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View Full Version : Girls who dont screw on the first date! Fordman50 11-21-2001, 12:53 PM :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: 92Notch 11-21-2001, 01:04 PM LOL :) :) Allegra 11-21-2001, 02:10 PM What?! What kind of girls do you want to be dating?! Foul Temptress 11-21-2001, 02:16 PM Gee Ian..that is a bit Harsh or warped... You taking your meds.. :p Rebel79 11-21-2001, 03:02 PM Nah I don't like girls that screw on the first date. They claim they can't stand not to have me (not to sound full of myself) at that moment. How can they want it that bad? Wouldn't it be better to let that sexual lust/urge buildup over time? jwreck 11-21-2001, 03:18 PM Originally posted by Rebel79 Nah I don't like girls that screw on the first date. They claim they can't stand not to have me (not to sound full of myself) at that moment. How can they want it that bad? Wouldn't it be better to let that sexual lust/urge buildup over time? Then they give you the ever popular "I'm not usually like this. " or "I've never done this before." Yeah right. Fordman50 11-21-2001, 04:28 PM Originally posted by jwreck Then they give you the ever popular "I'm not usually like this. " or "I've never done this before." Yeah right. LOL or Im a virgin or I have only been with like with one other guy. Dont worry Princess, it just sounded funny to say at the time:D tam 11-21-2001, 04:36 PM Originally posted by Fordman50 Dont worry Princess, it just sounded funny to say at the time:D Whats funny is that there's absolutely no content to your post, but that everyone knows what you're talking about :D Nic 11-22-2001, 12:26 AM What kind of girls do you want to be dating?! I don't think you date them, you hire them! :D Shadowhawk 11-22-2001, 01:09 AM You said it Nic, not me - LMAO! Neal Boortz is right, the truth is insensative! :eek: slacker79 11-22-2001, 06:19 PM If a girl f**ked on the first date, would you be willing to take her on a second date or be in a long time relationship with her? If she does that with you, just think of everybody else she has done that with! I don't think that is someone you want to bring home to mama! Brian 11-22-2001, 10:04 PM Originally posted by slacker79 I don't think that is someone you want to bring home to mama! I don't think he'd care... If thats all he wanted, LONG TERM would not be in his vocab... Contraband 11-23-2001, 02:52 PM Originally posted by slacker79 If a girl f**ked on the first date, would you be willing to take her on a second date or be in a long time relationship with her? If she does that with you, just think of everybody else she has done that with! I don't think that is someone you want to bring home to mama! But she said I was special! little_darkling 11-23-2001, 03:25 PM Originally posted by slacker79 If a girl f**ked on the first date, would you be willing to take her on a second date or be in a long time relationship with her? If she does that with you, just think of everybody else she has done that with! EXACTLY. i think anticipation is so great- sure it's an awful feeling, but in the end it's totally worth it. otherwise it's just a hop-on-hop-off thing, just a one-timer. that sucks. there's alot of easy girls out there..... wait, i totally forgot my point here. nevermind. ResidentRice 11-25-2001, 09:52 AM Originally posted by Contraband But she said I was special! Hahaha! Damn, that was funny. And you believed her? Just playing wit cha. ChaoticThoughts 11-26-2001, 02:17 AM If a girl had sex with me on a first date, I would try out a relationship...unless other factors came to be(pysco-bitch, etc.). Some people may like anticipation, but most girls are not worth waiting for. However, if a girl waited too long, I would not give her a chance for a relationship. I do not care if she has been with lots of other guys, she is with me now. buggy 11-26-2001, 08:05 AM Bullshit mindgames. It's sex. If it happens, and it rocks and it leads to whatever else... great. If they turn out to be obnoxious retards, that would of happened whether or not you screwed on the first date. People put too many labels on ****ing. Fordman50 11-26-2001, 09:30 AM Originally posted by buggy Bullshit mindgames. It's sex. If it happens, and it rocks and it leads to whatever else... great. If they turn out to be obnoxious retards, that would of happened whether or not you screwed on the first date. People put too many labels on ****ing. What she said D Durden 11-26-2001, 02:18 PM Hmmmm . . . never met one. You guys must be doing something wrong or something . . . How many of you have Camaros? That might explain it . . . CGord 11-28-2001, 11:49 PM My wife was a one-night-stand when I met