ok for the last couple weeks, this has happened more than once.. I will be at the mall or whatnot and about to purchase something.. when I go to pay there is really cute (not extremely hot) but nice looking cute girl that checks me out.. my question is, is it possible to actually get a girl's phone number or whatever in the two and a half minutes that I can talk to her.. I guess this goes back to my previous post, b/c friends of mine say afterwards, yeah you could of had her... like there was this one girl last night.. I am not saying where I was, but I was still crushing over this on my drive home.. so do people actually do that, pick up a girl while she is "checking you out"??

PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO DO IT!!! lol.. just kidding.. it can't be that difficult:p ;) :D :rolleyes:

I meant to put this in the relationship forum.. you can move it if you like..

dumbass me... LOL :D:D:D

Well at least your noticing that she's checking you out. :D The force is growing in you, there may be hope yet...;) Honestly chance of picking a girl up in a two minute conversation while she's working at a store during the holiday rush is very slim to say the least, but nothing is impossible. My suggestion would be to go to the store a few more times and work it over time. Then you can also get a feel for whether or not she was just doing a quick check out of the goods or if she's actually interested. Good luck !

see there is the problem.. when I say she was checking me out.. I meant she was totalling up what I purchased.. not checking me out up and down.. or the way I wanted her to..

I guess it's that whole confidence thing.. and do I honestly need a girl that bad??

You totally can!

It just take balls. (Mine have never been anywhere near this large).

But in the talking, checkout, whatever, if you feel there is decent chemistry just do some idel chit chat.

"when ay get off work."
Wanna maybe grab a bite to eat?
Wanna catch a movie?

Wanna have my children?

It all works.

Great story I have from my freshman year of college.
I had just left a chemistry review for a final. I was feeling pretty good and all around it had been a decent day. I see this cute girl (blue eyes, brunette, very attactive) looking at me.

I walk up to her and say "Hey, my names Manu, how ya doing?"
Her: ::smiles:: Im good, my name is Erin (I think that was her name, I forgot it now...)
Me: So ya free later?
Her: Umm, sure what ya have in mind?
Me: Wanna get married?
Her: ::doesn't smile::
Me: I will take that as no Erin with the pretty blue eyes.
Her: smiles
I walked away and the last I saw of her...

That was fun :-)

so girls, do you notice when I guys has big enough balls to ask you out even though he is really nervous.. ??

or do you laugh and poke fun at him with your girl friends when he walks away??

Don't know what you can do if you don't have humor, I wouldn't be the guy to ask. If you go into it knowing you'll be rejected, then you'll actually feel better, because you know the worst thing that could happen, is she says no. Also go into it knowing that if you try your hardest and get comfortable, then you won't end up second guessing yourself bigtime. I worked a job in sales a long time ago, so talking to people is something that comes very easily to me. Something like what Manu said will work, but Manu doesn't know the five parts to a conversation.

1. Introduction
2. Short story
3. Presentation
4. Closing
5. Rehash

You can very easily apply those to asking somebody out. First you introduce yourself, its the easiest and quickest part, you have to use what we called SEX (Smile Eye contact eXcitement) and work your way into a short story, which would be like I couldn't help but notice you from ... bleh bleh bleh, just use it as something to transition yourself smoothly from the intro to the presentation, where you actually ask her out. The closing you do after you successfully get through the presentation and she hasn't said no... this is when you'll ask for her number. The rehash is after you've done everything, and you use it to help you, something like if she works at Taco Bell, you ask her for a Gordita, or maybe if she has a cute friend to go out with your bud, etc...

We call that the 5 steps, and I've used it countless times. Once you know those, the world is at your fingertips. I like going to Mexico :D

(get it... mexico?)

yeah I can just see me going up to her with a little notebook.. "hi my name is Alan.. step two.. oh shit I wasn't suppose to say that outloud"

yeah I talked to a friend of mine last night for a long time about it.. it's hard to pickup girls.. esp. in this day and age.. girls tend to think that all guys want is sex.. and sad to say but the majority of girls went out with me b/c that's what they think I wanted.. only to be let down when I corrected them.. anyways, a stranger is just a friend you haven't met..

