So..I have not been on here in a long time. Been working two jobs, trying to get over the douche ex--the ex that got me pregnant! He was excited at first, and has gone back and forth more times than a fat woman in the middle of the desert waving a fan in her face on wanting to be with me to support me & the baby...it has of course again totally screwed with my head. Every time I try to cut this guy off, he finds a way back in, apologizing differently every time. And he has a profile back up on match.com too. I'd like his support, but is he really helping me if he is looking for other chicks? I'm glad I have my family & friends available, but just wish the father was different :(
I want some questions answered:
1. Would a girl date a 37 never married guy with a baby on the way?
2. Would a guy date a pregnant woman or a woman with a newborn?
3. Do I trust that he will pay child support? ( he can afford it, makes 11,000 a month, but made some comment about only giving me 850)

1. Don't know.
2. No way.
3. No. Trust nothing. Take him to court.

Nevermind

Would a girl date a 37 never married guy with a baby on the way?

Stay the fluck away from the pregnant guy, especially when they have a lot of blubber to begin with. He will probably end up never losing the additional fat he gains from the pregnancy.

Call the Attorney General in your state/city and set up temporary child support until the baby is born. Then you get permanent child support. Get it taken directly out of his check (garnishment).

I might date you, if you were cute enough. There are guys out there who are into pregnant women. There should be some sites on the internet.

Do what coat said, and don't even consider pursuing this guy. I don't know if you used protection and it failed or if you didn't at all, but please, never have unprotected sex again....it could cost you your life.

Good luck:)

I might date you, if you were cute enough. There are guys out there who are into pregnant women. There should be some sites on the internet.

This made me LOL. :D


Sorry to hear about your predicament, Val. I've got to say, I'd probably stay clear of a woman who was preggy. Unless she just wanted to hump and promised not to tell my wife.

Based on pretty much every one of your posts on this board and your current predicament I have to ask...are you going to heed any of the advice given to you here?

I think not.

This made me LOL. :D


Sorry to hear about your predicament, Val. I've got to say, I'd probably stay clear of a woman who was preggy. Unless she just wanted to hump and promised not to tell my wife.


I'm NOT pregnant, and I want to hump. :|

1. Don't know.
2. No way.
3. No. Trust nothing. Take him to court.
:stupid:

...There are guys out there who are into pregnant women. There should be some sites on the internet.

She could put up a Craigslist ad and try to find someone locally.

Including that sig she's currently using in her ad would certainly work as an attention-getter.

I say you might wanna take a break from romance altogether. More trouble than it's worth at this point.

She could put up a Craigslist ad and try to find someone locally.

Including that sig she's currently using in her ad would certainly work as an attention-getter.Ha! You're right, I hadn't even noticed her sig

Stay the fluck away from the pregnant guy,
Ya know how everyone always writes "lol" but rarely mean it literally? well that statement honestly made me laugh out loud:rofl:

Anyhoo, If all I was looking for was sex then sure i'd have sex with a (single) man with a baby on the way (note, i did not say pregnant man!). if i wanted an actual relationship I would not date him, too much going on in his life.

i don't date women, but if i did my answer would be the same as above.

on the child support thing - don't trust him to give you any certain amount, get it written up and signed by you, him, and lawyers, hopefully it won't have to go to court.

I say you might wanna take a break from romance altogether. More trouble than it's worth at this point.

I agree with Betty.

I'm answering some questions...
1. I forgot about my sig....yea, need to change that.
2. I just filed for child support. and am working on a parenting plan
3. I bought a "rabbit" ( not really a question, but fills the boyfriend void)
4. I think in a way I like to torture myself..which is why I kept going back to this douche.
5. He could "look" pregnant (beer gut) ha

thanks guys

Glad to hear you listened to all the advice people have given you. I'm sure anything else we say will fall on deaf ears as well.

Glad to hear you listened to all the advice people have given you. I'm sure anything else we say will fall on deaf ears as well.
Well she did file for child support.

go ugly. try and find a good guy.