I think I have figured guys out. They want you till you want them. Then when they know they have you hooked they don't care. I have been dating a guy for a few months now and it has been great. He has been the best guy in the world to me. But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move. Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?

Good Post..I shall await an answer myself..

Maybe it's just that guy. We're not all evil..

Im trying to understand your vauge post.

"They want you till you want them"

First off, guys will let a girl know if they are interested or not. But guys will only try so hard before they move on. And sometimes when a guy moves on, that is when a girl shows interest.

"But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move."

How old are you? And why do you need a serious relationship? And why did he have to make the move?

"Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?"

How is he different?

OK girls, here the mystery solved, What do men want? ......






















oral sex! ALL THE TIME!!! ok, maybe that's just me.;)

Actually, I have been "that guy" to an extent. I guess its because we figure out somehow that there is a battle for you with every other male in the area, and once we win, there's really no more challenge involved. I used to be fun, flirt, and acted younger when I wasn't a total item with the wife, now I'm almost miserable and morbid with her. I can't really do anything about it because she has been supporting my ass everytime I fell on it, but I have to find something in her to rekindle the fire.

Originally posted by AmandaStanley21
I think I have figured guys out. They want you till you want them. Then when they know they have you hooked they don't care. I have been dating a guy for a few months now and it has been great. He has been the best guy in the world to me. But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move. Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?

Because no self respecting studly dude wants an exclusive relationship. We only agree to them begrudgingly and even then its only for the sex.


In other news...
I have the cutest girlfriend EVER! :D

Originally posted by slayr420
Actually, I have been "that guy" to an extent. I guess its because we figure out somehow that there is a battle for you with every other male in the area, and once we win, there's really no more challenge involved. I used to be fun, flirt, and acted younger when I wasn't a total item with the wife, now I'm almost miserable and morbid with her. I can't really do anything about it because she has been supporting my ass everytime I fell on it, but I have to find something in her to rekindle the fire.

I think that is a pretty good analysis. I think we've all been there, and hell girls do it too. Before he was probably trying to impress you more, to win you over, and now he feels more comfortable (though it is amazing how fast the change happened!) I find myself, after being with my gal for well over a year that things are a bit more 'relaxed' and the nature of the relationship is different than when we first started going out and even before that. I think the key is to be able to talk about those things. Make sure he knows how you feel.

If your emotions and connection is strong enough to have a serious/exclusive relationship with him, you should be able to approach one another with anything.

Originally posted by CodyChaos
I have the cutest girlfriend EVER! :D

Hahaha, dude, last night at Olvera street, she said the EXACT SAME THING about you! That's so damn funny.

Originally posted by AmandaStanley21
I think I have figured guys out. They want you till you want them. Then when they know they have you hooked they don't care. I have been dating a guy for a few months now and it has been great. He has been the best guy in the world to me. But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move. Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?

so did you expect him to act the same once he is in a realtionship?? you say he is been the best guy in the world to you.. but now he is supposively totally different.. how??

Originally posted by CodyChaos


Because no self respecting studly dude wants an exclusive relationship. We only agree to them begrudgingly and even then its only for the sex.


In other news...
I have the cutest girlfriend EVER! :D

Okay, so should I dump you for this statement or look the other way because you kiss ass at the end of it?

And just for the record, I have not had a gun to your head keeping you in this exclusive relationship for the past six months...
;)

Originally posted by Guitarophile


Hahaha, dude, last night at Olvera street, she said the EXACT SAME THING about you! That's so damn funny.

It's true though. He really is the cutest boy ever, and sometimes I just have to brag about it.

Originally posted by Allegra


It's true though. He really is the cutest boy ever, and sometimes I just have to brag about it.

you people make me sick...

i'm gonna have to go with on that one wedge :)

of course i am guilty of bragging how cute my loved one is but since he has made me mad i'm biting my tongue :mad:

Originally posted by rearrange
i'm gonna have to go with on that one wedge :)

of course i am guilty of bragging how cute my loved one is but since he has made me mad i'm biting my tongue :mad:

my loved ones are just that... "LOVED".. as in past tense.. LOL

there is always someone better that might pay you a bit of attention.. the key is knowing what you got..

yeah me and my big room to talk.. :D:D

Originally posted by Wedge4876


you people make me sick...


I agree...I just pulled a Cody and puked all over the keyboard.

My creedo.

