?

It's quite the feeling of despair. It is the gift and the curse. They can give you the best things, and yet they can make you feel the worst.

It's like a knot that fits into a hole...perfectly. It's the a puzzle piece that satisfies the whole and makes it complete. That is what I would call women. I will go back to a statistic term called complement. It is everything that you are not. If there are tens things and you have 4, then the complement is the other six. Well, they are men's complement. From the physical and emotional standpoints. That is how and why they are created.

As the story goes, God saw Adam lonely and decided he needed someone else. If you think of it, God even gets lonely. That's why he began to create. And since man is created in his image, this is also the case. So then he made them to be there. For many things. To be a helper and even to populate the world it says. But what does that mean?

Women are good at following orders. They do it well. They also love to be controlled (which I will touch on another day). The proof is in the pudding. There are more secretary women than men. They are just biologically better at that. They can multitask better then men. Their brains are wired for such behavior. No doubt this was done so that they could tend for the family and things around the house. That helps men. It allows them to break their back to make that money. Gosh how it worked for centuries until the turn of the 20th. in the Western world. Nevertheless, they are able to do things for men and for their families.

Following order also includes to listening to their mate. I would say that a man needs to win out 60%-40% for marriage to win out. Unless the sex has got you whooped beyond reason, that relationship will fall without fail. I've seen it more than 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 times. It's sad, really. They have the capacity to be dominated. Shoot!, right before they were banished that was the last thing God told Eve. And up until now, that system has prospered. I had a few experiences wherein I ordered some girls around, just to see if they do it. From the smallest to the most out of their way thing to do. And when adminsitered correctly, they will listen(I will touch on this too, later). Sadly, some nice guys fail to do this (which I will address in another entry). Yet the other vital things a man can recieve from a women would be both the emotional support and the sex.

Men need emotional support. We've all heard of the old saying, "That behind every good man is a strong women" or something like that. Well, that is what it is alluding to. Women can give men something that can't be equated or taken from any other place. It can be an emotional charge of some sorts. Just getting a little sugar(a kiss) before you do something helps. And there is no price tag for how much it means. A friend of mine says "every guys need a b*tch." Ya, just a little vulgar, but even this thug recognizes their need in that area. Today I would say you won't have a lot of men telling you that but they do go home for two things. The first would be this, and the other the sex.

Today it seems that that is all that men think about. And funny thing is, you have women who seek to be pleasing giving them it. Yet they want to be seen more than vessels for sex. Ah therein lies the irony (later entry). But men need it. Talk to any guy and they'll tell you. Men think about sex like every 6 seconds. Amazing. Matter of fact, even the Apostle Paul says for women to give their due. Really, to give it up b/c it is a need like water, food, and clothing. Not doing so would be depraving him of a need and inviting/driving him to find it elsewhere. And sex it the holy grail (not to sound sacreligious). It is the best thing out there. It also has it's purpose, which I won't even bother with. But the thought alone can send guys in a frenzy.

Some men would worship these as dieties(covered later). They constantly marvel, revel, relish, and consume themselves with these. And yet that will only bring them grief. It is not what they want. They want to be pleasing and pleased, not worshiped. So then one is pushed away. Everything that these men have for them, the strong feelings, they willingness to commit, the willingness to care for, is thrown to the way side. And oh how it hurts. Why?

Men have an eagerness to for women beyond anything. I believe it is testosterone. You've also got dopamine, but the sex drive is mainly testosterone [what's funny is that older women fear Menopause b/c they will lose a part of their womenhood, yet that is when testosterone kicks in and their sex drive shoots through the roof, like and man does. Then maybe they will know how it feels to not be in control of your feelings or desire for sex;)]. It is biological to want, but men want all the time. I mean all the time. It's sick, sometimes. Sometimes your thirst for sex overshadows all reason. Some men goes as far as follow these girls around. Map out their routes to try to make any kind of encounter they can. It's sad and gross at the same time and those simply cannot help themselves. It hurts them as much as it can scare the females.

Women carry a lot of baggage. They are emotional wrecks. They is nothing but drama. Yet, they are the biggest source of conflict which is neccessary for small groups to survive. They don't even know what they want (later entry). They don't know why they feel the way they feel (which is purely philosophical in explanation since they can't tell you why ^^ ). They hurt fast and their apologies are a pain to listen or hear out. They often never answer your questions (later) or things that make them feel exposed. They don't think like us guys. You know, rational and logical. They think with their emotions a lot of the time. And now that I come to think of it, we do too! So it's a double wammy. Woe is me.