I find myself thinking about what type of girl I would love to go out with.. in some instances.. (don't laugh) I write them down to focus on what I need and to get my thoughts straight.. almost like my motivation.. honestly, it's becoming easier to not be attracted to girls that aren't right for me.. the whole logic guy thing kicks in.. and kills all the "I want to change her to like me.." teeny bopper syndrome.. I will guess I will just wait until one knocks on my door, or the door magically opens between me and the next girl that "checks me out"..

Originally posted by Wedge4876
so girls, do you notice when I guys has big enough balls to ask you out even though he is really nervous.. ??

or do you laugh and poke fun at him with your girl friends when he walks away??

hmm actually it really depends. i have to think about how cute and funny it was, how cute he was, if i'm available to be picked up on...normally i don't laugh afterwards with friends because i'm too damn excited that a guy hit on me.

Originally posted by rearrange
because i'm too damn excited that a guy hit on me.

I have never seen a girl get excited b/c I or any guy for that matter has asked them out.. maybe that should tell me something..

or maybe they just hide it really well..

Wedge..whether I am excited or not about someone asking me out they will never know...I am not going to jump up and down and holler..even if I refuse I do it in a nice way. Not every girl will turn you down flat..

You should ask her to have coffee. Just be real nice about it and not to frontal next time you go in makew sure to smile and look directly at her chances are she'll say something to you then before you leave say "Hey would you wanna have a cup of coffee with me" (even if you dont like coffee) Preferably go up to her when its not busy so shes not rushed by other customers. Either give her your number

There used to be this girl that worked at the independent video place in Agoura that i always thought was cute and was all gothy and tatted out and I used to talk to her bout odd ball movies. One time i was in there wearing my kilt and she asked if i was scottish and I was like no im Irish kilts originated in Ireland and she was like "ooohhh too bad, scots totally turn me on" i was like ooooohhhhhh reeeeaaaalllyyy anyway i always wanted to ask her out but low an behold the place folded a year or two ago and ill prolly never see her again.

Moral of the story: Dont procrastinate on poontang.

I wouldn't advise saying the step numbers out loud, unless she's the type of chick with a good sense of humor. Thinking out loud is a great gag to win her really quick... besides, earth girls are easy.

Originally posted by slayr420
I wouldn't advise saying the step numbers out loud, unless she's the type of chick with a good sense of humor. Thinking out loud is a great gag to win her really quick... besides, earth girls are easy.


earth girls?? what type of girls do you date?? lol

well coffee it is.. next time I see some hot girl that I caught myself awing over.. I guess I can do a bit of small talk then what they hey.. ask her for some coffee.. I mean come on.. it's just coffee.. and if she says no.. big deal..

I just wish I had the mustang fixed, b/c cruising around in a 90 accord, isn't my ideal idea.. (like that didn't ya?) I mean, it's better than nothing, I should like it.. but I am too in to cars to settle for a honda.. LOL

I would ask if she had a lunch or break coming up soon, then ask if you could join her. If she says yes to that, talk for a while until she has to return to work, and get her number.

Dude, I've gotten numbers from cashier girls for OTHER people while waiting in line. Freakin' just do it.

Why ask for an opinion when you can go and try it out yourself?

Oh, and don't forget bachleor's motto #4: if you don't get turned down at least 4 times a day, you're not REALLY trying . . .

Originally posted by D Durden
Oh, and don't forget bachleor's motto #4: if you don't get turned down at least 4 times a day, you're not REALLY trying . . .

LMAO.. now you have to tell me the other mottos...

Single Men's Creedo's and Wisdom (if you can call it wisdom). Also note RIGHT NOW that I am NOT a single man (and these do NOT apply to me!!!! anymore!!! :D) . . . I'm simply relating these tidbits to the younger men on the board.

#1 There's ALWAYS a way in . . . always.

#2 It doesn't matter if you get two tomorrow, you're always one behind.

#3 Her roommate is ALWAYS prettier . . . and likes to wear loose boxer shorts, a bra, and full make-up when you visit. And she's ALWAYS talking about how she wishes she could find a guy who would let her live out her bondage fantasies of being a captured slave. It doesn't matter . . . stick with the one you have. She's full of shit and is probably a virgin (see American Beauty).