her. That was in...uhh...1987. D'oh! buggy 11-29-2001, 06:59 AM Originally posted by CGord My wife was a one-night-stand when I met her. That was in...uhh...1987. D'oh! Ditto. Well, not my wife, but my husband. Or at least what I thought would of been a one nighter. ResidentRice 11-29-2001, 08:56 AM Buggy's a girl? Or, not to be offensive, a gay? buggy 11-30-2001, 09:39 AM rofl. I am not "a gay". :p I'm a girl. Cristina- DaOgre 11-30-2001, 12:04 PM youve just shattered his frail sense of reality Manu 11-30-2001, 12:17 PM Originally posted by IDigFatChicks Buggy's a girl? Or, not to be offensive, a gay? DUDE, you would have PISSED Tiff off with the 'a gay' line. ;) ResidentRice 11-30-2001, 09:18 PM Oh, yeah, that's right. Well, sheesh, I disclaimed it, didn't I? buggy 12-02-2001, 11:14 PM Are you a straight, Idig? ResidentRice 12-02-2001, 11:55 PM Of course. Can't you tell by my name? I mean, large women are still women, you know. buggy 12-03-2001, 12:07 AM I always thought it was in sarcasm. :) ResidentRice 12-03-2001, 12:50 AM You're right. I used it as my name cuz I don't think I've been attracted to a girl who's weighed more than 105 pounds in my life. Just couldn't think of a better name. buggy 12-03-2001, 02:12 AM Hahaha. Point taken. :D ResidentRice 12-03-2001, 07:07 AM So, are you on the anorexic side? We should get together, you're only a 15-hour drive or so away from me. Perfectly convenient! Haha, just kidding! buggy 12-03-2001, 08:46 AM No, I don't look like a 12 year old boy, sorry. :D ResidentRice 12-03-2001, 11:28 PM :( Darn. rearrange 12-04-2001, 03:53 PM how about girls who don't screw on the second date either..just as bad..cause now you've spent 20 dollars on her just to take her to the movies and another 15 to 20 dollars on her meals alone. damn women! srosner 12-20-2001, 03:42 PM Originally posted by CGord My wife was a one-night-stand when I met her. That was in...uhh...1987. D'oh! she was a one night stand when I met her too. j/k don't come hunt me down. The hole was there, I had to go for it. andylane 12-21-2001, 12:18 PM dude, my respect for you just drop even lower than before... don't talk to me at work anymore... you manwhore. :eek: jwreck 12-21-2001, 12:43 PM Originally posted by rearrange how about girls who don't screw on the second date either..just as bad..cause now you've spent 20 dollars on her just to take her to the movies and another 15 to 20 dollars on her meals alone. damn women! That's even worse!! ResidentRice 12-21-2001, 10:56 PM Try a girl that won't even go down on you for 5 months. Wedge 12-22-2001, 02:14 AM Originally posted by ResidentRice Try a girl that won't even go down on you for 5 months. damn dude.. 5 months??? that's a long time.. she must not be doing something right.. it only takes me about 10-15 min. :D:D:D ROFL Shadowhawk 12-22-2001, 03:59 AM You go down on guys?!? :eek: :D :eek: Corporate Avenger 12-22-2001, 10:39 AM Sick... Are these guys sober or are you taking advantage of them? Fordman50 12-22-2001, 10:47 AM Originally posted by andylane dude, my respect for you just drop even lower than before... don't talk to me at work anymore... you manwhore. :eek: Jackass, (oops) I mean Jackson :D In case you couldnt tell, this thread was a joke. Shadowhawk 12-22-2001, 10:50 AM Gee, and I wonder why he hacks your PC all the time:D:D LMAO! ResidentRice 12-22-2001, 01:23 PM Yeah, she just kept sucking and sucking..... didn't come up for air for almost a month straight, knew I shoulda never taken that tantric sex class they kept talking about. jwreck 12-22-2001, 02:14 PM What about girls that don't go down at all? I didn't think they still existed, but apparently my friends girl is like that, and the fool MARRIED her!!:eek: :eek: Wedge 12-24-2001, 10:46 AM Originally posted by ResidentRice Yeah, she just kept sucking and sucking..... didn't come up for air for almost a month straight, knew I shoulda never taken that tantric sex class they kept talking about. LMAO /me sells stang for honda Contraband 12-24-2001, 04:38 PM Originally posted by jwreck What about girls that don't go down at all? I didn't think they still existed, but apparently my friends girl is like that, and the fool MARRIED her!!:eek: :eek: Head is a beautiful thing. But sex is good too. Plus - if the girl doesn't go down at all - then getting head on the side can't really be considered cheating. 