Well, just got off the phone with my now ex-girlfriend. I'm sad its over but I know its what I had to do. I guess I'll put in the customary 1 1/2 hour morning period, then its back on the prowl!! Guess I should try and find one closer to my age this time.(My ex is 8 years younger) Anyway... Lock up your daughters!!

Hmmm. That sucks I guess, but it sounds like you did the dumping rather than the other way around... That supposedly makes it a little better I know at least one guy that likes 'em younger though... Says they're easier to obedience train that way:D Funny thing is though, his has got him whipped as all get out:eek: ROFLMAO!

Oh well..I mean..Just think of getting to find someone else and starting a whole new adventure.

And Um..What age would be 8 yrs younger, should I lock my doors.. :p

lol.. maybe she will follow you on here and ... nevermind.. too easy

but sorry to hear about it man, but cheer up, there is more fish in the sea.. better fish.. and yes I can votch for finding one closer to your age.. it seems that older girls know better than to date me.. :)

but rant away if ya like

wow we all three posted at the same time.. and I happen to be in last place.. LOL

well jwreck.. just remember, you can always tell yourself..

"atleast I ain't wedge4876" LOL

Thanks guys. Yeah, I did the dumping. She just wanted to go and do as she pleased, which is fine sometimes, but give me a break. Yes, there are many in the sea and probably better ones to. The cool thing is working in a nightclub is like having a buffet delivered to you every night. Princess, I'm 28 so...hopefully the next one will be able to legally drink.should I lock my doors. Do you really think a locked door can deter a Jedi master?

I just made the cut.. 28-8=20..I am 21

But I do hang out at the Night Clubs..What is it with those places. I was at one Sat night was like a damn FREAK SHOW!

Originally posted by Princess
I just made the cut.. 28-8=20..I am 21

But I do hang out at the Night Clubs..What is it with those places. I was at one Sat night was like a damn FREAK SHOW!

that'd be the reason I don't go to night clubs.. well anymore..

dude.. if you work there, you shouldn't have any problems getting a girl.. :)

Originally posted by Wedge4876


that'd be the reason I don't go to night clubs.. well anymore..

dude.. if you work there, you shouldn't have any problems getting a girl.. :) The only problem with clubs is what they have in quantity, they lack in quality. Oh well, looks like another string of one night stands for me!!

Originally posted by jwreck
The only problem with clubs is what they have in quantity, they lack in quality. Oh well, looks like another string of one night stands for me!!

oh yeah, you got to hate that..

just be sure and don't follow my footsteps and atleast get some.. LOL

Originally posted by Wedge4876


oh yeah, you got to hate that..

just be sure and don't follow my footsteps and atleast get some.. LOL Uh, I'll try and remember that. Just gotta remember to WRAP the present before I give it away!:eek:

Originally posted by jwreck
Uh, I'll try and remember that. Just gotta remember to WRAP the present before I give it away!:eek:

LOL...

I didn't think I had to tell you.. but just to let you know.. :)

btw.. was that the girl in the picture you posted earlier?? (*not to rub salt in the wound*)

Haha, actually, that was some girl form a bachelor party that the pictures were posted on stangnet. Yoda's head just happened to fit into the pic nicely. Don't know the girl or the guy in the pic. Hell, I don't even remember who's pic it was!

Well, at least she meant something to you, LMAO!

Won't working at a bar up your chances of meeting some fly honey? :D

Cristina-

I'm still waiting for you to wander int my bar Buggy, then my life will be complete!! actually, I just got off work and I'm too drunk to type. Thanks all who care. Yes, she did mean alot o me. I love her more than I care to admit. I'll post more when I sober up. Later,

Originally posted by jwreck
I'm still waiting for you to wander int my bar Buggy, then my life will be complete!! actually, I just got off work and I'm too drunk to type. Thanks all who care. Yes, she did mean alot o me. I love her more than I care to admit. I'll post more when I sober up. Later,

LOL yeah you sound drunk.. :)

alchemohol is bad.. mmmm K?

OK, now its starting to get weird. I just got off the phone with my ex. She wants to see me tomorrow so we can talk about stuff. I get the fealing that she wannts to get back together. I'll have to see exactly what she has to say befor eI can even consider it. The really crazy thing is that about two hours ago my ex-wife called bieng VERY nice to me on the phone. I knew something was up. Come to find out her boyfriend dumped her tonight and now she wants to do the whole family christmas thing. I feel like the sharks are circling and I'm just treading water trying to keep an eye on them.

Just Damned! Welcome to my nightmare J. My wife is begging me not to hit the trail as well after I posted about all her crap here:( Part of me wants to give her one last chance too... At the very least it might make life easier while I get my shit together. I really don't think it's going to make any difference in the long run though:(

The thing about my ex-wife is that we have a kid together. In SOOOO many ways I feal i owe it to my child to be with her mom, ya know? But at the same time, if we're constantly trying to kill each other, that certainly isn't good for her either. I feel like I've had to choose the lesser of the two evils.:( Iknow that realisticly any thoughts of us being together are just pipe dreams, and it really hurts me to know thatI caused my little girl the pain of having divorced parents. That's why you I think you need to really look long and hard at your relationship Shadow. Would you want to be a child raised by you and your wife? You can't undo it after a kid.