#5 One in a bush is better than two hands on your bird.

#6 Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, sometimes it rains . . . but NEVER quit playing.

#7 If you have to act like something you're not in order to feel comfortable around them, then, odds are, you're not going to get laid, anyway. Why bother?

#8 Always play the long shot and not the sure thing i.e. always go after a girl you have even the SLIGHTEST shot at instead of the girl there no chance in HELL of bagging.

#9 The ONLY way to win at craps is to roll the dice. People watching NEVER win and always seem to bitch because they never COULD win. Apply that to women.

#10 People that make fun of you for getting shot down will probably be masturbating later that evening.

#11 A crappy car beats walking ANYTIME. (Take a minute or two and let that sink in . . . )

#12 Love ALL women . . . even the ugly ones. They make the pretty ones THAT MUCH prettier.

#13 Golden Rule: Friends don't get laid.

#14 Women go to friends for consolation and strangers for sex.

#15 As the great prophet Nugent said: "When in doubt, whip it out." That can be applied on many levels.

#16 Real men don't worry if their woman has an orgasm or not. If she's not a good enough lover to get off in 32 seconds like us, she doesn't DESERVE to have one.

#17 Real men aren't afraid to venture down south . . . if you know what I mean . . . especially if you can still see the TV between her tits. It makes for wonderful Sunday game days . . . . for everyone.

#18 If it's good to you, it's good for you.

#19 Whatever you have, she's had a boyfriend with one bigger, flashier, and more expensive . . . and she liked it a lot better than yours. Don't bother even mentioning it.

#20 Odds are the woman you're after is NOT looking for a guy like you, or she'd already be with you. She's looking for the kind of guy you absolutely hate. Use this to your advantage in easing your concious for leaving her in the morning sticky, broke, and confused.

#21 No matter what, her friends DON'T like you. They MAY want to sleep with you, but they DON'T like you. And they really won't like you after you sleep with them because they don't want their friend going out with a cheater. Notice this means two things: a) They're going to hate you regardless and b) you have nothing to lose by sleeping with them.

#22 Women go through 3 major changes in life: 19 (I'm an adult now and need to AT LEAST start looking like one), 25-28 (you know, I really miss being 18 and partying . . . I wonder if I can squeeze into that size 2 dress on my way to get a tattoo), and 50 something (WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED!?). If you choose a long term mate, it's BEST to find one RIGHT AFTER these periods.

#23 Women enjoy sex JUST AS MUCH AS MEN DO (generally). They just feel guilty about it in the morning. Don't question this . . . it is the way of things.

#24 Women want to make love RIGHT when you go to bed (especially when men are exhausted) and men want to have sex RIGHT when we wake up (when women are their grumpiest). Proof that God has a sense of humor. The only fix is to make love at BOTH times without exception. Explain the logic to this to your woman.

#25 You can argue over the phone. You can't have sex that way. Remember that during any heated late night discussions an hour or so before little Missy has to be home.

#26 At any one time you will only have ONE sexual experience with a partner that's better than a past masturbation session. Without a doubt, no matter WHAT wild sexual fantasy comes true, you'll figure a way to make it even more erotic if left alone with your . . . thoughts. Refer to some of the cloning threads here for ideas.

#27 She will ALWAYS have an incredibly hot older sister, aunt, or something who you KNOW has the hots for you. Don't bother. She doesn't . . . but you're free to have her the next time you're all by yourself. Remember, she doesn't even have to be there to enjoy it. It's her loss, not yours.

#28 Confushus say: Flingy Dingy . . . Flingy Dingy . . . You must not flingy dingy 'less you have dingy to flingy i.e. don't rev your engine unless you wanna' race. Refer to #6 after the race.

#29 Men get laid when they can, and women get laid when they WANT to. Before you get arrogant in your sexual skills, go into a bar, look at the ugliest girl there and remember "there's some idiot here who's drunk or desperate enough to screw her". Then, ask yourself is there a woman there for you.

#30 With regards to picking a sexual partner, it's the very opposite of Christmas. The packaging is usually MUCH more important than how nice the surprise is.