86Dude 12-27-2001, 03:32 PM Its pretty pathetic that society has digressed to such a point in which females are now judged by whether that put out on the first date. 50 years ago, such women would have been labeled whores, and appropriately blacklisted from society. I wonder what the new standard will be in 15 years? Maybe a thread will then appear talking about girls who don't have anal sex on their first date. jwreck 12-28-2001, 01:21 AM Originally posted by 86Dude Its pretty pathetic that society has digressed to such a point in which females are now judged by whether that put out on the first date. 50 years ago, such women would have been labeled whores, and appropriately blacklisted from society. I wonder what the new standard will be in 15 years? Maybe a thread will then appear talking about girls who don't have anal sex on their first date. So a women who acts like a man is a whore and should be shunned from society? I personally think that women are judged less NOW by their sexual habits than they were 50 years ago, but in all fairness, I wasn't around 50 years ago, so I can't really say. freedom 12-28-2001, 09:59 AM Originally posted by buggy Bullshit mindgames. It's sex. If it happens, and it rocks and it leads to whatever else... great. If they turn out to be obnoxious retards, that would of happened whether or not you screwed on the first date. People put too many labels on ****ing. I swear! You said it! Here Here! If I am physically attracted I don't need to wait. I don't have time to waste. The sex might be the only good thing to come out of it all(NPI). I knew my wife prior to hour first date and I knew that given the opportunity that I would **** her in a minute so when she invited me for dinner and the opportunity presented itself... Did I judge her for giving me what I wanted? Hell no! Now a woman that prick teases me? I'll never get a chance to know her to well because I will probably tell her to **** off!! 86Dude 12-28-2001, 03:26 PM Originally posted by jwreck So a women who acts like a man is a whore and should be shunned from society? I personally think that women are judged less NOW by their sexual habits than they were 50 years ago, but in all fairness, I wasn't around 50 years ago, so I can't really say. No, I wouldn't expect them to be blacklisted in today's society. What was right then isn't neccessarily right today. I just don't like sexual promiscuity, from a man or a woman. If a woman wanted to have sex on the first date my second thought would be, gee how many other first dates has she had? This is not a right wing morality rant from some religious lunatic, but I don't believe our society can exist much longer with such decaying morality. If we must act like cavemen then we might as well go around on all fours, sniffing everyones ass. Cosmo 01-21-2002, 03:34 PM Originally posted by Fordman50 :mad: :mad: : :mad: I haven't read this whole thread, but will you raise your daughters to screw on the firrtst daute to avoid all the frustration? Pony Babe 01-21-2002, 05:22 PM My thoughts.... Some men, want a girl to give it up on the first date and they continue to have a meaningful relationship... And other call that girl a slut...Depends how attracted you are that's all... I don't believe in the doublestandard Bs every one pulls... So if , you dont want any easy girl, be a better judge of who you go out with... Be nice and play well with each other.... Have a nice day... Shadowhawk 01-21-2002, 05:39 PM Originally posted by Cosmo I haven't read this whole thread, but will you raise your daughters to screw on the firrtst daute to avoid all the frustration? LOL! Ian started this thread as a joke Cosmo.:) Well put Pony Babe... You and buggy seem to sort of be on the same page on this topic if you read her post. buggy 01-21-2002, 05:50 PM I've never dauted myself, Cosmo. :p Shadowhawk 01-21-2002, 06:51 PM Originally posted by buggy I've never DAUTED myself, Cosmo. :p Please refer to thread on 'Foniks'. LMAO! :D:D Corporate Avenger 01-22-2002, 12:07 AM I haven't read this whole thread, but will you raise your daughters to screw on the firrtst daute to avoid all the frustration? I've never dauted myself, Cosmo. Please refer to thread on 'Foniks'. LMAO! Pleese refer to abuve threds... :p Cosmo 01-22-2002, 05:15 PM I guess you people never took French. Shadowhawk 01-04-2007, 02:14 AM OH GAWD!!! I had to bump this one just for the Deja Vu factor... So many long lost members... And such a perfect example of why FordMan was such a putz :D 86Dude 01-04-2007, 02:21 PM Mary mother of old threads. That said, I would never go out with a girl who wanted to bang on the first date. That's damaged goods. God know how many other dates she's been on. Further, any male who would screw on the first date is a lowlife scumbag, POS, immoral, peter pumper. Ice Pick 01-04-2007, 03:13 PM Save the best for last. Criminal 01-04-2007, 03:21 PM Jezus Louise this is an old thread! Just reading through it I am reminded of how many people, including the original