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How long have you been living with this person?

Talk to her about what you're both getting out of the relationship - if she's being so snippy, she's likely as unhappy as you are.

Originally posted by The Miscreant
How long have you been living with this person?

Talk to her about what you're both getting out of the relationship - if she's being so snippy, she's likely as unhappy as you are.

I moved to Boston in March.

I plan on talking to her this week. Hopefully when she is in a better mood.

Originally posted by Grizzly

This girl I met is actually interested in me. She pursued me and I can see her eyes light up when she sees me and she seems to come alive. The girl I am livign with barely acknowledges my presence except if it is to rag on me about something.




You're sure you are'nt suffering from the 'Grass is Greener on the Other Side of the Fence' syndrome?

I'd move slowly. Examine your feelings for your SO, talk to her, and go from there. You obviously cared enough about this woman to move in with her, are you certain your feelings have changed that much?

Lastly, just because you're being flirted with does not mean this other woman is ready to take the place of your current gf.

Originally posted by DngrMse



You're sure you are'nt suffering from the 'Grass is Greener on the Other Side of the Fence' syndrome?

I'd move slowly. Examine your feelings for your SO, talk to her, and go from there. You obviously cared enough about this woman to move in with her, are you certain your feelings have changed that much?

Lastly, just because you're being flirted with does not mean this other woman is ready to take the place of your current gf.

all very good points. Thank you