It's apparant to me that many people here think I'm weird when it comes to all things sexual... It's through PMs and general posts that I'm getting this general idea...
I just wanted to inform the general population that I get turned on and have fantasies just like anyone else...
Some things I'm really looking forward to someday. I look forward to many things and fantasize about them quite often.
I fantasize about the "I want you now" whispered into my ear in a public place and sneaking off, or sitting by a bonfire with a large group and sneaking off to kiss in the woods. I fantasize about softly biting the neck and ears while letting out a hot and slow breath, and the like done to me. I fantasize about making out to the point we almost swallow eachothers' tongues. I fantasize about warm baths and dimly lit candles(and candlewax). I dream about waking up in the morning and waking that special someone up by giving them a "good morning."

On the same token I fantasize about non-sexual things related to having a significant other that I hold on the same level of importance, if not more important! Falling asleep with that person in your arms. Sharing a blanket and a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate with a bowl of popcorn watching a great movie. Going on cruises down the highway, or through the parks in the car on a warm summer night. Riding the skilift together holding each other tight because you're afraid you'll fall. Going out to an affair and dancing the night away.

I fantasize a lot about things and I just wanted to make it clear that I'm not the asexual anti-love bastard that some of you make me out to be. I just value some things in the second list I gave moreso than the things in first list. Call me weird for that if you want, but excuse me for the first thing going through my mind when I think of women to NOT be sex...

This has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood Gibson.

wow gibby, candle wax. You're a dirty boy.

:jk: I hear ya. I never thought otherwise. I think the same way.

your still weird

See this is what I'm talking about Yuppy. Blatant disregard for anyone.

Right on Gibs. Have you had sex yet, if you don't mind me asking?

On the same token I fantasize about non-sexual things related to having a significant other that I hold on the same level of importance, if not more important! Falling asleep with that person in your arms. Sharing a blanket and a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate with a bowl of popcorn watching a great movie. Going on cruises down the highway, or through the parks in the car on a warm summer night. Riding the skilift together holding each other tight because you're afraid you'll fall. Going out to an affair and dancing the night away.

I think you plagiarized my mental diary. ;)

Right on Gibs. Have you had sex yet, if you don't mind me asking?
Nah, and it's not high on the importance list as you know. :) I need a girlfriend first :D I just don't get into situations to meet people outside of work. At work I'm very popular. Everyone loves Matt :) Only think is I'm apprehensive about asking someone out from work, although there are a couple people that I like.
Aside from that, I only meet new people, like, through polite conversation with the counter girl while getting a coffee, getting my haircut, or getting lunch. And although we wind up talking for a while it always ends up as a "well, seeya!" because I don't think it's right to ask someone out while they're working :hmm: Even if we seem to be relatively into eachother.
If I'm out in public or something at a bar I'm usually shmoozing with my friends and don't have time or desire to seek out anyone else new. That is unless they're introduced to me, which doesn't happen often because we're relatively close-knit.

I think you plagiarized my mental diary. ;) Good man :D

I also forgot one other thing... Sneaking to the local playground at night and smooching on the junglegym by moonlight :drool:

you're a well rounded kid

don't change a thing

Awww...Gibby, when you do meet someone you hit it off with. She is going to be a very lucky girl. ;)

you're a well rounded kid

don't change a thing

what he said:)

Awww...Gibby, when you do meet someone you hit it off with. She is going to be a very lucky girl. ;)

what she said. :)

your still weird


Yeah, because being with 76 people at age 22 is normal :rolleyes:

You're a cool guy Gibs. Any woman would be proud to have you as a boyfriend/hubby.

Rare breed, that's for sure.

anyone who doesn't objectify women is totally homoghey

You are such a sweetie, Gibby. Don't ever change!

I hope all of your dreams come true :)

Nice Gibson!

I didn't really think you were weird at all.
Even if you didn't have a sex drive, I wouldn't think you were weird.

I think you should go for it: ask those girls on a date: don't worry about them working. Find a discreet and fun way to let them know you want to see them! If they freak out or just say no, don't give it another thought... and keep looking for the one who will count herself lucky to be asked by you!

M.