poster are not here anymore. BTW: Does anyone know what happened to Fordman? Is he dead or something? igofast 01-04-2007, 03:22 PM I have no problem with girls that don't screw on the first date, my problem is the girls that don't WANT to screw on the first date. zipper99 01-04-2007, 04:48 PM Mary mother of old threads. That said, I would never go out with a girl who wanted to bang on the first date. That's damaged goods. God know how many other dates she's been on. Further, any male who would screw on the first date is a lowlife scumbag, POS, immoral, peter pumper. er...why assume she's been on other dates? Could it be she REALLY likes you and gets excited around you? Likewise your characterisation of the guy involved is pretty one dimensional. Sex on the first date equates with some kind of moral turpitude? You need to get out more... Ice Pick 01-04-2007, 05:35 PM This is one old thread, though haven't seen it before. 92Notch 01-04-2007, 05:48 PM This is one old thread, though haven't seen it before. Yeah, me neither. :) Baboon 01-05-2007, 11:24 AM I once took a chick to see Schindler's List on our first date. It was her idea. :hmm: We didn't screw. She was cool though. I wonder how she's doing. We crossed paths a few times over several years but things never worked out between us because the timing was always off. Either I was seeing someone or she was, or she was going off to live somewhere else for a while. I probably think about her the most out of all the women I've dated. TimeWellWasted 01-06-2007, 07:25 PM :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: In the long run of things, that's probley better. You are JUST getting to know a person on the first date. No_Brakes 01-06-2007, 10:24 PM The only guy who didn't want to do it on the first date was the one who (if he did) would have been my first! TheLateGreat 01-07-2007, 01:00 AM :not: buggy 01-07-2007, 10:57 AM Haha. I got an email for this thread, I was like, wtf? :) No_Brakes 01-07-2007, 12:53 PM LOL...I guess now you're updating your thread subscriptions!? :) buggy 01-08-2007, 12:37 PM Yup! They were all from like, four or five years ago! LOL. 86Dude 01-08-2007, 01:48 PM er...why assume she's been on other dates? Could it be she REALLY likes you and gets excited around you? Likewise your characterisation of the guy involved is pretty one dimensional. Sex on the first date equates with some kind of moral turpitude? You need to get out more... It's called self control. Where I come from people get to know one another first, fall in love second, and screw themselves silly 3rd. Gibson 01-08-2007, 01:53 PM It's called self control. Where I come from people get to know one another first, fall in love second, and screw themselves silly 3rd. b-i-n-g-0 optimus 01-09-2007, 10:20 PM It's called self control. Where I come from people get to know one another first, fall in love second, and screw themselves silly 3rd. Only problem is, you don't see the real girl until after you've had sex. It's the best way for men and women to get to know each other. If people did a little less courting and a little more sexing without the unecessary guilt, the world would be a happier place. 86Dude 01-09-2007, 10:42 PM Only problem is, you don't see the real girl until after you've had sex. It's the best way for men and women to get to know each other. If people did a little less courting and a little more sexing without the unecessary guilt, the world would be a happier place. Don't be obtuse. Your fantasy world would be filled with more disease, illegitimate kids, and broken families. Let's suppose your date has taken your advice and screwed 20 men before you, would you really want to have a relationship with used goods? That's disgusting and whorish. buggy 01-09-2007, 11:01 PM Only problem is, you don't see the real girl until after you've had sex. It's the best way for men and women to get to know each other. If people did a little less courting and a little more sexing without the unecessary guilt, the world would be a happier place. It can go both ways, some people confuse f****** with love. optimus 01-09-2007, 11:23 PM Don't be obtuse. Your fantasy world would be filled with more disease, illegitimate kids, and broken families. Let's suppose your date has taken your advice and screwed 20 men before you, would you really want to have a relationship with used goods? That's disgusting and whorish. Evidently that's how it is in Iceland. Either Iceland or Greenland, one of those. Women will have sex on the first date all the time, it's normal. They don't have the sexual hang ups over there. Saw a news report about that a while back. Anyway, I don't care if a woman had been with 20 guys