#31 When evaluating a woman, don't be over-critical about little imperfections. Remember, if you were the only man left in the world, and you had the choice between a 2001 Mercedes 4013-i Lemans Coupe and a primer grey '75 Nova with a supercharged big block, 4.11:1 gears, and one tire all the way across the back end, which car would you drive? Take the fun one . . . afterall, who are you trying to impress?

#32 Big tits, a great smile, and curves like Lemans does not make a bitch less of a bitch. It just makes calling her a bitch to her face more pleasurable. There's nothing more annoying than having to look at an ugly woman AND insult her.

#33 Don't be an emotional tampon. If you don't believe me, ask what happens when a woman is done with one. That's not always a metaphor for what's going to happen to you.

#34 You're best friend WILL **** her. If he won't, he's either gay, she's ugly, or he's already ****ed her . . . and she wasn't that good. This is almost a universal truth.

#35 There are only 2 types of women in the world: Women you've slept with, and women you haven't slept with . . . yet.

#36 Women don't care what you think about how they look. They ONLY go to their worst enemy for fashion and beauty tips. It's a waste of time to brag about how well she looks in the short red dress. You're much better off telling her worst enemy how much you HATE the dress. The rest will take care of itself.

#37 Don't drive your favorite car everyday. It becomes average.

#38 If she'll **** you, she'll **** ANYONE . . . wear a condom.

#39 Girls DO kiss and tell . . . make sure you have good references.

These are a few little ideas and truths you'll find are almost universally applicable to women under 35. After that, they get sensible, compassionate, logical, and appreciative of good men . . . so you have to change your whole approach! LOL!

Best. Post. Ever.

anyways, just to fill you in.. yeah it can be done.. I went out with a group of about 5 guys last night, and one dude got some chicks phone number.. I asked him how he did it, he was like, just go talk to them.. he pointed a girl out at a local bookstore, and said.. she has been glancing at you since you walked in, and didn't notice..

so I went up to her talked to her for about 25 min. and loved her to death.. she is actually older than I thought (27).. and get this.. SHE ACTUALLY KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS!!! so yeah, found out she works with a guy I know there, and she wants to go see some new movie... which we probably will tomorrow..

anyways.. yeah me.. :) it's not that difficult..

You have done well:) I will have to speak to Durden & Jwreck. Perhaps we can officially approve you as an apprentice Jedi at this point:D

I was gitty as shit when I heard she was 27.. and she knows adsactly what she wants.. left me feelig a bit nervous when i asked her out.. so I took a chances and she was very cool about it..

my friends tried to make fun of me by saying I could of got turned down.. but I gave him the "if you don't get turned down 4 times a night, your not trying" and I told him to think about that the next time he is masterbating..

plus i went out with a pretty nice girl tonight who is just a friend though.. but hey it was cool

Originally posted by Wedge4876
my friends tried to make fun of me by saying I could of got turned down.. but I gave him the "if you don't get turned down 4 times a night, your not trying" and I told him to think about that the next time he is masterbating..

Durden will be SO proud of you... LOL!

He may even make you his own personal bitc... uh apprentice after that, LMAO!

hey I actually sound like I know what I am talking about when I use his lines.. but of coarse some girl found out that I knew them.. so now she wants to know what I know..

Time to go study at the feet of your master, boy! LOL!

HEY DAVE!!! Where you hiding bub?

Congrats, there is hope for you yet!! The force grows in you!!(now you need to make it grow in her!!LOL) Two things, if a woman tells you she knows what she wants, 90% of the time she's lying. The other 10% of the time she's just wrong!! but of coarse some girl found out that I knew them.. so now she wants to know what I know. Never share secrets with the enemy! They can render even the strongest Jedi mind tricks useless! Isn't it amazing what can happen when you open your mouth!!:D

I'm not sure our young Padiwan's perceptions have broadened enough for that level of truth/consciousnes yet, Jwreck:D

well see.. the girl that knows I know how to play girls.. she wants to see what i know.. but part of the game is not telling her, and leading her along.. :)

anyways, that girl turned out to be dumb.. she says now she is seeing someone, so I am leaving that along.. but hey, I did give a girl my phone number today.. so it's all good.. (the one today was way cutier anyways)

Originally posted by Wedge4876
. but hey, I did give a girl my phone number today.. so it's all good.. (the one today was way cutier anyways) Uh... maybe you're not learning as well as I thought, the idea is to get her number!! LOL At least you're moving in the right direction.;) Just keep stickin and movin and you'll eventually score a knockout!!

