It's actually a nice feeling. I feel like I'm at the point where I can start trusting people more.

Sex is sssooo overrated anyway. It can be kind of burdensome to find too. Perhaps this is the newer, more confident Lowtide :-)

thats cool, it means youre not such a horny freak. im sure when you find someone that you really do love itll feel a helluvalot better anyway

Originally posted by phillycon
...I'm sure when you find someone that you really do love...

*Lowtide fights back cynicism*

You're right, thank you!! I am sure I will;)

I haven't had sex in a couple of weeks either but I don't think it is a nice feeling. Maybe I am just a ninfo but good god I need some!:D

Alison-

I am not sure what a ninfo is but it sounds kinky. :P

Lowtide-

I've found that physical gratification, lacking in any sort of emotional context, tends to get hollow and...just not fun after a while...at least in my experience.

I've never really been in that situation, but I've been in some situations where I was not 100% "with" someone...and ultimately, it DID feel good once it was over, mainly because I was never 100% comfortable in messing around with someone that I emotionally involved with.

This may just be a reprecussion of a similar type of effect for you.

Either way, whatever you're doing, as long as you feel GOOD and feel HAPPY about it, thats all that matters.

Originally posted by Ponycar_302
It's sad but true. If I were religious I'd say it was God's little irony for life. Guys peak sexually at 17-18 years old. Girls peak at.....35? WTF? Anyway, you're trying to keep your purity intact while trying to date a walking hormone. One of you has to give. This time it was you giving up the "love" you were looking for. Hopefully next time it will be him giving up thoughts of sex and accepting you.

The cold hard facts of life are that young men just want sex. Young women just want love. You're going to have a hard time finding it, especially when you hit college.
Originally posted by Lowtide
It's actually a nice feeling. I feel like I'm at the point where I can start trusting people more.

Sex is sssooo overrated anyway. It can be kind of burdensome to find too. Perhaps this is the newer, more confident Lowtide :-)
Great. A guy who's over the "peak" and he's "gay". Just my luck.

Originally posted by Manu
Alison-
I am not sure what a ninfo is but it sounds kinky. :P

Manu, come on! Ok, so I can't spell but everyone knows what a nymphomaniac is!:stupid:

Lol, thats what the joke was :P

I had to explain it to Heather too, then again, she thought the word WAS ninfo :P

Originally posted by Manu
Lol, thats what the joke was :P

I had to explain it to Heather too, then again, she thought the word WAS ninfo :P

I guess you can chalk my stupidity up to all the years of expensive private school! My parents wasted a whole bunch of money I have to say!

Originally posted by slacker79
I guess you can chalk my stupidity up to all the years of expensive private school! My parents wasted a whole bunch of money I have to say!

hey, i kind of liked my private school, of coarse all the money we gave to those crooks could of been better spent..

Originally posted by DotCom


Great. A guy who's over the "peak" and he's "gay". Just my luck.

I said the *short* answer was yes-- I feel a special place in my heart; however, for attractive, dark-skinned, sensitive, intelligent (not clingy!!!) bi-sexual women-- we seem to get along really well for some reason.

Originally posted by Manu
Alison-

I am not sure what a ninfo is but it sounds kinky. :P

Lowtide-

I've found that physical gratification, lacking in any sort of emotional context, tends to get hollow and...just not fun after a while...at least in my experience.

I've never really been in that situation, but I've been in some situations where I was not 100% "with" someone...and ultimately, it DID feel good once it was over, mainly because I was never 100% comfortable in messing around with someone that I emotionally involved with.

This may just be a reprecussion of a similar type of effect for you.

Either way, whatever you're doing, as long as you feel GOOD and feel HAPPY about it, thats all that matters. First, I think it's: No I Never Fornicated, Obviously...LOL

And secondly, while I agree sex with someone you share feelings with is better, the WORST piece I ever had was STILL pretty damn good...LOL