before me. I'm not exactly a saint myself, so I can't hold her number of sexual partners against her. I don't care. 86, seriously, women have sex. They have sex with multiple partners. They lie about the real number of partners they've had. Big deal. 86Dude 01-10-2007, 01:05 PM Evidently that's how it is in Iceland. Either Iceland or Greenland, one of those. Women will have sex on the first date all the time, it's normal. They don't have the sexual hang ups over there. Saw a news report about that a while back. Anyway, I don't care if a woman had been with 20 guys before me. I'm not exactly a saint myself, so I can't hold her number of sexual partners against her. I don't care. 86, seriously, women have sex. They have sex with multiple partners. They lie about the real number of partners they've had. Big deal. Well, all I can say is womens sexual behavior in the south seems to be a tad more under control then it is in California. igofast 01-10-2007, 01:26 PM Thank god I live in CA :) Monster 01-10-2007, 02:14 PM :yeahthat: Yay sex! :D 86Dude 01-10-2007, 04:07 PM Degenerate, immoral sex addicts are exactly the kind of pathetic behaviour I expect from that crap state of excessive filth, wealth and greed, but that's how low lifes in CA roll huh? igofast 01-10-2007, 04:13 PM Life in CA is pretty fantastic. It's fun, it's warm, it's profitable, and I don't have to live my life pretending I'm someone I'm not. And we're hardly sex addicts. 86Dude 01-10-2007, 04:25 PM Shudders at the prospect of living in CA. I was offered a damn good job sight unseen by a fellow who manufactured fuel cells on some beach, what is it Newport or some shit, but I refused because if wanted to live with ****ing greasy mexicans, high crime, gang bangers, dense populations, then I'd move to mother ****ing mexico and my dollar will go a helluva lot further here then it ever could in the California nanny state. optimus 01-10-2007, 04:45 PM Shudders at the prospect of living in CA. I was offered a damn good job sight unseen by a fellow who manufactured fuel cells on some beach, what is it Newport or some shit, but I refused because if wanted to live with ****ing greasy mexicans, high crime, gang bangers, dense populations, then I'd move to mother ****ing mexico and my dollar will go a helluva lot further here then it ever could in the California nanny state. You should've taken the gig. Newport beach is awesome, one of the best beaches in southern california. White sand for miles, decent waves, clean air, good food. Beautiful. I can assure you, that there are virtually no gang bangers in Newport Beach. It's one of the wealthiest areas in the country. Imagine having a house where you can walk out to your backyard, which is a dock where you keep your boat, and take it out to the ocean just about anytime for some kick ass sailing or cruising under the sun. Oh, and the greasy mexicans make the best mexican food ese! Wedge 01-10-2007, 05:08 PM I might consider CA over the good ole southern states, but the weather here is not that bad. It's mostly the traffic and the fact you have to live so far out from the city (Atlanta) to be out of the ghetto. Besides, CA housing costs are astronomical. 86Dude 01-10-2007, 05:18 PM Oh, and the greasy mexicans make the best mexican food ese! Hence the reason their greasy. You sweat grease eating their food, but you can't help but love it. Yeah, that was it Newport Beach. Got offered 75K starting out in 1998 dollars sight unseen, but then a few years later the tech sector goes up in flames and people start fleeing the valley, LOL, 95% of my coworkers are California Natives, and major alcoholics for some reason. Monster 01-10-2007, 05:47 PM Drinking probably helps them forget that they left such an awesome state. :D igofast 01-10-2007, 05:52 PM Newport is probably the whitest city in southern CA :p optimus 01-10-2007, 05:52 PM And the snobbiest. TimeWellWasted 01-10-2007, 06:49 PM Don't be obtuse. Your fantasy world would be filled with more disease, illegitimate kids, and broken families. Let's suppose your date has taken your advice and screwed 20 men before you, would you really want to have a relationship with used goods? That's disgusting and whorish. b-i-n-g-o Monster 01-10-2007, 06:53 PM There's a difference between used goods and honing a skill to perfection. Just sayin'. :| Bear Stories 01-10-2007, 07:11 PM Don't be obtuse. Your fantasy world would be filled with more disease, illegitimate kids, and broken families. Let's suppose your date has taken your advice and screwed 20 men before you, would you really want to have a relationship with used goods? That's disgusting and whorish. Just out of curiosity, how many partners does it take to make a woman, "used goods"? 