Originally posted by jwreck
Uh... maybe you're not learning as well as I thought, the idea is to get her number!! LOL At least you're moving in the right direction.;) Just keep stickin and movin and you'll eventually score a knockout!!

actually she already called, so that's a big plus.. I can't say enough that she was hot as ****.. I mean damn.. she sound so cool on the phone... all like wanting to go out and get to know each other.. she invited me over tomorrow to her appartment behind the mall.. so I we will see what that has intell... :D:D:D

can't wait.. thanks to all those who pushed me to fine this girl.. even though it maybe just infatuation.. she is incredible.. I have talked to her before working, but never quite made the move.. well it paid off.. thanks again..

so does nobody want to hear about my date??? I thought you guys were pulling for me?? :D

So spill it.

I will continue this post in the mourning.. it's kinda lengthy, and I have nothing to do tomorrow at work.. that and I am no sleep.. but anyways..

/me kicks back and awaits the 'drama' of Wedgies' date.. I bet mine was more eventful... :p

Originally posted by Princess
/me kicks back and awaits the 'drama' of Wedgies' date.. I bet mine was more eventful... :p

oh yeah I was suppose to tell you guys wasn't I.. well you can tell your date while I type mine out.. :)

ok here it goes..

first off a little background.. she works a local restaurant that all my friends and I go to, probably more than any other restaurant.. anyways, me and my friend brad go there to eat sunday night.. she comes up to the table and said "hey my name is... oh hey, I haven't seen you in here for a while.. *wink*" "but you are usually with that girl..".. my friend asked which one.. and she asked if I was still seeing her, I said no, and she gives me the puppy dog look.. anyways, she is flirting with me like crazy the whole time.. refilling my lemonaid when it's still full.. the whole nine yards..

so she gives us the ticket, and I write my cell phone on it.. I was going to talk to her, but she didn't come back to the table for a while.. they got really busy.. anyways, a couple hours later she called, and I told her I would call her back when I got home.. so we talk, and she tells me that she always wanted a guy like me, b/c she noticed that I always paid for dinner and I tipped more than most people..

anyways, we do some small talk for about an hour, and I was kinda gitty about it.. and she asked me what I was doing tomorrow (which was monday night) I said I didn't have plans, and she invited me over to her apartment.. so after work, I came home got ready and was off to see her.. and I picked up a dozen roses (all girls say "awwww").. yeah I thought it was a bit much, and she might have gotten the wrong idea.. but anyways.. :)

she is all happy putting her flowers in her little vase and so on.. and out walks her room mate.. and yes durden you were right.. the room mate is always hotter with no bra and baggy boxers.. lol and I talk to her for a bit.. anyways, we ate some speggitti (sp) that she almost burnt, but of coarse you have to say it was wonderful.. :)

so the three of us sit down and watch a movie.. and yes.. it's fate.. it's roadtrip.. I am over there trying not to laugh when that guy (before tam changed my avatar) came on.. her roommate looks over and says.. "you know what?" I got so embarrassed.. she didn't even finish it, they both busted out laughing.. ahh.. but it was good.. her room mate then goes on to bed..

we sit there and talk for about 2 hours, and she starts rubbing up to me.. not sexual, more the "just want to be held" kind of thing.. we didn't even bother watching tv.. anyways, I tell her that it's after 1am and I need to get going.. she gives me this puppy dog look and says "ok".. walks me to the door, and begins too look upset.. I asked "what's wrong" with a response.. "oh nothing" I said "I am not leaving till you tell me".. she then starts crying, and I came back inside.. she starts balling pretty hard, saying she doesn't want to be alone tonight.. at this point I am confused.. this girl can't like me that much.. all I have done is pretty much listen to her.. so we sit for about 20 min. talking and she asked if I really had to leave.. I said no.. my dad and sister weren't going to be home.. she begins to smile and asked if I wanted to stay over.. at this point, I am nervous as hell, but manage to squeeze out a "sure" :)

so she goes and takes a shower.. and I get cumphy on the sofa.. she comes back out.. and laughs.. she said when she wanted me to stay, she didn't want me on the couch.. .. ...

I think to myself.. "hot damn" and go get in her cumphy bed with her.. we sat there in the dark and talked till 4am.. and yeah.. I had to go to work the next mourning.. we just talked about everything.. and that's what I miss, getting to know a girl..

anyways, I woke up and picked us some donuts and came back to wake her up.. I ended up being late for work, and some important meeting.. ahh.. who cares.. it was worth it.. :)

best. date. ever. lol ;)

wedge i am so happy for you! you may have some good luck before this year is out!

I am not really pushing anything, I think that's best..

thanks for being happy for me.. only time will tell.. :)

and yes 2001 was the year I was suppose to get laid... last years new year's resolution.. :)

you know when my friends asked me what i was giving up for lent i jokingly said sex. they held me to it :) anyway it turned out i didn't have sex for a year and a half (way past lent) and i didn't miss it! of course i was having sex when i was 16 and therefor it was childish with very immature boys so that is probably why i didn't miss it

what are you talking about??? lent??

You wouln't understand Wedge... It's a Catholic thing. (Used to be one)

Anyway, it certainly looks like things are going your way... Well, your psycho ex g/f's loss is this new chick's gain;)

oh yes, now I remember.. like you were suppose to give up a bad habbit or something.. one of my friends did that..

yeah, well, you konw what they say.. girls don't make you happy.. I have alot of stuff to work out in my life to fix before I start thinking about anything to do with any girl..

Originally posted by Wedge4876
before I start thinking about anything to do with any girl.. If you can't think of anything to do with a girl you definitely have problems!! Theres books with pictures if you need ideas.;) LOL

Yeah, now you remember, LOL!:)

BTW, seems to me you got most of the 'issues' worked out when you cut lose the psychotic 'dead weight':D This one seems like a nice girl. Go for it;)

Originally posted by jwreck
If you can't think of anything to do with a girl you definitely have problems!! Theres books with pictures if you need ideas.;) LOL

actually I think I got a couple of those.. either that or kaley still has them..

damn that was alot of fun.. :)

"let's try this... " LOL

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Yeah, now you remember, LOL!:)

BTW, seems to me you got most of the 'issues' worked out when you cut lose the psychotic 'dead weight':D This one seems like a nice girl. Go for it;)

yes she is a nice girl, more open then most girls, and she actually has an idea of what she wants.. of coarse I don't really feel like throwing myself at her, but it's just the way I am.. it's cool, and I enjoyed myself.. doesn't it feel great to be free... :)

are you hinting at something with your 'dead weight'... I am not fat... LOL

Originally posted by Wedge4876
ok for the last couple weeks, this has happened more than once.. I will be at the mall or whatnot and about to purchase something.. when I go to pay there is really cute (not extremely hot) but nice looking cute girl that checks me out.. my question is, is it possible to actually get a girl's phone number or whatever in the two and a half minutes that I can talk to her.. I guess this goes back to my previous post, b/c friends of mine say afterwards, yeah you could of had her... like there was this one girl last night.. I am not saying where I was, but I was still crushing over this on my drive home.. so do people actually do that, pick up a girl while she is "checking you out"??

PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO DO IT!!! lol.. just kidding.. it can't be that difficult:p ;) :D :rolleyes:
While I have never been successful picking up chicks like that (but then I am really horrible looking anyway) I would suggest that you make it a point to see that girl again, maybe at a time when she is not busy and you can have a few words. You might make two or more visits before asking her out.

