I'm sure we've all had them... The so-called friend who's generally anything but. They want your time, but are are never around when you need a favor back from them. They borrow your stuff and either don't take care of it or outright lose/never return it, etc... There's a million variations on this particular theme.

Personally formerly being an ultra nice guy, I've gotten shafted by several ex "friends" in the past, and I'm pretty choosy anymore about who I'll actually call a friend. On occasion, I ask alot from my friends, but I always try to give back more than I take.

Anyway, we all know the solution here is to just tell the "friend" to go perform an anatomical impossibility with themself :D so I'm not looking for any solutions or bitching about any situation in particular. Just needed to vent a little and thought others might feel likewise...

SOOOO, got a gripe with an ex or current "friend"? Vent it here:D

I have become much less trusting of people in general because I have been screwed by so many "friends". I found out that my best friend, basically my sister, of 14 years slept with the guy I have been in love with for 2 years. We weren't dating but she knew how much I liked him and she slept with him anyway. We were all hanging out at her house so the worst part was that I was there and knew in the back of mind what was going on. It's kind of hard not to get suspicous of what was going on when she followed him into the bathroom then into the bedroom and she locked the bedroom door. I went outside at that point to smoke a cigerette to get away from it all and she locked me out of the apartment! WTF! We were all drunk but to me that is no excuse...I have done stupid shit when I was drunk but owned up to my ignorance. She bold faced lied to me about it when I asked her what had happened...she couldn't believe that I thought she would do something like that. Well I found out 2 years later and we are no longer friends. She ruined a good thing just for a drunken "mistake" and then lying to me about it.

Originally posted by slacker79
I have become much less trusting of people in general because I have been screwed by so many "friends". I found out that my best friend, basically my sister, of 14 years slept with the guy I have been in love with for 2 years. We weren't dating but she knew how much I liked him and she slept with him anyway. We were all hanging out at her house so the worst part was that I was there and knew in the back of mind what was going on. It's kind of hard not to get suspicous of what was going on when she followed him into the bathroom then into the bedroom and she locked the bedroom door. I went outside at that point to smoke a cigerette to get away from it all and she locked me out of the apartment! WTF! We were all drunk but to me that is no excuse...I have done stupid shit when I was drunk but owned up to my ignorance. She bold faced lied to me about it when I asked her what had happened...she couldn't believe that I thought she would do something like that. Well I found out 2 years later and we are no longer friends. She ruined a good thing just for a drunken "mistake" and then lying to me about it.

that's pretty harsh..

I have a friend like that.. actually more like a cousin which makes it worse, b/c blood is thicker than water.. I swear he keeps his nose in my business all day long, and when I ask why he is mad at me b/c he heard a rumor, he freaking lies to me about it.. I mean come on.. I already know that you know, and you going to lie to your own cousin about it.. and it just happened evertime I would meet a girl, and start dating her, he would try his best to "steal" her away from me.. wtf? I just meet her, and he is talking about marriage and shit.. I can't believe we are cousins.. I hope I am adopted.. anyways, I got a solution.. stop letting him meet all the new girls.. problem solved.. now he thinks a good friend of mine is pregnant from me.. and I am still a f'n virgin.. I swear..

thanks for letting me rant :D

I have some worthless ****ing friends...One of my dearest friends had a rupture appendix (sp) yesterday..Yes THanksgiving..well to damn bad..he could have died..and these 2 *******s were to worried about stuffing there pathetic faces...

I went and sat at the hospital all day..Sorry Turkey can wait..my friend cant... That is a short..of what I need to rant about when it comes to pathetic friends.

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
I'm sure we've all had them... The so-called friend who's generally anything but. They want your time, but are are never around when you need a favor back from them. They borrow your stuff and either don't take care of it or outright lose/never return it, etc... There's a million variations on this particular theme.

Personally formerly being an ultra nice guy, I've gotten shafted by several ex "friends" in the past, and I'm pretty choosy anymore about who I'll actually call a friend. On occasion, I ask alot from my friends, but I always try to give back more than I take.

Anyway, we all know the solution here is to just tell the "friend" to go perform an anatomical impossibility with themself :D so I'm not looking for any solutions or bitching about any situation in particular. Just needed to vent a little and thought others might feel likewise...

SOOOO, got a gripe with an ex or current "friend"? Vent it here:D

Talking about any friend in particular Mr Shadowhawk? And dont ask if Im feeling guilty, because Im not....not really...alright maybe a little. Bah.