Just blow me and then go away.

Originally posted by Aphasia



I agree...I just pulled a Cody and puked all over the keyboard.
LOL:p

I believe Guitarophile and I decided at Olvera street that Cody was "Devilishly Handsome" and Allegra here started bouncing and kicking her feet in gidy joy...

It was pretty sick.

Originally posted by DaOgre
I believe Guitarophile and I decided at Olvera street that Cody was "Devilishly Handsome" and Allegra here started bouncing and kicking her feet in gidy joy...

It was pretty sick.

Our exact words, yes. Though I admit I'd heard him described as such back in the EMV days, so it's not entirely an original quote.

Originally posted by Allegra


Okay, so should I dump you for this statement or look the other way because you kiss ass at the end of it?

And just for the record, I have not had a gun to your head keeping you in this exclusive relationship for the past six months...
;)


Its too much work to go out a find a new source of sex. Am I right cody?

And for the record, I think allegra is pretty cute too.

Originally posted by Contraband



Its too much work to go out a find a new source of sex. Am I right cody?

And for the record, I think allegra is pretty cute too.

Hah! Right back at you Avi.

Chris, what are the EMV days?

And Cody, I would think very carefully before answering Avi's question... ;)

Cody -

Thats what private messages were invented for.

::wink, wink::

Originally posted by Allegra

Chris, what are the EMV days?


EMV was EnterMyVortex.com, a comedy site run by Manu and Nathan. That's where I met this rag-tag bunch of social misfits in the first place. Actually, the first face-to-face meeting was St. Patrick's Day, a memory rife with green alcohol and the most vomiting ever done in a single toilet at once. Hallelujah!

ok maybe I was reading him wrong, or maybe it is me. But see for the past few months he has been around all the time and constantley told me how much he cared about me. Then last night he didn't want to have anything to do with me and now he won't return my calls. That is a little immature, I mean if he doesn't want to see me or if this was a "game" to him then he just needs to tell me and I will go my own way. I am not that attached to him. But I do care about him and I wanted to make this work. Maybe that is the problem, you can't just make something work.

Originally posted by Guitarophile


EMV was EnterMyVortex.com, a comedy site run by Manu and Nathan. That's where I met this rag-tag bunch of social misfits in the first place. Actually, the first face-to-face meeting was St. Patrick's Day, a memory rife with green alcohol and the most vomiting ever done in a single toilet at once. Hallelujah!

Amen!

Originally posted by AmandaStanley21
ok maybe I was reading him wrong, or maybe it is me. But see for the past few months he has been around all the time and constantley told me how much he cared about me. Then last night he didn't want to have anything to do with me and now he won't return my calls. That is a little immature, I mean if he doesn't want to see me or if this was a "game" to him then he just needs to tell me and I will go my own way. I am not that attached to him. But I do care about him and I wanted to make this work. Maybe that is the problem, you can't just make something work.

hmm... predicument.. but a bit fickled..
ever thought of it this way.. you say for the past few months he has been around all the time and he is constantley told you how much he cared about you... well how many times have you let him know that he is cared about?? being a guy.. I know one thing.. unless you are straight out forward eye-to-eye tell him that you care about him, it doesn't count.. but, you say you do care about him... he has to know this.. how old is this guy? and how long have you known him?

I will just put it this way, if you ain't happy, cut bait and get out.. you say in your quote above, that you aren't "that" attached him, but then you say want to make it work.. well then it should be easy.. unless your like every other female I have met (no offense) that just want the guy to like her..

are you staying with him because its better than being alone? if you aren't attached and its been a few months then leaving now is better then leaving later when you are attached. and trust me he's not gonna suddenly pop his head out of his ass because he realizes he's being a jerk..nah he'll keep being the way he is.

hey now.. just like you girls point the fingers at the guy first thing.. "he will never change" "it's his fault for not calling me" well you say he hasn't returned your calls.. hmm... that means you haven't talked to him.. but atleast your trying.. I don't know, sounds messed up.. we need a bit more background please..

