When you learn that someone wants/is attracted to you? Or does it have the opposite effect?

Thoughts?

The chase can be highly entertaining and once the chase is over, there are two categories for me; if you were just on my "list of things to do", then it probably will end there, but if I'm genuinely interested in you as a person, knowing that that interest is returned is a huge turn on for me.

Actually if I hear that someone is attracted to me I feel more confident to ask them out to dinner or a movie. It's a huge plus if I hear that before anything else.

I'm to old to chase. I window-shop.

When you learn that someone wants/is attracted to you?

Well, then I'll know she's completely insane. No sane woman would want me when there are better looking men around. :nonono:



btw... loose ==>> lose
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I'm to old to chase. I window-shop.
:stupid:

at first no, eventually yes. im a serial fornicator. im 22 and have bedded 78 women

When you learn that someone wants/is attracted to you? Or does it have the opposite effect?

Thoughts?

I make every attempt to apply reason and logic to the situation.

If that doesn't work I become an *******.

Sometimes it happens without even trying. :|

When you learn that someone wants/is attracted to you? Or does it have the opposite effect?

Thoughts?


nope, alot of times, it gives me the courage to say i am attracted to them as well, which is something i probley wouldn't do without knowing how they felt ( as I am urber shy, but that is something I am working on )

I've experienced both in my life. I remember being ultra attracted to a girl or two, then when they showed interest I noticed I didn't want them as much. I've also experienced becoming way more attracted to a girl once they told me what they thought of me. I think it's interesting how that works.

nope, alot of times, it gives me the courage to say i am attracted to them as well, which is something i probley wouldn't do without knowing how they felt ( as I am urber shy, but that is something I am working on )

Makes sense.

The chase can be highly entertaining and once the chase is over, there are two categories for me; if you were just on my "list of things to do", then it probably will end there, but if I'm genuinely interested in you as a person, knowing that that interest is returned is a huge turn on for me.

Put me on your list of things to do. Thanks. 'Preciate it.

Actually if I hear that someone is attracted to me I feel more confident to ask them out to dinner or a movie. It's a huge plus if I hear that before anything else.

If only this could happen all the time, huh?

I'm to old to chase. I window-shop.

I have no idea what that means. Oh, ok I get it now.

Well, then I'll know she's completely insane. No sane woman would want me when there are better looking men around. :nonono:

Hearing that bothers me, if you're being serious.

I make every attempt to apply reason and logic to the situation.

If that doesn't work I become an *******.

Sometimes it happens without even trying. :|

And jojo is making absolutely zero sense, again. :cool:

I'm with Lisa.

i tend to freeze up and avoid the person completely. avoid eye contact or accidental booty touching and everything. why? because i am completely freaked out. to quote Scrubs "I use sex as an icebreaker."

no, im kidding. i dont use sex as an icebreaker all the time. ok more like never.

Do you loose interest...

only when I am finished.lol

It depends. If I get the feeling he's seriously into me, I may get turned off, eventually, because I don't appreciate puppies - no pun intended. Of course, it all mainly depends on his personality, if he's interesting, etc.

If I get the feeling that guy likes me, but he's still considering his options, well, that's perfect for me. I like the freedom and the challenge, as well, mainly.

Put me on your list of things to do. Thanks. 'Preciate it.


Sean, check. :D

When you learn that someone wants/is attracted to you? Or does it have the opposite effect?

Thoughts?

I don't think it really changes my attitude one way or the other. If I like her, I'll keep liking her. If I don't, finding out she likes me isn't gonna change that.

If anything my interest is peaked.
I mean this sort of thing doesn't happen everyday, otherwise I'd get pretty bored by it all. And I don't even give much of a chase for them.

I find it flattering but kinda intimidating nowadays, especially since I am married and have no interest in someone else being attracted to me, except hubby of course, and he makes it all too obvious that he's attracted.

Now when I was younger and quite the attention ho, then obvious attraction from the opposite sex (unless he were a complete ugly git or something) was a big turn on. Talk about your ego boost.:nice: