there's this girl who is pretty hot and im sure that she likes me. its a plus that we're into the same stuff(music, ideas, whatever). But, there's one little problem thats keeping me from going ahead and dating her. she's still a bit immature. its nothin serious, but it can get irritating sometimes. she giggles all the time, and some of the time its hard to converse with her. she only gets this way like 50% of the time. the rest of the time i like being around her and we can just chill out and everything is normal...

what to do? need help.

wedge i dont wanna hear your winin' about i got over pregnancy, why cant you get over immaturity.
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And she's the immature one? (http://www.discussanything.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=11601)
Go ahead and aske her out.

A little immaturity may be only slightly irritating right now, but with familiarity comes increased sensitivity to such things. Time will likely only amplify whatever problems you currently see.

To me, a good rule of thumb is that initial gut instinct. You already feel that things won't be quite right due to this issue of her immaturity, and you should listen to that, IMO and probably let this one drop.

Perhaps check back in on her life in 6 months or more and see if she's had enough life experiences to bring about some change for the better.

dating immature girls ain't so bad.. it just makes you feel good that you aren't as bad as they are.. you get use to it too..


besides everyone grows up eventually just think if she was older and more mature.. then she would be catch.. might as well tag her and stick around for nature to make it's course

You say she's immature and annoying 50% of the time?!

There's no way I'd date someone who drove me crazy half the time. Why set yourself up for that kind of drama? If getting into a relationship felt right with this person, I don' t think you'd be asking us for advice.

well phillip is immature about 20% of the time.. (and yes, hanging out of my sunroof, to yell obsinities at the local ricer house counts :)) so i think they would make a cute couple..

i think philly just wants some nookie anyways.. ;)

reeeal funny big al. they diserved that, and you thought it was funny so shut it. its no worse than that person who put all those black marks out in front of their drive way. howd that one happen? i cant remember

Black marks are not immature, they are a form a testing.

Otherwise listen to Karma. If you think she is immature now, give it three months and you'll think she's in diapers.

Originally posted by phillycon
there's this girl who is pretty hot and im sure that she likes me. its a plus that we're into the same stuff(music, ideas, whatever). But, there's one little problem thats keeping me from going ahead and dating her. she's still a bit immature. its nothin serious, but it can get irritating sometimes. she giggles all the time, and some of the time its hard to converse with her. she only gets this way like 50% of the time. the rest of the time i like being around her and we can just chill out and everything is normal...

what to do? need help.

wedge i dont wanna hear your winin' about i got over pregnancy, why cant you get over immaturity.
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How old is she? How old are you?

If you guys are in high school, you will grow out of it, plus, her giggling might be just nervousness, she may have a crush on you!

Originally posted by phillycon
reeeal funny big al. they diserved that, and you thought it was funny so shut it. its no worse than that person who put all those black marks out in front of their drive way. howd that one happen? i cant remember I'll bet his neighbors just LOVE him........

if you're both immature 20% of the time, then 1/5th of your day can be spent cracking farts around or on her.
this would be the greatest relationship ever.

Originally posted by mrWr0ng
if you're both immature 20% of the time, then 1/5th of your day can be spent cracking farts around or on her.
this would be the greatest relationship ever. ROFLMAO!!!!

The giggeling and stupid stuff could just be covering for nerves. But you'll never know if you don't give it a shot.

i guess ya'll are right. that is a good point about the farting though. good times.

two words: DUTCH OVEN.

one more problem just came up, and it sucks. i can tell that shes not quite over her ex bf. which i dont really get cause he was a moron anyway. i dont know, im havin a really hard time in the ladies dept. at the moment, come to think of it, ive had the same problem for quite some time now. oh well, some of us aren't ment to be pimps i guess.