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I honestly think that a lot of guys mean well but are completely clueless sometimes.

Maybe if ya expand more...

Clueless as to when a girl likes us? If thats the case, we're ALWAYS clueless...honestly...

Like Manu said... Of course we're clueless as to when girl likes us. Women don't tend to be aggressive when seeking someone out. It's traditional that the man has to ask her out, man has to be the one to propose, etc...

However I absolutely enjoy playing mindgames. It's unexpected and keeps 'em on their toes. Mindgames are also used to get what one wants.

Originally posted by Manu
Maybe if ya expand more...

Clueless as to when a girl likes us? If thats the case, we're ALWAYS clueless...honestly...

Um . . . speak for yourself! Some of us KNOW what girls want, but we're deciding on if the reward is worth the price or not! LOL! Girls aren't NEARLY as enigmatic as you'd ALL like to fool yourselves into believing. The thing is that when most guys DO figure out the patterns, eh, it's too late. We're either too old or have already found a REAL woman. Why play games when you can enjoy a trophy? Let children play . . . adults have better things to do.

Clueless guys? More and more every day. Since guys no longer are "allowed" to take a position of power with a female i.e. we don't do the chasing as much, then there's no reason to develop any hunting skills. The way I'm starting to see it, basically the female just selects (by whatever criteria) what male she wants to be with (for the time being, anyway), and then they disappear to wherever young couples go.

Men are being bred as bimbos, now . . .

i think they are completely clueless about girls liking them. i majorly liked a guy who had no idea...i did everything but strip my clothes off to tell him. i bet even to this day he still has no idea i was lusting badly for him

Clueless dorks come in all colors, shapes and sizes.

The ODD thing is that women are actually easier to "get" as a woman. When I was at a party or gathering... whatever, all I had to do was smile and the chick actually had the cajones to come up to me and chat.

I've never really had that luck with guy. Granted, I have never outwardly sought a guy. I'm not flirtatious and I don't like a play on words when meeting someone, and guys usually expects that. Of the gentlemen I have dated, it has always been a friendship turned into more.

Nat, you just need to be more straight! "Hey man, you're a stud, what's up?" :) No one expects that type of honesty.

Cristina-
I'm not gay. I'm not straight. I'm just slutty. Where's my parade? -- Margaret Cho

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Oh man, one of those! You sure know how to pick 'em! LOL (J/K)

I hate "beating around the bush" (rofl, sorry), so I would be very forward about it. Yes or no man, there is no sorta or maybe about it.

I hate that crap too, I wish people could just be straight forward..

Originally posted by rearrange
i think they are completely clueless about girls liking them. i majorly liked a guy who had no idea...i did everything but strip my clothes off to tell him. i bet even to this day he still has no idea i was lusting badly for him



Some guys are that way - they're not tuned in to whether a female is showing interest.

Anyway, did you ever TELL him directly that you were interested? Then again, maybe HE wasn't interested...

Originally posted by eanax
Some guys are that way - they're not tuned in to whether a female is showing interest.

yes this is indeed true.. if you need proof go to my "I don't get it" thread..

of coarse being 73% insane doesn't help either.. :D:D:D

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