Excuse me while I Vent.

[queenlillian1962]

First my daughter Aboo goes you with a man who is 24 years older than her and a convicted rapest with a rap sheet as long as your arm. She Moves out moves back in, finishes school and I tell her to get a Job. What does she do? She gets a Job as a fucking stripper! The place ain't even paying her. She gets on the pole and gets to take home the money men throw at her. WTF I don't know how the industry works but it don't sound right to me.

Then she moves out, she's gone for a month and then comes home again but only to leave her stuff at my house while she crashes on her friends couches, so she says. My porch is loaded with her stuff, she will be gone a week or better with no word from her. I often check her Facebook to make sure she's breathing. Her old fart of a boyfriend is in jail for assualt so she is just waiting for him to get out of jail to move in with him. Meanwhile she is seeing someone else?

My other two are nothing like this one,where did I go wrong?:bang:

[Sparkly Mary]

You didn't go wrong. You raised all of your kids with the same morals and values, I imagine.
She just chose to ignore what you tried to teach her.
There is nothing you can do about that.
She'll either figure it out, or she won't.
She's an adult now and is responsible for her own life and her own actions.
It's so hard when we see our kids going down the wrong path, but all we can do at that point is love them and try to help them back on the right one when they wake up and realize just how badly they've screwed up things.

Don't blame yourself. Once they turn 18, they are responsible, and there's not much that can be done.

[Baboon]

Sorry to hear about it, lillian. :(

So what strip club is it? :|

[Ponycar_302]

My other two are nothing like this one,where did I go wrong?:bang:

Sounds like you did everything right. Let me get her number!

[optimus]

My other two are nothing like this one,where did I go wrong?:bang:

Different baby daddy?

[queenlillian1962]

Sorry to hear about it, lillian. :(

So what strip club is it? :|

Are you planning on checking out my daughter?:hmm:

[queenlillian1962]

Different baby daddy?


NO!!!!! She is Hubby's and yes I'm 100% positive.

[fat mike]

i blame ron paul

[Pyrogue]

The replies have been...less than appropriate.

[Sparkly Mary]

The replies have been...less than appropriate.

Welcome to DA.
All of us here love Queenlillian. Well, maybe not AlbertJ, but the rest of us do. She knows we say what we say out of love, or at least with a spirit of sympathy/empathy.
And not all of the replies were less than appropriate. Mine was quite appropriate to the topic. Then again, I have one who's grown and another who is a teenager, so we've walked the same miles in the same shoes.

[vernon980]

The replies have been...less than appropriate.

[antiquity]

Stop being an enabler, when she leaves, don't let her back in the house. Its called tough love.