Yeah, I know exactly what you mean... At first I didn't start a family out of financial concerns. When things got marginally better though, it became pretty obvious that Gina likely wouldn't make too good a mother IMO. It hurts to chuck 13 years though, esp when I no longer have any other family at this point.

I'm stuck here for the moment though, due to being unemployed & flat broke. Sounds like the best thing you could do is keep away from the ex, but try to be there as much as you can for your daughter.

That's what I try to do. We are usually able to be cordial together, but it still flairs up every once in awhile. We live close to each other so I see my daughter pretty often compared to many divorced dads I know.

Doesn't sound like anyone could ask much more of you:) I went nearly ten years w/o ever seeing my dad after my parents got divorced. He was in the Navy, so when he had fleet duty the first 5 years or so after the divorce (it happened when I was 5), I got to see him once a year maybe. After that, it was 10 years... Come to find out, the bastard was just down the coast in San Diego too.

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Doesn't sound like anyone could ask much more of you:) I went nearly ten years w/o ever seeing my dad after my parents got divorced. He was in the Navy, so when he had fleet duty the first 5 years or so after the divorce (it happened when I was 5), I got to see him once a year maybe. After that, it was 10 years... Come to find out, the bastard was just down the coast in San Diego too. That's definitely NOT the kind of dad I want to be.

Originally posted by jwreck
That's definitely NOT the kind of dad I want to be.


OH! It gets better, trust me... After I stayed with him & my wicked step-mother for a few months while looking to relocate to SD & get a fresh start, suddenly it turned out it was MY responsibility to track THEM down & prove i was a good son :mad:

That's about the time I said the hell with it and headed out to Georgia...


Either way, I think you could just about drunken post your life away & not be that kind of father.

Originally posted by Shadowhawk



OH! It gets better, trust me... After I stayed with him & my wicked step-mother for a few months while looking to relocate to SD & get a fresh start, suddenly it turned out it was MY responsibility to track THEM down & prove i was a good son :mad:

That's about the time I said the hell with it and headed out to Georgia...


Either way, I think you could just about drunken post your life away & not be that kind of father. That really sucks man.:(

OK. Update. Just got back from "the talk" with my ex (gf, not wife). She said she can't believe how stupid she was and that she was just really scared because she has never really fealt like this before. She said she got freaked because she didn't think she wanted a serious relationship because she's only 20 and wanted to party and do the whole college thing. She claims that she was totally miserable without me and has realized that she does love me and want to be with me. She also says that she plans on spending less time with her friends and swears that she's not scared any more and wants to see me whenever possible. I believe that she's being honest with me and I can completely understand how she could be scared. I'm a lot older and have a kid. That alone would keep me away if the roles were reversed. So we agreed to get back together. I told her though that I'm not going to play some on again off again BS and that she needs to be sure. Like I said, I understand her hesitancy, but if its not what she wants she should just say so, because my days of the infinite last chance are over. If things work go like tonight did then I'm REALLY happy we're back together. :D

Well, I shall have to trust the wisdom & perceptions of a fellow Jedi Master here. Personally that is a variation on a fairly old line used by women as you doubtless know.

Still I'm glad that things look like they're going to work out for you:) Not a bad Christmas present to have a relationship again.

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Well, I shall have to trust the wisdom & perceptions of a fellow Jedi Master here. Personally that is a variation on a fairly old line used by women as you doubtless know.

Still I'm glad that things look like they're going to work out for you:) Not a bad Christmas present to have a relationship again. Well I think I made it clear to her that this was it, that this is not a game to me. Of course, is it even possible to make something perfectly clear to a woman?

Originally posted by jwreck
Well I think I made it clear to her that this was it, that this is not a game to me. Of course, is it even possible to make something perfectly clear to a woman?

You're asking ME??? I've been trying for 13 years with the one I'm about to get rid of, remember? LMAO!

Originally posted by Shadowhawk


You're asking ME??? I've been trying for 13 years with the one I'm about to get rid of, remember? LMAO! Yeah, where's Dave when you need him?

Like we have to guess what he'd say... LMAO!

"Screw it! If you have to put any effort into the relationship, that means it's time to toss her aside and try to get turned down at least four times a day" ROFLMAO!

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Like we have to guess what he'd say... LMAO!

"Screw it! If you have to put any effort into the relationship, that means it's time to toss her aside and try to get turned down at least four times a day" ROFLMAO! LMAO!!!

Well, you know I'm right, LMAO!

Even our traitorous post whore Wedge would probably agree here:D:D

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Durden's screen persona IS hillarious. That doesn't change the fact you had nothing meaningful to add to the conversation:p

Notice Durden hasn't been around lately?? Well I don't think he'll be a disbeliever in Black helicopters anymore:eek: :eek: :eek:

Originally posted by Corporate Avenger
Notice Durden hasn't been around lately?? Well I don't think he'll be a disbeliever in Black helicopters anymore:eek: :eek: :eek:

Only the Shadow knows... (where Durden is:D ) LMAO!