Originally posted by AmandaStanley21
I think I have figured guys out. They want you till you want them. Then when they know they have you hooked they don't care. I have been dating a guy for a few months now and it has been great. He has been the best guy in the world to me. But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move. Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?

your problem is that the man you are seeing is what we in the professional world refer to as a "crack head." you will probably notice an abundance of him rubbing his nose, and a lot of white powder around various surfaces in his house. a large collection of straws is also a dead give-away.
now, i'll let you in on a little secret. one of the best ways to deal with this kind of a problem is hiding behind other drugs and alcohol. for example, with a nice hit of LSD, you won't notice the walls or the roof, let alone his indifference! and with enough alcohol, you'll find yourself less vulnerable to being hurt!
go ahead and try it! Dr Laura approves!

Originally posted by Dr.Laura


your problem is that the man you are seeing is what we in the professional world refer to as a "crack head." you will probably notice an abundance of him rubbing his nose, and a lot of white powder around various surfaces in his house. a large collection of straws is also a dead give-away.
now, i'll let you in on a little secret. one of the best ways to deal with this kind of a problem is hiding behind other drugs and alcohol. for example, with a nice hit of LSD, you won't notice the walls or the roof, let alone his indifference! and with enough alcohol, you'll find yourself less vulnerable to being hurt!
go ahead and try it! Dr Laura approves!


LOL... crackhead... that's great.. you made me laugh this mourning

Yeah. I'm in a particularly foul mood this Christmas Eve, so let me start by saying I agree with Wedge 100% here. I've busted my ass with all three girls I've ever tried to have a serious relationship with and all it got me was taken for granted and shit on. Take a look at my "When is Enough Finally Enough" thread in this forum for the flip side of "it's always the guy's fault".

With my wife, and the other two girls I cared about at one point, I begged all three of them to talk to me about whatever may have been bothering them at the time. I got the usual girl "Oh nothing" BS, anger if I pushed the issue & passive-aggressive bullshit if I backed off. TOTAL no win situation in all three cases.

Quite simply guys don't often like to get close or admit feelings because it FAR too often leads to what happened to me. THen you end up creating the very thing you claim to despise, the dreaded player, you burn the guy out on relationships completely (like I am now), or if you really **** him over good enough, other guys start looking good to him instead! :eek: LMAO!

Wedge is also right that we don't have enough info to make an accurate judgement in your case. Knowing girls the way I do though, the fact that you're NOT forthcoming with said details lets me know you're hiding SOMETHING. Despite my tirade here, relationships are a two way street & normally fail due to crap from BOTH sides of the street. SO what's the scoop gal? We can't help w/o all the facts.

BTw, for a nicer breakdown of my good guys gone bad rant, se Princess's 'playa playa' thread SOMEWHERE in this same forum:)

ahem.. shadow?

amandastanley is stacy, and she only posted on here to make me insanly jealous:rolleyes: that she is with her new ricer bf.. so that pretty much said, hope that answers your questions.. she ain't going to post

Well either way the rant did me good :mad: Maybe the lil bitch will sneak back around, read it and learn something, (FAT chance on the learn part). Oh well:D

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
Well either way the rant did me good :mad: Maybe the lil bitch will sneak back around, read it and learn something, (FAT chance on the learn part). Oh well:D

you forget, we have absolutely no lives, and she has the biggest life in the world.. /end sarcasm

I don't think she wants to come back in here because we would tear her a new ass hole.. :D even without durden..

oh well, it's time to kill this thread.. I never liked it anyways..

Originally posted by AmandaStanley21
I think I have figured guys out. They want you till you want them. Then when they know they have you hooked they don't care. I have been dating a guy for a few months now and it has been great. He has been the best guy in the world to me. But then on Saturday night we decided to make it serious and only be with each other. I was so happy cause I had decided to wait till he made the move. Well, now that we are "together" he is totally different. Why is this guys?


Short answer: we are not all like this
Long answer: this is caused by immaturity. I have no problem being with one girl and treating her like a princess even after agreeing to commitment. that is just me. get an older guy, or one that acts older.

Originally posted by srosner



Short answer: we are not all like this
Long answer: this is caused by immaturity. I have no problem being with one girl and treating her like a princess even after agreeing to commitment. that is just me. get an older guy, or one that acts older.

agreed....

I guess your answering this as if she meant to come on here with a problem and not to try to make me jealous.. :)

anyways, I just wanted to add something to your long answer.. and that is I don't mind doing that.. if it's the right girl at the right time.. but one thing I have learned for certain.. I will not put effort or emotions into a relationship if the girl I am with doesn't appreciate it.. she doesn't even have to try that much.. just as long as she knows what she is got..