5? 10? 15? Or is 20 the magic number? Or is any woman who isn't a virgin, "used goods"? How many women have you had sex with? Are you "used goods"? dichromate 01-10-2007, 08:10 PM Everyone is "used goods" unless you a virgin (call me, I'll be gentle)... Nothing wrong with sleeping on the first date, its more like a bonus!!! 86Dude 01-10-2007, 10:27 PM Just out of curiosity, how many partners does it take to make a woman, "used goods"? 5? 10? 15? Or is 20 the magic number? Or is any woman who isn't a virgin, "used goods"? How many women have you had sex with? Are you "used goods"? If you REALLY want to know the answers to those questions then PM me because I'm not proud of it, but not for the reasons your thinking. 86Dude 01-10-2007, 10:29 PM Everyone is "used goods" unless you a virgin (call me, I'll be gentle)... Nothing wrong with sleeping on the first date, its more like a bonus!!! A teenager who would sleep with someone on the first date. Absolutely terrible.:( Monster 01-11-2007, 11:59 AM See, I'm torn on that statement, 86. As someone who was recently a teenager, I can remember all too clearly that from a teen's perspective, a girl who will sleep with you on the first date is an incredibly exciting concept. Sex is this wildly new thing and you know that you want it. But I also believe now that it can be very damaging for teens who do not have a well-defined sense of their own sexuality to become sexually active. So, I don't know if I would go so far as to call it terrible, but potentially damaging and possibly indicative of abuse or trauma, definitely. 86Dude 01-11-2007, 12:13 PM Yep, women were on my mind 24-7, but my main goal wasn't to get in their pants. Bear Stories 01-11-2007, 12:31 PM I'm gonna have to call shenanigans here....you can not tell me that, as a teenage boy, your main objective wasn't to get in her pants! What was it then? Stimulating conversation? Monster 01-11-2007, 12:42 PM Hey, I suffered from Nice Guy Syndrome as a teenager. Right up until I got to be broken hearted and bitter, I was big on the idealism and that whole notion of being with her (whoever "her" was at the time), and blah blah blah. Hell, my first relationship was a "no-sex-until-college" one, and I had no problem with that. 86Dude 01-11-2007, 01:06 PM I'm gonna have to call shenanigans here....you can not tell me that, as a teenage boy, your main objective wasn't to get in her pants! What was it then? Stimulating conversation? I'm completely serious. I was dead set against sex before marriage, but those nice Swedish boobies were too much to take. After that it wasn't my primary goal, rather an inevitable outcome that I could take my time with. There is so much more pleasure that comes from pure love than just a five second orgasm. zipper99 01-11-2007, 04:52 PM Maybe we need to finesse the definitions here. A "girl who has sex on the first date" doesn't neccessarily do that with EVERY date, the fact that she does with you is not an automatic qualification as a slut. Let's not get judgemental... medlar 01-11-2007, 05:49 PM See, I'm torn on that statement, 86. As someone who was recently a teenager, I can remember all too clearly that from a teen's perspective, a girl who will sleep with you on the first date is an incredibly exciting concept. Sex is this wildly new thing and you know that you want it. But I also believe now that it can be very damaging for teens who do not have a well-defined sense of their own sexuality to become sexually active. I content myself in thinking among other ways, that the goal of the second date is to get to the third date and so on. So, I don't know if I would go so far as to call it terrible, but potentially damaging and possibly indicative of abuse or trauma, definitely. This makes complete sense. If I were offered sex on the first date I might go ahead and say yes, although...in the back of my mind I'm thinking how many more before me? She's likely to have had a few miles already and idealy I'd like to be on even ground before embarking. On the other hand you just want to, if its not so hard to see she's into it as well..its just too easy. Then the physical and emotional risks come into the equation What about the before the first date when the primal urge is to have sex. I like the courtship and that anticipation as frustrating as it can get. but the feeling you have for someon you had sex with are different from those feelings you had for them when you didn't have a shag. Then your thinking you've taken a part of her you can't be giving back so it better be an all good experience. And I mean for her as well..Also you start feeling more committed and start to argue more. It