Originally posted by Corporate Avenger
Notice Durden hasn't been around lately?? Well I don't think he'll be a disbeliever in Black helicopters anymore:eek: :eek: :eek:

I think he finally pissed off the wrong people.. :) LOL

Originally posted by Wedge4876


I think he finally pissed off the wrong people.. :) LOL

Heather???

ROFLMAO!!

(to all)

Jane, you ignorant slut(s) . . .

Corporate . . . we flew over your house and peed in the back yard . . . MERRY CHRISTMAS . . . And, if you don't stop playing with yourself, you're going to go blind . . . :D

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I think he finally pissed off the wrong people.. LOL
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Heather???

ROFLMAO!!

Wrong person . . . on so many levels . . . but NOT with regards to my status on DA . . . ;) Pissing her off is right up there with running across a fast Camaro or having to sell my guns on my worry list.

Now, with regards to getting back with ex's after they've bedded some other schlupp . . . funk dat . . . every time you go down on her, you're going down on her boyfriend . . . think about that. :D

Oh, and remember, if she did it once, she'll do it again. She'll ESPECIALLY do it again if she got away with it the first time. Refer to ANY of my posts about being an emotional tampon. They're applicable here.

Shadow, your situation is understandable. I mean, you're stuck . . . and that sucks. But, like it was told to a young Indiana Jones, you lost, but you don't have to like it. The cool thing is that you've got time to arrange to get the hell out on both feet. The only thing you have to worry about is her convincing you to stay. Always question her motives i.e. "don't leave YET . . . I haven't maxed out our credit cards, yet . . . ".

JW . . . it's ALWAYS a game . . . the key is to get your spouse on YOUR team . . . and to help screw over everyone else's team. Always remember, if you can't trust the guy (or girl) in the trench with you, the first bullet in the battle should be for them. It's much safer to be alone than with a liability. Remember, if you're alone, sex is ALWAYS an option . . . you married men will understand.

Like we have to guess what he'd say... LMAO!

"Screw it! If you have to put any effort into the relationship, that means it's time to toss her aside and try to get turned down at least four times a day" ROFLMAO!

I'm flattered that SOMEONE pays attention! LOL! It's not that putting effort in is a BAD thing, but putting USELESS effort into things suckles like a newborn goat (and I should know! ;)). Anyway, Lisa and I have been putting a lot of effort into our relationship, and that's why I haven't been around. My back is sore, and it's difficult to type . . .

;)

Originally posted by D Durden
(to all)

Jane, you ignorant slut(s) . . .

Corporate . . . we flew over your house and peed in the back yard . . . MERRY CHRISTMAS . . . And, if you don't stop playing with yourself, you're going to go blind . . . :D

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I think he finally pissed off the wrong people.. LOL
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Heather???

ROFLMAO!!

Wrong person . . . on so many levels . . . but NOT with regards to my status on DA . . . ;) Pissing her off is right up there with running across a fast Camaro or having to sell my guns on my worry list.

Now, with regards to getting back with ex's after they've bedded some other schlupp . . . funk dat . . . every time you go down on her, you're going down on her boyfriend . . . think about that. :D

Oh, and remember, if she did it once, she'll do it again. She'll ESPECIALLY do it again if she got away with it the first time. Refer to ANY of my posts about being an emotional tampon. They're applicable here.

Shadow, your situation is understandable. I mean, you're stuck . . . and that sucks. But, like it was told to a young Indiana Jones, you lost, but you don't have to like it. The cool thing is that you've got time to arrange to get the hell out on both feet. The only thing you have to worry about is her convincing you to stay. Always question her motives i.e. "don't leave YET . . . I haven't maxed out our credit cards, yet . . . ".

JW . . . it's ALWAYS a game . . . the key is to get your spouse on YOUR team . . . and to help screw over everyone else's team. Always remember, if you can't trust the guy (or girl) in the trench with you, the first bullet in the battle should be for them. It's much safer to be alone than with a liability. Remember, if you're alone, sex is ALWAYS an option . . . you married men will understand.

Like we have to guess what he'd say... LMAO!

"Screw it! If you have to put any effort into the relationship, that means it's time to toss her aside and try to get turned down at least four times a day" ROFLMAO!

I'm flattered that SOMEONE pays attention! LOL! It's not that putting effort in is a BAD thing, but putting USELESS effort into things suckles like a newborn goat (and I should know! ;)). Anyway, Lisa and I have been putting a lot of effort into our relationship, and that's why I haven't been around. My back is sore, and it's difficult to type . . .

;) Good to see ya again!

Originally posted by Shadowhawk


You're asking ME??? I've been trying for 13 years with the one I'm about to get rid of, remember? LMAO!

little late to throw this in, but to me, you could "throw 13 years out the window" now, or in another 7 when it gets to be unbearable, "throw 20 years out the window." or how about 5 years after that, and you get ready to "throw 25 years out the window."
i'm not goddamn genius, but when it comes to ending something that needs to be ended, when you worry about wasting the time you've already spent, think about how much more time you'll eb wasting in the future if you DON'T move on.
but all that said, 'tis your decision.
and i'm a complete moron.