so my second quasi-relationship since my world was dropkicked is over. i really liked her to. :nonono:

Look, you can't expect everything to just fix itself after what you went through. It took a while to get into this mess, and it may take a while to get out.

Be patient, and be thankful you didn't waste any more time on the girl. People waste years in relationships that will never work, and never should have been started. If it wasn't right, then you just have to move on, and don't beat yourself up about it. Realistically, you probably would have gotten tired of her eventually anyway.

She would have been unhappy because the relationship wasn't right, and blaming you for it, which would have gotten on your nerves really bad, resulting in pure misery, stress and anxiety on your part, because you would have to constantly hear about how unhappy she was. You don't need that.

She obviously wasn't who you thought she was, or you would still be seeing her, so be glad you didn't get too involved. It could have been far worse.

I didn't keep up with your hugemongous thread, sorry. Why not trying being single for a bit? Hang out with your buds, have a good time. Party it up?

I didn't keep up with your hugemongous thread, sorry. Why not trying being single for a bit? Hang out with your buds, have a good time. Party it up?well, that was pretty much the issue, she wanted something more serious, i'm just trying to have a good time. hence the term "quasi-relationship". :cool:

sweeet :nice: I didn't catch the little things.. didn't realize this was in your journal either :|

and your thread did get friggin huge!

and your thread did get friggin huge!that's because people here are freaking awesome. :nice: i'm so loved. :cool:

find somebody who is interested in a similarly quasi thing. of course the problem with that is that nomatter what women say at first, they all secretly want to be wives. :p

find somebody who is interested in a similarly quasi thing. of course the problem with that is that nomatter what women say at first, they all secretly want to be wives. :p

You can't do much about built-in hardware. :)



And yes, jwreck, we luvs you. :cool:

You can't do much about built-in hardware. :)

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And yes, jwreck, we luvs you. :cool:

and that too :)

awww, group hug. *gropes myst and spab*

find somebody who is interested in a similarly quasi thing. of course the problem with that is that nomatter what women say at first, they all secretly want to be wives. :p

Ain't it the truth.

Most women want to be taken care of deep down, and give themselves in return. Men want to take care of women deep down, as long as the women treat them nicely.

A man will do almost anything for a woman who treats them nicely, but when the nagging starts, the kids come along and the man is bumped down to number two or three, everything is subject to change.

Ain't it the truth.

Most women want to be taken care of deep down, and give themselves in return. Men want to take care of women deep down, as long as the women treat them nicely.

A man will do almost anything for a woman who treats them nicely, but when the nagging starts, the kids come along and the man is bumped down to number two or three, everything is subject to change.

Here we are in agreement. :)

find somebody who is interested in a similarly quasi thing. ...

Logically, this would be the answer. There does seem to be one other little problem, besides the one Spab already stated.

...they all secretly want to be wives. :p

Quite a few of those who would be looking for something like that already are, secretly or not. :hmm:

well, that was pretty much the issue, she wanted something more serious, i'm just trying to have a good time. hence the term "quasi-relationship". :cool:
Er, what's the point of dating if it doesn't follow it's natural progression to being more serious?
Anything else is just going to wind up being destructive to one or the other, or both.

But, regardless...
I could see dumping her if she wanted something more serious MAYBE if you were the ******* type that just uses women... But you're not, are you?
WHY be sad about it aftwerwards? If you're sad about it, then that means you cared for her and you should've let it get more serious >_< If you weren't sad about it, then sure fine let her go. Doesn't the fact that you're sad about it tell you something!?

GAH! My brain hurts...

Er, what's the point of dating if it doesn't follow it's natural progression to being more serious?
Anything else is just going to wind up being destructive to one or the other, or both.

But, regardless...
I could see dumping her if she wanted something more serious MAYBE if you were the ******* type that just uses women... But you're not, are you?
WHY be sad about it aftwerwards? If you're sad about it, then that means you cared for her and you should've let it get more serious >_< If you weren't sad about it, then sure fine let her go. Doesn't the fact that you're sad about it tell you something!?

GAH! My brain hurts...its not nearly that simple. the point of dating is not only to follow the natural progression towards marriage, but to enjoy the ride. do you ever get in the car and drive without a definite destination in mind? its about...companionship. no one has to be used just because you don't marry them. besides, i didn't dump her,she said she wasn't happy with the situation, that she wanted more, i said i understand, but i can't do that now, and that was that. sure, i'm a little sad, but i'm not crying in bed sad. just kinda a bummer, ya know? and i'm not saying it could've never turned into something serious, but right now that's about the last thing i need. this is something she was made aware of, and was ok with. honestly, the fact that she was honest about her needs and her feelings actually restores a little bit of hope that there may actually be a few women out there who have a little bit of honesty and sanity.

i need another group hug *looks around for spab and myst* :hiya:

:hiya:

:hiya:

find somebody who is interested in a similarly quasi thing. of course the problem with that is that nomatter what women say at first, they all secretly want to be wives. :p


Wives!!! No way jose! Hahaha...

You're so brave J, at least you're getting out there and taking the baby steps. :) It also helps weed out the wackos!!!

take your time, is my advice.