Originally posted by Criminal

While I have never been successful picking up chicks like that (but then I am really horrible looking anyway) I would suggest that you make it a point to see that girl again, maybe at a time when she is not busy and you can have a few words. You might make two or more visits before asking her out.

hey man, yeah I am actually getting better at this whole flirting thing.. it feels it's like all I ever do, and girls somehow seem to love it..

anyways, I will probably go back and talk to her tonight or tomorrow, but she was probably the first girl that I have been attracted to in a while.. but then again, it ain't that difficult, all you got to do is ask..

yeah I thought I was disgusedingly ugly too, but then again, I have to end up with somebody.. :)

Originally posted by Wedge4876


hey man, yeah I am actually getting better at this whole flirting thing.. it feels it's like all I ever do, and girls somehow seem to love it..

anyways, I will probably go back and talk to her tonight or tomorrow, but she was probably the first girl that I have been attracted to in a while.. but then again, it ain't that difficult, all you got to do is ask..

yeah I thought I was disgusedingly ugly too, but then again, I have to end up with somebody.. :) Our little boy is growing up (wipes tear from eye) :sniff:

Originally posted by jwreck
Our little boy is growing up (wipes tear from eye) :sniff:

thanks dad..

actually it was funny b/c I was just casually talking to some hot chick the other day and told her that my name was alan and she said I looked familiar.. then she just jumps out.. "you dated stacy didn't you?" I was like.. oh crap.. "yeah we dated".. then she starts up.. "I just want to tell you that she is the biggest b*tch that ever walked the face of the earth, she had such a good thing with you, you tried so much with her, and she didn't.. blah blah blah.."

I was shocked to say the least and at end she said "if I had a guy like you, I would treat him alot better, she just didn't know what she had.." which made it a whole hell of alot easier to get her number and stuff..

man that was a good day.. :)

Originally posted by Wedge4876


yes she is a nice girl, more open then most girls, and she actually has an idea of what she wants.. of coarse I don't really feel like throwing myself at her, but it's just the way I am.. it's cool, and I enjoyed myself.. doesn't it feel great to be free... :)



Well thats the key. Now you can cross over into the parallel world where magic still exists and life's worth living. It feels better to be doing something exciting for a change as opposed to the monotony of staring into a computer yea?

Originally posted by CodyChaos


Well thats the key. Now you can cross over into the parallel world where magic still exists and life's worth living. It feels better to be doing something exciting for a change as opposed to the monotony of staring into a computer yea?

yeah it's a nice life.. getting paid to post on here all day, then go out and meet girls at night.. not too shabby..

Well, what's the scoop here? No update in a couple of days and you've been pretty quiet on AIM too...

Spend all your time getting laid now or something??? :D

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Well, what's the scoop here? No update in a couple of days and you've been pretty quiet on AIM too...

Spend all your time getting laid now or something??? :D

/struts back into thread.. welp welp.. this girl seemed to be a bit more phsyco then I thought.. as you can tell by her wanting for me to spend the night the first time we went out, she has some depend issues..

this weekend wasn't so bad, I haven't really had time for this chick or any others.. I really wanted to seperate myself from females all together, mostly b/c of christmas, and I don't want to get all upset at christmas not having anybody.. I am abit confused on what I should do with girls in general at the present time..

Originally posted by Wedge4876


/struts back into thread.. welp welp.. this girl seemed to be a bit more phsyco then I thought.. as you can tell by her wanting for me to spend the night the first time we went out, she has some depend issues..

this weekend wasn't so bad, I haven't really had time for this chick or any others.. I really wanted to seperate myself from females all together, mostly b/c of christmas, and I don't want to get all upset at christmas not having anybody.. I am abit confused on what I should do with girls in general at the present time.. Any girl that turns on the water works and just wants to be held on the first nightis gonna have some issues.

Originally posted by jwreck
Any girl that turns on the water works and just wants to be held on the first nightis gonna have some issues.

I am beginning to think they all have issues..

I think she had some things in the closest that she didn't want to share.. I guess that's what having a relationship is all about.. telling secrets to the person you are with, to see if they run off or not.. after awhile you will either run out of secrets and end up with that person, or be with that person and create more..

I swear, as much listening I have done to girls, I really truly don't believe that any of her or my friends mean to do bad things.. she did, but she regrets it, and she wants someone to accept her the way she is.. all the bad stuff out in the open.. which is commendable, b/c most girls hide secrets.. I talked to her this weekend some, but she is always busy with work and stuff, and I am sure she has her life outside of me.. well it was an experience.. I am just sick of being an ear for girls to tell about all there bad xbfs... they don't appriciate it, so I ain't doing it..

if you notice my other thread, I am sick of girls at the moment..

Originally posted by Wedge4876


I am beginning to think they all have issues..

I think she had some things in the closest that she didn't want to share.. I guess that's what having a relationship is all about.. telling secrets to the person you are with, to see if they run off or not.. after awhile you will either run out of secrets and end up with that person, or be with that person and create more..

I swear, as much listening I have done to girls, I really truly don't believe that any of her or my friends mean to do bad things.. she did, but she regrets it, and she wants someone to accept her the way she is.. all the bad stuff out in the open.. which is commendable, b/c most girls hide secrets.. I talked to her this weekend some, but she is always busy with work and stuff, and I am sure she has her life outside of me.. well it was an experience.. I am just sick of being an ear for girls to tell about all there bad xbfs... they don't appriciate it, so I ain't doing it..

if you notice my other thread, I am sick of girls at the moment..

I just wanted to say, that after rereading that post, it made no sense.. maybe you can try to understand what I am trying to say.. it made more sense in my head, ok? :)

Originally posted by Wedge4876


I just wanted to say, that after rereading that post, it made no sense.. maybe you can try to understand what I am trying to say.. it made more sense in my head, ok? :) Believe it or not I think I understood it. You certainly shouldn't feel bad about not wanting to be everyones shoulder to cry on. And yes, I also think they all have issues. Women are crazy. Wonder where Dave is to come tell you not to be a tampon? That cracks me up.

Can I get yet another 'Hell Yeah!!!' here? That's my first New Year's resolution myself actually. No more ****ing door mat for me! I'm tired of being walked all over. Looks like we both arrived at this lesson about the same time Wedge.:)

If I find somebody out there worth a damned, great. Otherwise I could care less anymore about them and their problems. There's more peace & quiet w/o 'em anyway.

I swear I think I am just going to become a big flirt, b/c that's all gilrs seem to like.. that's my new years resolution.. more outgoing.. I think I will like it once I start, I am just nervous about what people will think.. guess I can't help what others think

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Can I get yet another 'Hell Yeah!!!' here? That's my first New Year's resolution myself actually. No more ****ing door mat for me! I'm tired of being walked all over. Looks like we both arrived at this lesson about the same time Wedge.:)

If I find somebody out there worth a damned, great. Otherwise I could care less anymore about them and their problems. There's more peace & quiet w/o 'em anyway. Besides, there's always DA if you fell the need to hear other peoples problems.;)

Originally posted by Wedge4876
I swear I think I am just going to become a big flirt, b/c that's all gilrs seem to like.. that's my new years resolution.. more outgoing.. I think I will like it once I start, I am just nervous about what people will think.. guess I can't help what others think Hell yeah. Just have fun with them. Do yu really care what some chic you don't even know thinks of you?

Right on both accounts J...

Save the problems for DA, at least there it's ok to laugh at them, LMAO!

Wedge, he's right with you too. Who gives a flying fark what she thinks if you don't even know her. This falls into a sub-category of Durden's 4 times a day rule. It also lets you know ahead of time if she's to big a shit to hit on in the first place.:D

Originally posted by jwreck
Hell yeah. Just have fun with them. Do yu really care what some chic you don't even know thinks of you?

yes, and that's my problem.. as soon as I correct that, I will be on my way..

but things are kinda looking up for me now.. so it's all good

Originally posted by Wedge4876


yes, and that's my problem.. as soon as I correct that, I will be on my way..

but things are kinda looking up for me now.. so it's all good

You don't know how right you are there, kid:) If you worry about what they think about you, they take it as lack of confidence & you get run over like Frogger in the middle of a super speedway:D Dsiplay some confidence and you'll continue to keep things rolling your way. Just don't get conceited, LOL!

to comment on my cool post once again.. I am going to say that I have learned that everytime I find a girl that I am really attracted to, and I sit around to see if she likes me, it never works out..

I am afraid of being rejected, like that girl that I am infatuated with will be my last shot, but it couldn't be further from the truth.. the second I see that it's not going to work out between me and the girl I am attracted to.. I somehow always find another one that I find myself tripping over my tongue to see her.. :)

I guess that gives me confidence.. since I have been "single" I have figured out alot of stuff in my life.. and I guess that was the whole reason for being single in the first place.. :)