I really ****ing hate it when someone accepts and apology but stays mad. If you're mad tell me. If you're not mad, move on, its over.

I do not want to trivialize someone's emotions, but don't ****ing accpet my apology if you're not going to move on. Tell me you're pissed or upset and lets talk about it so we can move on.

I ****ing hate it when people are not straight forward with one another.

What are you trying to say, Manu?

Originally posted by D Durden
What are you trying to say, Manu?

Dave, I said im sorry. You said okay. But you're STILL mad I didn't give you that reacharound...:confused:

Can I get the biggest damned "HELL YEAH!" ever?

I know too many people that hold grudges after accepting apologies. It's petty & childish to me. It there's still stuff to work out, then be an adult and let's resolve it. And if something's wrong and I try to ask about it, I just HATE when I get told nothing and it grows into a major problem cause the other person wouldn't say anything!!!:mad:

My ex-g/f was the world's best at both those stupid little games. All that above doesn't mean you can't use a little tact and diplomacy in dealing with it, but for gawd sakes do away with the friggin games!!!

My current GF uses the nothing line a lot. I think oftentimes it is semi true, in that she is feeling a lot of emotions and having a lot of thoguhts and having trouble sorting them out...

But I ask whats wrong and get nothing...now I know to know SOMETHING she just doesn't know what...

That is more frustrating than something that pisses me off...

But when people say nothing but they mean SOMETHING specific, that pisses the hell out of me.

Originally posted by Manu

But when people say nothing but they mean SOMETHING specific, that pisses the hell out of me.

hell yeah dude.. I hear ya.. when they try to be cute and throw in there little antics.. and then when you go to question them about it, they say "nothing" or the ever popular, "you heard me" well dumbass if I heard you I won't be asking you again, would I? and if you ain't got balls to tell it to my face the second time.. then why you saying shit..

sorry, just trying to understand stupid people

Well, I look at it like this:
If the person apologizes, and you accept it, let the anger go. But some things can be forgiven, but be honest that you can not fogive them, not be passive agressive, etc.