can make a relationship stronger or die. I don't see myself ready for that much of a committment. medlar 01-11-2007, 06:57 PM I'm gonna have to call shenanigans here....you can not tell me that, as a teenage boy, your main objective wasn't to get in her pants! What was it then? Stimulating conversation? Pardon another post A stimulating conversation could lead to another bout of shenanigans so the anwer there is yes. Bear Stories 01-11-2007, 07:01 PM I like shenanigans. :D 86Dude 01-11-2007, 09:21 PM At this rate you people are going to start devolving into cavemen if you continue to fly the finger in face of culture, tradition, and decency. The Romans descended into a "if it feels good do it" culture too and they turned to complete shit. Monster 01-11-2007, 09:25 PM The French have been at it for longer than we have, and they're still around. ....wait, that wasn't a good example, was it? :p 86Dude 01-11-2007, 09:27 PM Maybe we need to finesse the definitions here. A "girl who has sex on the first date" doesn't neccessarily do that with EVERY date, the fact that she does with you is not an automatic qualification as a slut. Let's not get judgemental... Until you have your heart broken when you find out the ex girlfriend your still in love with just banged some guy on the first date, and then decides to call you because "we're just friends now" and brags to you about how much you taught her about sex, and how confident she is with other men. Yeah, it's a real ****ing treat when you put the cold chrome plated revolver in your mouth because you can't stand the pain of it. ****ing goddamn sluts. Bear Stories 01-11-2007, 09:30 PM OMG, Dude, you are completely hanging out with the wrong women. 86Dude 01-11-2007, 09:37 PM Past tense. Sykko 01-11-2007, 10:18 PM At this rate you people are going to start devolving into cavemen if you continue to fly the finger in face of culture, tradition, and decency. The Romans descended into a "if it feels good do it" culture too and they turned to complete shit. yeah but they didnt have the internet back then ;) TimeWellWasted 01-11-2007, 10:37 PM Maybe we need to finesse the definitions here. A "girl who has sex on the first date" doesn't neccessarily do that with EVERY date, the fact that she does with you is not an automatic qualification as a slut. Let's not get judgemental... of course not, but idk, I may be in the minority of thinking on this, but sex is a very emotional action, that bring 2 people as close as they can be, and it is my belief that a sexual relationship shouldn't be entered into lightly, or on a first date, when you are just getting to know someone. You should know the person a little. Have a emotional connection. How can you feel that way after one date? TimeWellWasted 01-11-2007, 10:38 PM Maybe we need to finesse the definitions here. A "girl who has sex on the first date" doesn't neccessarily do that with EVERY date, the fact that she does with you is not an automatic qualification as a slut. Let's not get judgemental... of course not, but idk, I may be in the minority of thinking on this, but sex is a very emotional action, that bring 2 people as close as they can be, and it is my belief that a sexual relationship shouldn't be entered into lightly, or on a first date, when you are just getting to know someone. You should know the person a little. Have a emotional connection. How can you feel that way after one date? Monster 01-12-2007, 05:19 AM Of course. That's why they're called "Meaningful Overnight Relationships." ;) zipper99 01-12-2007, 10:18 AM Until you have your heart broken when you find out the ex girlfriend your still in love with just banged some guy on the first date, and then decides to call you because "we're just friends now" and brags to you about how much you taught her about sex, and how confident she is with other men. Yeah, it's a real ****ing treat when you put the cold chrome plated revolver in your mouth because you can't stand the pain of it. ****ing goddamn sluts. The emboldened phrase above is the whole explanation, Dude. If you had gotten over her the phone call would have meant nothing. I appreciate the circumstances, it's happened to me in the past and put me off any kind of relationship with women for several years - thank goodness I found The Lovely Zippess and all is now right with the world. buggy 01-12-2007, 10:38 AM Until you have your heart broken when you find out the ex girlfriend your still in love with just banged some guy on the first date, and then decides to call you because "we're just friends now" and brags to you about how much you taught her about sex, and how confident she is with other men. Yeah, it's a real ****ing treat when