I'm in danger of becoming a good person. I advised a chic that has been flirting with me that she needs to inform her husband of the broken relationshionship they have before we move forward. I trhink I'm in danger of becoming A good person. I'd l;ove to **** her, but I refuse toi be "that guy", you know?

I'm in danger of becoming a good person. I advised a chic that has been flirting with me that she needs to inform her husband of the broken relationshionship they have before we move forward. I trhink I'm in danger of becoming A good person. I'd l;ove to **** her, but I refuse toi be "that guy", you know?

Wait.

I've done the married woman/other dude thing at least three times that I can remember, and one lasted almost two years. It's fun, it's exciting as hell and it's usually all make believe. She'll go home to her husband, and you'll go home alone filled with her BS about leaving her husband "soon".

Although one actually did now that I think about it, but that was the exception.

Now, if you WANT a risky, on/off relationship with no real strings or future, and you like the excitement of sneaking around, bang her, but be advised; you may get attached, or she may too. I would also consider any kids she may have and what impact you have on them, not to mention, her husband, who may also have guns and other weapons. That's why broke me of the habit.

Many married women are very often easy pickings, especially if they have busy husbands who are out working their asses off to support the woman and a few kids, but everything has it's price.

Oh, and if they do it with you they'll do it to you as well. Good luck.

I'm in danger of becoming a good person. I advised a chic that has been flirting with me that she needs to inform her husband of the broken relationshionship they have before we move forward. I trhink I'm in danger of becoming A good person. I'd l;ove to **** her, but I refuse toi be "that guy", you know?

Good for you, jwreck. Betrade has brought up some valid points about whether the fun will last, but consideration of how your actions might affect the husband or the husband/wife relationship seems oddly lacking even though those are serious moral concerns. Some marriages can be saved even if they're in bad enough trouble that one partner is tempted to cheat, but not if "that guy" steps in. I've seen other marriages fail anyway, but less messily than they would have if cheating had been involved. It's good that you have some sympathy for the husband, and aren't just thinking about how this might work out for you.
Oh, and if they do it with you they'll do it to you as well. Good luck.
Similarly, if you'd do that to someone else, what right would you have to complain when it's done to you? What would that say about your readiness to re-enter that whole emotional milieu? To put it simply: if you have doubts, don't.

Good for you, jwreck. Betrade has brought up some valid points about whether the fun will last, but consideration of how your actions might affect the husband or the husband/wife relationship seems oddly lacking even though those are serious moral concerns. Some marriages can be saved even if they're in bad enough trouble that one partner is tempted to cheat, but not if "that guy" steps in. I've seen other marriages fail anyway, but less messily than they would have if cheating had been involved. It's good that you have some sympathy for the husband, and aren't just thinking about how this might work out for you.

Similarly, if you'd do that to someone else, what right would you have to complain when it's done to you? What would that say about your readiness to re-enter that whole emotional milieu? To put it simply: if you have doubts, don't.

Not complaining. I've long repented of my evil ways, and sharing a bit of wisdom from experience to help other would be homewreckers avoid the situation.