Life can not be all chimmy in the relationship dept for everyone..Some one has to have something they want to talk about..

/Dont look at me..I could post for days ...

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"The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for"
-Joseph Addison

What do women think about and what do they want?

Ive only been married for just over a year, and Im still trying to learn exactly how my wife works.

Unfortunately she didn't come with an instruction manual, but thats okay I found all the button anyways. http://discussanything.com/Ubb/smile.gif

But seriously, what insight into the realm of women can you give me?

Good One.. Its late here, I shall sleep on it..and get back with ya..

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"The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for"
-Joseph Addison

Well, I've had a nice thing going for about a month and a half, but the axe fell this past Friday. So, expect a lengthy post from me in the next couple days.

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Behold, I will corrupt your seed, and spread dung upon your faces.
Malachi 2:3

Sorry to hear that..but we are here to help and listen if you would like to share.

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"The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for"
-Joseph Addison

oops

[This message has been edited by Dest98 (edited 10-08-2001).]

Eh, my girlfriend rules . . .

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Minister of Spanking

"I AM the lyrical Jesse James."

Originally posted by D Durden:
Eh, my girlfriend rules . . .



Or she's at least got you well trained http://discussanything.com/Ubb/biggrin.gif http://discussanything.com/Ubb/biggrin.gif http://discussanything.com/Ubb/biggrin.gif



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Courage is not the absence of fear, but the conquest of it

"There is no weapon deadlier than the will" Bruce Lee

http://www.boortz.com/gadsden.gif

my GF is pretty good too...but I really have a hard time figuring her out also!

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Manu Narayan

Originally posted by AdamJ:
Ive only been married for just over a year, and Im still trying to learn exactly how my wife works.

Stop trying. Been married 13 years. Just when you think you've got it figured out, she changes the rules of the game...



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Formerly known as 74Mav
(Mav dropped the no. 2 connecting rod and I'm pissed)

Originally posted by Manu:
my GF is pretty good too...but I really have a hard time figuring her out also!



That is because she is a Woman... http://discussanything.com/Ubb/smile.gif and we have that privelege..

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"The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for"
-Joseph Addison

I don't know....I think Women as a whole are hard to figure out....but a Woman, if you let them talk long enough, and actually listen...can be figured out for the most part...

This is just my opinoin...

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I do what ever my Rice Krispys tell me to...

Jester, I'll agree with that. The thing is that generalities about women can be made . . . call it stereotyping if you like, it doesn't matter.

I think that, in general, young girls want what they can't have, 24-30 want to hang onto what they've got, and 31+ realize what they originally thought they wanted sucked, and the things they used to make fun of would really make them joyous.

Oh, there are notable exceptions, I'll agree. Actually, every woman is an exception . . . if you ask them http://discussanything.com/Ubb/wink.gif. But, as I've said before, if you ask most women what they want, they'll blindly recite "I want a nice guy with a sense of humor" . . . which is utter and complete ca-ca. Ten to one, Carrot Top is not getting as much ass as the guys from Blink-182, and I hear they're utter bungholes in person (several sources).

Then again, how can you blame girls for that? In our society, we're telling them that they're just as strong, tough, and driven as men . . . but, they should be 5'10", 104 pounds, with a 38-22-32 figure. We also say (as a society) that women should wear clothes four sizes too small, push-up bras in junior high, and have their tongues pierced, BUT they shouldn't allow others to treat them as sexual objects. We encourage young women to express their sexuality, but we criticize them for selling it . . . or even giving it away. Oh, and then we criticize them for being a tease if they do neither one!

As a parent, I don't envy the young women of today's society. Granted, they have power way beyond any other time in history, BUT, the mental issues are much too confusing to find comfort in it.

How the HECK did I get out this far . . .??

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Minister of Spanking

"I AM the lyrical Jesse James."

Originally posted by D Durden:
How the HECK did I get out this far . . .??

I believe you were trying to explain women... a long twisting road that leads nowhere.

CT, for once, I think we agree on something!

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Minister of Spanking

"I AM the lyrical Jesse James."

Originally posted by AdamJ
What do women think about and what do they want?

Ive only been married for just over a year, and Im still trying to learn exactly how my wife works.

Unfortunately she didn't come with an instruction manual, but thats okay I found all the button anyways. http://discussanything.com/Ubb/smile.gif

But seriously, what insight into the realm of women can you give me?
I think it was God's intention that men should never understand how a woman's mind works, my friend. I am in my late 30's and I still dont understand.

No, you see, by the time you DO figure things out, it's too late.

I've about figured out how 16-24 year old bimbos think and act . . . enough to probably have some success with them. But, SHEEEEESH, it's too much damn trouble dealing with them. It's a lot like eating an orange with a fork . . . one wrong squeeze, and you get it in the eye. Besides, by the time you figure out how to keep one, you realize it's not worth keeping anyway.

The KEY is to move past the superficial happiness and find JOY . . . and that only comes from someone who can appreciate you as much as you can appreciate them.