Good - bad? thoughts

I see nothing wrong with them, strippers are even ok with me, AS LONG as he does not cross the line and cheat. Then he will be left standing, ALONE!

i want to jump out of a cake!

eh, i have no problem with bachelor parties. i'm actually the type of girl that would want to take my boyfriend or fiance to a strip club, so i don't mind at all if he gets drunk and has a stripper

I think they are stupid

They are immoral and wrong and should be made illegal under the coming corporatist state.

Originally posted by jadatrack
i want to jump out of a cake!

eh, i have no problem with bachelor parties. i'm actually the type of girl that would want to take my boyfriend or fiance to a strip club, so i don't mind at all if he gets drunk and has a stripper

The whole point of a bachelor party is that the bride-to-be isn't there, Cinda. That'd kinda defeat the purpose.

As for me, I don't do the whole get drunk and party thing. Not my style, so my friends are gonna have to think of some other way to have a bachelor party. :p

Originally posted by Stage Monster
The whole point of a bachelor party is that the bride-to-be isn't there, Cinda. That'd kinda defeat the purpose.

i wouldn't be at the bachelor party :P (the cake comment doesn't apply to my own wedding :| ) i meant that i wouldn't mind him having a bachelor party because at i'm not all anti-stripper and party and such....i actually think it would be fun to go to strip club, hence, i'm the type of person that would probably drag him to a strip club.

Originally posted by contra
They are immoral and wrong and should be made illegal under the coming corporatist state.

I will disagree here with brother contra.

Male bonding is a very important part of life for a young soon to be groom.

There is value in an occasional male only celebration including music, moderate use of alcohol or tobacco, and some foolish behaviour amongst good friends.

Bachelor Party.......ehhhh whatever....I'd volunteer to be the stripper....my ex husband never had one....actually yes he did, him and and best friend went to a bunch of Phil shows and blew a bunch of $$ on various party favors.....;)

Originally posted by Terrapin
Bachelor Party.......ehhhh whatever....I'd volunteer to be the stripper....my ex husband never had one....actually yes he did, him and and best friend went to a bunch of Phil shows and blew a bunch of $$ on various party favors.....;)

Well, I'll call you if/when I need a stripper, then. :D

I love bachelor parties. Never had one of my own though.

Heh heh heh... I actually stripped at a bachelorette party once. The bride-to-be was a friend of mine and I ran into her earlier in the day and she asked me if I would do it. It was pretty frickin' ok; I kept apologizing about my boner because I didn't think professional strippers got woodies like that. That turned out ok in the end, though. :p

i dont see anything wrong with it.its just a fun night with your boys.i mean i dont see the difference of going out with the guys to a stip club any day or calling it a bachelor party and doin the same thing.sure there might be more lap dancing but eh its still about teh same concept.hes still coming home to me.

It's a last hurrah....


I've heard of some bachelorette parties getting just as wild and crazy and bachelor parties...

A night out with some friends (or in somewhere) Lots of drinking. Lots of remeniscing. Strippers and lap dances, whats wrong with it?

If my SO would feel uncomfortable or be bugged by that, there's a good chance we're not meant for one another...