Rayne :p

A witch in a brawl... That could be interesting, but hardly sporting:D Believe me, I'll let you know when it's about you in particular, not that you don't have SOME reason to feel guilty here.

Originally posted by Shadowhawk
A witch in a brawl... That could be interesting, but hardly sporting:D Believe me, I'll let you know when it's about you in particular, not that you don't have SOME reason to feel guilty here.

Tell ya what...since we are the only two on here I will make it up to you now *raises eyebrows*....LMAO

Rayne

Once a tease, always a tease:rolleyes:

Well if you arent interested.........

Originally posted by Raynewitch
Well if you arent interested.........

I repeat (YET AGAIN)... Once a tease; always a tease... LMAO!

Originally posted by Shadowhawk


I repeat (YET AGAIN)... Once a tease; always a tease... LMAO!

If you aretn going to come up with new material Im not going to bother teasing erm I mean replying....

Rayne

Could I get that lucky???

You 2 are annoying me... :D There I feel better..

Originally posted by Princess
You 2 are annoying me... :D There I feel better..

You call THAT mud-slinging??? I thought you were a Cajun! That was totally rank amateur level!!! LMAO! :D:D:D

I'm a bad friend. As they say in the military...Trust me with your life but not your money or your wife.;) Sometimes my conscience bothers me...not too much though since I divorced her.

Originally posted by jwreck
I'm a bad friend. As they say in the military...Trust me with your life but not your money or your wife.;) Sometimes my conscience bothers me...not too much though since I divorced her.

What a crummy guy you are... You should be damned ashamed of yourself... Gee I like this..Getting things out..

Now THAT'S a bit more like it! :D:D:D

Originally posted by Princess

You should be damned ashamed of yourself...

I thought I was once, but just turned out to be gas.

FOr what it's worth to the both of you (Princess & Jwreck), I can actually respect Jwreck's attitude here. Assuming he's not just joking, at least he's got integrity enough to be up front about it. You know exactly when and where you can trust him, and when you can't. There's no games or backbiting there...

Yeah I know the kind.

You're talking to a 'nice guy.' I used to put up with way too much shit. It just pissed me off. I mean, maybe I am not a nice guy. You fiugre, I did things for friends and I DO expect similar things in return...maybe thats not being nice, maybe that is like a trade, or whatever...

But for watever the reason, nothing is more disheartening when you're consistently, always there for someoen, and then the one time you NEED them...they are no where to be found.

That's EXACTLY what I'm talking about Manu. If a friend actually is a friend, they should be willing to return the favor from time to time. That hardly means that they should spend their entire life at your service, but help once in a while when you're in need shouldn't be too much to ask in return.

I mean personally in the 33 years I've been alive, I've busted my ass for countless "friends". I can count on one hand the number that were ever there for me when I truly needed them though.

Having one of my Dearest friends in the hospital right now, I took the time to call his closest friends..well let me tell you how many have bothered to even pick up the phone to check on him..Thats ok..though..

They got a BITCH on their hands now..and they better stay the hell away from me.. Next time they call needing him for something. I am going to show them where they can ram it up there ass... :confused:

Originally posted by Princess
Having one of my Dearest friends in the hospital right now, I took the time to call his closest friends..well let me tell you how many have bothered to even pick up the phone to check on him..Thats ok..though..

That goes beyond being a crappy friend in my never to be humble opinion... That's just being a worthless piece of shit! What kind of person doen't give a damned that their friend has been in the hospital the last 3 days?!?

See, that's what's funny. No, I'm not just joking Shadohawk, and yes, I' try to be very up front with people about where I stand. If my friend was in the hospital, I'd give my liver for them if I could. If someone tried to hurt my friend they would have to literally KILL me first. But I'm still a bad friend because I'd **** his wife if she came on to me. I don't really know why, thats just the way I am. Like I said, I try to be honest and let people know where they stand with me up front, which is A LOT more than most people do.

Damned right it's alot more than most would do. As said, at least I can respect you, because you're honest about your shortcomings with friends

My ex-wife ran off with my "best friend" (well, bf #2 . . . bf #1 was TRYING, but stepped on his own dick in the process). They're still together . . . poor bastard. I wouldn't have been so bad if he would have waited to slip her the salami till AFTER we divorced.

Then again, I wouldn't have got the house, my cars, and my son . . . hey, maybe he really WAS my best friend, afterall . . .

Maybe he was... :D