Why are women such good liars? I've often wondered why myself. They seem to just know how. It's quite fascinating at the level of skill in which they do lie and get away with it. They are able and often fool their men. Women persuade their men to believe one thing and slip into the back door when their not looking. I think a lot of it has to do with them being passive in the first place. They are always hinting or formulating alternative ideas so as not to be outstanding or overwhelming. In this regard, they are have been well versed with much practice and have also a biological upgrade. But do they get away with lying because men are so inclined to believe because they are so infatuated that they allow them to slip undetected with out contending? I don't know. But I think it is a little of column A. and column B.

I've noticed that women are passive. They hint a whole lot (later entry on that subject I believe that it is an inivitation for control). But nevertheless, women have a sharp and inventive mind. Since women do not want to be seen as overwhelming (later entry a woman wants to be accepted by a man ), or even be seen as a "b*tch," they think of other avenues in which they believe their man to or will understand them. And so you have a repititious act of creativity that they have sharpened to get what they want or advance a thought. [That, to me, would mean that being straight forward, frank, and blunt would denote the inability to be a good liar or just be sneaky. I've seen men get away with playing by other means other than being a good liar (namely charm and insincerity towards a woman's need for acceptance and commitment).] It is the mind that is what makes it marvelous, but their execution that baffles me. And what about their splendid execution of the lie.

Girls seem to keep their poise. For some odd reason, I've noticed guys get flustered when being questioned. Those who have experience in this regard deny deny deny and get away with it. Although my many experiences say that women know if their man is cheating, but find it difficult to squash without haste (not absolute). But this is not the case with women, or so my many experience along with stories from many others have said. Whether they are questioned or they are taking the initiative to fib they keep their cool. And here these poor saps fall for it. Why men fall for it, I couldn't tell you why. But I do have a theory.

Well some men worship women. Those who do not tend not to fall into their lies (later entry). I believe some let a woman's beauty cloud their reasonable and good jugdment. It is feminism, which is something men lack but need. It is their natural physical and personality tendencies that make men fall for them like dummies (later entry). It is the way they bat their eyes, cross their legs, walk, talk, smile and so on and so forth. They often rob dummies blind for their money so how much harder to lie to their face and possibly cheat? I think in this instance, men set themselves up for failure. They are weak and therefore not on the look out. They let her feminism envelope his whole thought process and this allows them to slip unnoticed. And still I am left with the question "Why are women good at lying?"

Oh well, I guess I'd better ask a girl. Or would that even help?

I've often wondered why women are so full of themselves. But when you consider that they are a vain creature, any pertinent questions of the kind should be laid to rest. They are a vain creature where beauty is the barometer; the guage in which to determine self-worth. But haven't they have to the foggiest clue that is it but a mist appearing in the morning then burnt away when the sun rises?

Beauty is not forever. It, like strength, leaves one as time pasts. One day one who is quote unquote "beautiful" will be undistinguisable and disregarded. Don't they know that that is the eventuallity of things? But I guess as the old saying goes, "If you got the cigarettes, smoke'm." And smoke until they are gone. Oh the irony in everday life.

It's as if they life for the moment of victory. No, no girl wants to give every man sex, only imply it. I've wondered where the line lies only to learn that it's constantly moved around by them. They want to be pleasing, appreciated, and accepted. That's all. If when they are given such acclaim, they abruptly discard a man.

Men unknowingly pay attention to women too much and in doing so only shoot their own chances down. Really, I've learned that they want to be pleasing. They'll walk in front of you; they'll make themselves noticable; they'll give you something to look at. And what if it is unrequited? Then you win! What a fallacy.=T What a joke. And here they believe they hold all the cards. Pfft Women look just as much, want as much, and wonder as much. Guys just are too anxious and over-zealous.

Women believe that every guy who talks to them want to get into their pants. Granted those ideas are not unfounded, it is not an absolute or rule of thumb. I'm not sure they've ever met guys who are just guys and not dogs. Lots of times I wonder if they can tell the difference only to realize they don't and can't--they're women, afterall. This reaches even into a cyber world no less.

What really is an internet stalker and why should someone be weary? And why is every guy who you personally not be interested into talking is labeled a stalker? Why is someone who is nice to you now "creepy?" Why is someone who is forward "weird?" If really you don't want "horny boys" and still don't want "stalkers," what do you want? Or should I even ask that question? Oh well, I'll keep this to myself. Maybe I'll one day figure out why women are so full of themselves. Maybe not, but can't say it won't be interesting.