you put the cold chrome plated revolver in your mouth because you can't stand the pain of it. ****ing goddamn sluts. Bitter, party of one. :p Canadiense 01-12-2007, 10:41 AM of course not, but idk, I may be in the minority of thinking on this, but sex is a very emotional action, that bring 2 people as close as they can be, and it is my belief that a sexual relationship shouldn't be entered into lightly, or on a first date, when you are just getting to know someone. You should know the person a little. Have a emotional connection. How can you feel that way after one date? "but sex is a very emotional action" It's a genetically commanded action, the purpose of which is reproduction, i.e. the preservation of the species, i.e. the survival of the gene. Now let's discuss sex rationally, like well informed people. Three words: Dopamine, Endorphin and Prolactin. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dopamine "Dopamine is commonly associated with the pleasure system of the brain, providing feelings of enjoyment and reinforcement to motivate a person proactively to perform certain activities. Dopamine is released by naturally rewarding experiences such as food, sex, use of certain drugs and neutral stimuli that become associated with them. This theory is often discussed in terms of drugs (such as cocaine and amphetamines), which seem to be directly or indirectly related to the increase of dopamine in these areas, and in relation to neurobiological theories of chemical addiction, arguing that these dopamine pathways are pathologically altered in addicted persons." http://www.entelechyjournal.com/pulling_away_after_sex1.htm "It's at the core of our sexual drives and survival needs, and it motivates us to do just about everything. This mechanism within the reward center of the primitive brain has been around for millions of years and has not changed. Rats, humans—indeed, all mammals—are very similar in this respect. You get a bigger blast of dopamine eating high-calorie, high-fat foods than eating low-calorie vegetables. You may believe that you love ice cream, but you really love your blast of dopamine. You're genetically programmed to seek out high-calorie foods over others. Similarly, dopamine drives you to have sex over most other activities. With dopamine as the driving force, biology has designed you to engage in fertilization behavior to make more babies, and urges you to move on to new partners to create greater genetic variety among your offspring. Your primitive brain accomplishes these goals of more progeny and promiscuity by manipulating your brain chemistry, and thus your desires and thoughts. High levels of dopamine increase sexual desire, encouraging you to behave recklessly. The thrill of a new affair and the rush from using pornography are examples of high dopamine. Unfortunately, consistently high levels of dopamine lead to erratic behavior and compulsions that are not conducive to survival. Most mammals, therefore, evolved with defined estrus periods when they "go into heat." The rest of the time they are more or less neutral about sex." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prolactin "Prolactin... Another effect, recently discovered by the University of Paisley and the Technische Hochschule Zürich, is to provide the body with sexual gratification after sexual acts. The hormone represses the effect of dopamine, which is responsible for sexual arousal, thus causing the male's refractory period. The amount of prolactin can be an indicator for the amount of sexual satisfaction and relaxation. Unusual high amounts are suspected to be responsible for impotence and loss of libido (see Hyperprolactinemia Symptoms)." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endorphin "Endorphines... disinhibit the dopamine pathways, causing more dopamine to be released. By hijacking this process, exogenous opioids (i.e. DRUGS) cause inappropriate dopamine release, and lead to aberrant synaptic plasticity which causes addiction." Hahah, thus the term SEX ADDICT. It's freggin true: sexual arousal produces endogenous hormones (drugs) which stimulate our pleasure/reward center in the brain, creating an addiction for sex. Unless your dopa levels are pathologically low, which happens. So the so called "emotion" is nothing but genetically commanded response to a drug that your body produces to fool you into f***ing.:) HAH!:) Nature is a comedian. buggy 01-12-2007, 11:23 AM I think you can release those chemicals into your body with a good jog... and you won't get any weird funky smelly diseases down there. :D spare change 01-12-2007, 11:25 AM What?! What kind of girls do you want to be dating?!sexually promiscuos:) |